It's So Hard

It's So Hard

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  • 23. Private vs. Brothel Work feat. Eva May: "I think we're going to fuck tonight"

    She's back for ep 23 of It's So Hard, the podcast all about life in and around the sex industry... it's the incomparable Eva May!

    Full service worker, porn performer and independent film-maker (check out Aussie Babes Club) - what a resume! Eva joins us to share an special love life update and we all mull over the politics of brothel vs. private work, OnlyFans and sugaring, and the importance of appetising toes.

    Join our hosts for a laugh, a muse and some of the real (and occasionally sexy!) convos. And if you're keen to participate in the pod, or just give us feedback, you can find us on social media @sohardpod, on our website itssohard.info or support us on patreon.com/itssohard.

    Content Warning: NSFW, contains explicit sexual descriptions and some naughty humour

    Hosts: Jenn and Tess Louise Intro Music: Aussens@iter (c) copyright 2018 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/tobias_weber/58028 Ft: rslane32

    1 hr 19 min
  • 22. Sexting feat. Jo: "Everyone needs a ring light!"

    Welcome to ep 22 of It's So Hard, the podcast all about life in and around the sex industry. Today, we have Jo back on board to talk all things sexting!!!

    Jenn continues to enjoy thick footy thighs (sorry Tess!), we debate the pros and cons of squirting, Jo shares her experiences joining the sexting community and Tess advises that food-related sex is really best in the first hour of a booking.

    Join our hosts for a laugh, a muse and some of the real (and occasionally sexy!) convos. And if you're keen to participate in the pod, or just give us feedback, you can find us on social media (@sohardpod), on our Patreon (patreon.com/itssohard) or our website (itssohard.info).

    Content Warning: NSFW, contains explicit sexual descriptions and some naughty humour

    Hosts: Jenn and Tess Louise Intro Music: Aussens@iter (c) copyright 2018 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/tobias_weber/58028 Ft: rslane32

    1 hr 17 min
  • 21. Sexessibility feat. Taylor Tara: "The dick never ages"

    Welcome to ep 21 of It's So Hard, the podcast all about life in and around the sex industry - and we're joined today by the fabulous and multi-talented Taylor Tara!

    Author, photographer, full service worker and industry mentor - Taylor has done it all! We yarn about the importance of access to sex for people of all ages, abilities and preferences, Taylor shares her latest projects and we all muse on the agelessness of the dick.

    Join our hosts for a laugh, a muse and some of the real (and occasionally sexy!) convos. And if you're keen to participate in the pod, or just give us feedback, you can find us on social media @sohardpod, our website itssohard.info or support us AND enjoy extra content at https://www.patreon.com/itssohard.

    Content Warning: NSFW, contains explicit sexual descriptions and some naughty humour

    Hosts: Jenn and Tess Louise Intro Music: Aussens@iter (c) copyright 2018 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/tobias_weber/58028 Ft: rslane32

    1 hr 2 min
  • 20. Patreon Party: "A very professional discussion"

    Welcome to the Patreon Party episode on It's So Hard, the podcast about life in and around the sex industry!

    We present our new Patreon, where you can access 2-4 EXTRA episodes per month!!! We have a lot of great content with our industry guests that is ready to be shared, and you also get to thank our guests for their time and effort - all for the price of a cup of coffee. First two bonus episodes will go up on Friday - you can subscribe at https://www.patreon.com/itssohard.

    In the meantime, Tess Louise and Jenn chat this week about being face-out in the sex industry, navigating the murky waters of representation and tokenism AND the value of multiple perspectives.

    Join our hosts for a laugh, a muse and some of the real (and occasionally sexy!) convos. And if you're keen to participate in the pod, or just give us feedback, you can find us on social media @sohardpod or our website itssohard.info.

    Content Warning: NSFW, contains explicit sexual descriptions and some naughty humour

    Hosts: Jenn and Tess Louise Intro Music: Aussens@iter (c) copyright 2018 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/tobias_weber/58028 Ft: rslane32

    1 hr 4 min
  • 19. Starting Out: "Guys' arses do not get enough appreciation!"

    It may be a few days late, but it's double the length! Welcome to episode 19 of It's So Hard, the podcast about life in and around the sex industry. 

    This week, Jenn talks through her newfound passion for football (or, more specifically, footballers), Tess shares how she started out in the industry and we both muse over medication, clitoral dissonance and why one of us is attending a death conference tonight.

    Join our hosts for a laugh, a muse and some of the real (and occasionally sexy!) convos. And if you're keen to participate in the pod, or just give us feedback, you can find us on social media @sohardpod or our website itssohard.info.

