It's Scary To Remarry

This divorce caught me by surprise. Tia Mowry and Husband of 14 years Cory Hardrict is calling it quits. Yes they are divorcing 

Kamesha is a Communications Specialist, Project Manager, and Radio Personality from Huntsville, AL. She first got her start in media at her college's radio station and has worked with several stations and platforms over the last 15 plus years.   She's currently the late morning host for online radio platform, X360 Music. Her love for all things communication has pushed her to pursue her recent master's degree and soon enter the field of communications coaching with an emphasis on love and relationships.   She is a mom of three, her oldest heading to college this fall.   In her spare time, Kamesha enjoys traveling, sleeping, spending time with her amazing partner, and binge-watching reality shows.   She looks forward to sharing her perspective and art of effective communication with the world one day.   

-Would you describe your dating experiences from the past as mostly good or bad?  

 -How has dating changed you?   

-In a Tweet, you posted it stated, “wait for the one who shatters every notion you’ve ever known love to be.” Can you break that down for us?   

-When dating, do we choose wrong or is the dating pool really that bad?   

-What is the biggest mistake you see women make when dating? How can they fix it?

Twyla M. Marks is a woman of God who exemplifies the life of an overcomer. She's a Texas native, sports lover, specifically speaking a Dallas Cowboys lover, and has worked in the healthcare industry for 20+ years. She's a single mother of two adult children.   She is a survivor of a toxic marriage which sadly led to divorce. 

Her marital roller coaster ride and recovery has positioned her as an expert on helping struggling relationships find resolutions. Her book The Unexpected The Ride of My Life released in December 2019, which is one woman’s journey through the highs and lows of marriage and divorce. Twyla takes us on the roller coaster of her life.   ​

The bumps, jerks, curves, twists, and turns will make you feel almost if you are going to be sick. She is the creator of Facebook group of Life After Divorce Get Your H-A-P-P-Y back! She is the owner of the exclusive gear, Get Your Happy Back! She is Coach Twyla, The Get Your Happy Back Divorce Coach and the host of @Divorce Talk with Twyla  which is a LIVE weekly show on YouTube where she talks ALL things divorce with her expert guests each week.

-You have recently gone through a divorce. What have you learned from it? What is one piece of advice to those who desire to marry?  

-In your videos you talked about the loss of your brother:  In November, 2014, my brother died from complications from pneumonia, six months later, my dad that raised me passed away.  What was your grieving process like?   

-In a Tweet you said I’m mad that I can ask you for anything except for what I really wanted. Let’s talk about what you meant in that Tweet    

-You said in your blog: I spent years giving myself away; emotionally, physically and sexually. Sometimes by choice, sometimes lack of knowledge and courage, and a few unfortunate times against my will.  I feel a lot of black women have gone through the same thing. Let’s talk about this in detail  

-In the blog you talked about:  Saving yourself and making you a priority over family, relationships, etc…  This is a taboo conversation especially when it comes to women. How can women buy into this mindset?   

Bonus:  -why do the people I profess my love to, always seem to hurt me real bad in the end, and why do I keep losing more and more of myself after every break up.”   I feel this is common in most relationships, especially with women. How can we prevent it?   

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Wait a minute! Am I blaming single moms for today's culture? Single moms are the largest demographic structure of homes today. What about the men? Doesn't it take two to make a child? Why aren't I jumping on the men? Stay tuned.  Listen to the episode I did on @MentalDialogue here entitled Do Wives See Sex As A Chore? https://www.blogtalkradio.com/mentald...

This video may cause a trigger warning! Tread lightly because of the sensitive content. I decided to talk about this because of the influence of lifestyle coach and blogger @Lewis Howes story and the song Mother I Sober by my favorite hip hop artist @Kendrick Lamar I had to share my story with the world to let other men know they aren't alone

Today's guest is a yoga instructor, dance enthusiast, cycling enthusiast, and body conditioning. Her mission is to offer programs that encourage body positivity, movement, liberation and expression for all body types to support a healthy mind, body, heart and spirit. Welcome Althea Smith.  In this episode we discuss:  

-How do you remain positive while single? 

Why do we make being single a bad thing?   

-What lesson did your last relationship teach you?  

-What is the biggest mistake women make while dating?  

-What is confidence? How does one gain confidence?  

-In a Tweet you said:  A Black man told me when I went natural that that’s why I was single.   Then when I got with someone (who wasn’t Black) he had a problem with that   

Moral of the story: Don’t do anything for anyone's else’s approval. Do it for you.

Our special guest Najah has a cleaning business Maids To Shine USA. She's from Harlem, New York but moved to Georgia this past October to expand her cleaning company. We met on Instagram and I had to bring her on to share her wisdom, knowledge, and experience in dating.  

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In this episode we discuss how therapy is the new hot thing? Also, with everyone getting therapy, are we better as a society? With Jones from The Stakes Is High Podcast.

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You wrote a blog entitled Promiscuous Girl. And at 11 years old, an older family member told you you’re always being fast.   How does that play in the mind of an 11 year old girl? How did you process that comment?   

-Do you feel culture over sexualize black girls?  Why?  

-When did you break free from the judgement of others about being sexual as a woman?  

-In your blog you said:  I was taught a few things about sex as a kid:  

Sex was for married people. 

-Boys could have multiple partners and girls could only have one. 

-If you, as a girl, had more partners then you were damaged goods and a “hoe”. 

-A girl with multiple partners would never get married or even be loved by anyone   

-Do you think people still think like that in 2022?  

 -Can you talk about Letter To My Unborn? How did you get through it? What advice can you give to young women experiencing what you been through?  

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