It's So Hard

Guess who's back for ep 33 of It's So Hard, the podcast about life in and around the sex industry... it's the incomparable Frankie Fatale!!!

Showgirl, stripper and porn performer, Frankie is a legit legend who keeps us laughing like crazy! This week, Frankie and Tess talk over the challenges of managing difficult work interactions, dealing with industry appropriation by civvies and why us ladies really need to get more comfy with checking each others' pussies.

Join our hosts for a laugh, a muse and some of the real (and occasionally sexy!) convos. And if you're keen to participate in the pod, or just give us feedback, you can find us on social media @sohardpod, at our website itssohard.info or support the pod on patreon.com/itssohard.

Content Warning: NSFW, contains explicit sexual descriptions and some naughty humour

Hosts: Jenn and Tess Louise Intro Music: Aussens@iter (c) copyright 2018 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/tobias_weber/58028 Ft: rslane32

It's ep 32 of It's So Hard, the podcast all about life in and around the sex industry... and we have a treat for you - we're digging into Tess' old tour diaries!

We also muse over the cult that we grew up in, we fangirl out over the incredible Somebody You Love podcast and Tess shares that one time that she gave an hour-long BJ. Talk about commitment to the task!

Join our hosts for a laugh, a muse and some of the real (and occasionally sexy!) convos. And if you're keen to participate in the pod, you can find us on social media @sohardpod, at our website itssohard.info or support the pod at patreon.com/itssohard.

Content Warning: NSFW, contains explicit sexual descriptions and some naughty humour

Hosts: Jenn and Tess Louise Intro Music: Aussens@iter (c) copyright 2018 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/tobias_weber/58028 Ft: rslane32

Please welcome back our special guest for ep 31 of It's So Hard, the podcast about life in and around the sex industry... it's Jameson Scarlett!

Third time's a charm and Jameson is here to talk more in-depth about being a male worker in the industry and how he works hard to prove himself as a gentleman to book and to work with. We also chat about common civvie questions and how important prep time is for a special request!

Join our hosts for a laugh, a muse and some of the real (and occasionally sexy!) convos. And if you're keen to participate in the pod, you can find us on social media @sohardpod, our website itssohard.info or support the pod at patreon.com/itssohard.

Content Warning: NSFW, contains explicit sexual descriptions and some naughty humour

Hosts: Jenn and Tess Louise Intro Music: Aussens@iter (c) copyright 2018 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/tobias_weber/58028 Ft: rslane32

We've made it to the dirty thirty on It's So Hard, the podcast all about the sex industry, and life in and around it.

To celebrate, we get deep into all things PTSD. Tess and Jenn describe their experiences of PTSD, how we navigate sex as a coping strategy and we both agree that our ultimate goal on this pod is to inspire at least one offense boner.

Join our hosts for a laugh, a muse and some of the real (and occasionally sexy!) convos. And if you're keen to participate in the pod, you can find us on social media @sohardpod, at our website itssohard.info or you can support us and our guests at patreon.com/itssohard.

Content Warning: NSFW, contains explicit sexual descriptions and some naughty humour

Hosts: Jenn and Tess Louise Intro Music: Aussens@iter (c) copyright 2018 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/tobias_weber/58028 Ft: rslane32

She's back, you guys! The hilarious Rubi Valentine joins us for episode 29 of It's So Hard, the podcast about life in and around the sex industry.

Rubi joins us to discuss STIs and health checks, the joy of quickies and hands-free toys, and how tactical wanking used to help Rubi stay focused at her old civvy job - doing other peoples' taxes!

Join our hosts for a laugh, a muse and some of the real (and occasionally sexy!) convos. And if you're keen to participate in the pod, or just give us feedback, you can find us on social media @sohardpod, our website itssohard.info or support the pod at patreon.com/itssohard.

Content Warning: NSFW, contains explicit sexual descriptions and some naughty humour

Hosts: Jenn and Tess Louise Intro Music: Aussens@iter (c) copyright 2018 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/tobias_weber/58028 Ft: rslane32

Welcome to ep 28 of It's So Hard, the podcast about life in and around the sex industry.