    Content Warning: NSFW, contains explicit sexual descriptions and some naughty humour

    Hosts: Jenn and Tess Louise
    Intro Music: Aussens@iter (c) copyright 2018 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/tobias_weber/58028 Ft: rslane32

    1 hr 52 min
  • 18. Showgirls feat. Frankie Fatale: "I've used Swarovskis to cover the fuck ups"

    It's ep 18 of It's So Hard, the podcast all about life in and around the sex industry... and gracing us with her presence is showgirl, Australia's no. 1 stripper and all round fabulous person, Frankie Fatale!!!

    Frankie dropped by to talk about her creative vision as a performer and producer, and we had a laugh over stripper namesakes, show-stopper moves and which venue most appreciates you dancing in a bathtub of fake blood.

    Join our hosts for a laugh, a muse and some of the real (and occasionally sexy!) convos. And if you're keen to participate in the pod, or just give us feedback, you can find us on social media @sohardpod or our website itssohard.info.

    Content Warning: NSFW, contains explicit sexual descriptions and some naughty humour

    Hosts: Jenn and Tess Louise Intro Music: Aussens@iter (c) copyright 2018 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/tobias_weber/58028 Ft: rslane32

    51 min
  • 17. Sex Across a Lifetime feat. Pet and Jo: "Fresh air and frisky men"

    It's a family affair on Ep 17 of It's So Hard, the podcast all about life in and around the sex industry.

    Jenn's mum and aunty drop in for a yarn about dick size, sex across the lifespan and the joys of moving to a place where nobody knows you. Tess also suggests that we all participate in more threesomes... you know, for educational purposes!

    Join our hosts for a laugh, a muse and some of the real (and occasionally sexy!) convos. And if you're keen to participate in the pod, or just give us feedback, you can find us on social media @sohardpod or our website itssohard.info.

    Content Warning: NSFW, contains explicit sexual descriptions and some naughty humour

    Hosts: Jenn and Tess Louise Intro Music: Aussens@iter (c) copyright 2018 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/tobias_weber/58028 Ft: rslane32

    1 hr 16 min
  • 16. To Quickie or Not to Quickie feat. Jameson Scarlett: "Take care!"

    Guess who's baaaack? It's Episode 16 of It's So Hard, the podcast all about life and around the sex industry and we welcome back special guest and dream man Jameson Scarlett!

    We talk lockdown management strategies, classy af responses to online harassment and Tess and Jameson go head to head in the first pod debate: What is the ideal booking length - a quickie or a long, luxurious interaction?

    Join our hosts for a laugh, a muse and some of the real (and occasionally sexy!) convos. And if you're keen to participate in the pod, or just give us feedback, you can find us on social media @sohardpod or at our website itssohard.info.

    Content Warning: NSFW, contains explicit sexual descriptions and some naughty humour

    Hosts: Jenn and Tess Louise Intro Music: Aussens@iter (c) copyright 2018 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/tobias_weber/58028 Ft: rslane32

    1 hr 2 min
  • 15. Fake Boyfriend: "What would Margaret Thatcher do?"

    Welcome to ep 15 of It's So Hard, the podcast all about life in and around the sex industry.

    This week, Jenn and Tess muse over outdated cultural references, exciting/embarrassing/disappointing mulling updates (looking at you, fake programmer dude) and Tess takes us through her extremely successful fake boyfriend experiment.

    Join our hosts for a laugh, a muse and some of the real (and occasionally sexy!) convos. And if you're keen to participate in the pod, or just give us feedback, you can find us online at itssohard.info or on Insta and Twitter @sohardpod.

    Content Warning: NSFW, contains explicit sexual descriptions and some naughty humour

    Hosts: Jenn and Tess Louise Intro Music: Aussens@iter (c) copyright 2018 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/tobias_weber/58028 Ft: rslane32

    1 hr 29 min
  • 14. Darwin Boys feat. Rubi Valentine: "With great pussy comes great responsibility"

    OMG, the fucking gorgeous Rubi Valentine is joining us for Ep 14 of It's So Hard, the podcast all about life in and around the sex industry!

    Rubi is a full service worker, porn performer and all round hilarious individual. She joins Jenn and Tess Louise to talk porn goals, young vs. older clients (give us all your dads!) and how to convince everyone you want to fuck them.

    Join our hosts for a laugh, a muse and some of the real (and occasionally sexy!) convos. And if you're keen to participate in the pod, or just give us feedback, you can find us online at itssohard.info or on social media @sohardpod.

    Content Warning: NSFW, contains explicit sexual descriptions and some naughty humour

    Hosts: Jenn and Tess Louise Intro Music: Aussens@iter (c) copyright 2018 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/tobias_weber/58028 Ft: rslane32

    1 hr 16 min

About It's So Hard

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I'm Tess Lyrez, a Western Australia–based and touring Ȿ:/ 𝒲₃ᵣ. Listen in as I chat with guests about life in and around the Ȿ₃* industry.