This week, we dive into all things ADHD. Jenn and Tess talk about the different symptoms and experiences of ADHD, the unique ways that neurodivergence interacts with sex and relationships, and why Tess' improved self esteem is getting in the way of her sexy times!!!

Join our hosts for a laugh, a muse and some of the real (and occasionally sexy!) convos. And if you're keen to participate in the pod, you can find us @sohardpod on social media, our website itssohard.info or support the pod at patreon.com/itssohard.

Content Warning: NSFW, contains explicit sexual descriptions and some naughty humour

Hosts: Jenn and Tess Louise Intro Music: Aussens@iter (c) copyright 2018 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/tobias_weber/58028 Ft: rslane32

It's ep 27 of It's So Hard, the podcast about life in and around the sex industry and we're joined by... the fantastic Juno!!!

Porn performer, full service worker and resident of one of the coolest sharehouses around, Juno joins Tess and Jen to yarn about drinks before midday, role play, queer presence in the industry and the highs and lows of dirty talk.

Join our hosts for a laugh, a muse and some of the real (and occasionally sexy!) convos. And if you're keen to participate in the pod, you can find us on social media @sohardpod, our website itssohard.info or support the pod on patreon.com/itssohard.

Content Warning: NSFW, contains explicit sexual descriptions and some naughty humour

Hosts: Jenn and Tess Louise Intro Music: Aussens@iter (c) copyright 2018 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/tobias_weber/58028 Ft: rslane32

Better late than never for ep 26 of It's So Hard, the podcast about life in and around the sex industry!

Jenn gives you all a clit rehab update, we fangirl over our pod inspo, Tess shares a long booking a broth and we agree that we should all normalise giving sex toys for birthday presents!

Join our hosts for a laugh, a muse and some of the real (and occasionally sexy!) convos. And if you're keen to participate in the pod, or just give us feedback, you can find us on social media @sohardpod, our website itssohard.info or support the pod at patreon.com/itssohard.

Content Warning: NSFW, contains explicit sexual descriptions and some naughty humour

Hosts: Jenn and Tess Louise Intro Music: Aussens@iter (c) copyright 2018 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/tobias_weber/58028 Ft: rslane32

Look who's back for ep 25 of It's So Hard, the podcast about life in and around the sex industry... it's the amazing Frankie Fatale!!!

Stripper, showgirl and porn performer, Frankie is a busy woman but she sat down with Tess and Jenn to muse over the complexity of navigating work collabs, the need for a SW-positive social media site and how everyone can benefit from a bonus pussy!

Join our hosts for a laugh, a muse and some of the real (and occasionally sexy!) convos. And if you're keen to participate in the pod, or just give us feedback, you can email us at [email protected], find us on our website itssohard.info or social media @sohardpod or support us at patreon.com/itssohard.

Content Warning: NSFW, contains explicit sexual descriptions and some naughty humour

Hosts: Jenn and Tess Louise Intro Music: Aussens@iter (c) copyright 2018 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/tobias_weber/58028 Ft: rslane32

Happy International Whores Day from It's So Hard, the podcast about life in and around the sex industry.

Tess and Jenn felt that Ep 24 was the perfect time to talk all things contact/booking-related. We cover why Peter energy is premium (props to @theorganisedescort), why negging is such an unattractive contact strategy and how to recover when you drown important docs in red wine!

Join our hosts for a laugh, a muse and some of the real (and occasionally s*xy!) convos. And if you're keen to participate in the pod, or just give us feedback, you can find us on social media @sohardpod, on our website itssohard.info or support us on patreon.com/itssohard.

Content Warning: NSFW, contains explicit s*xual descriptions and some naughty humour

Hosts: Jenn and Tess Louise Intro Music: Aussens@iter (c) copyright 2018 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/tobias_weber/58028 Ft: rslane32