It's So Hard

Welcome to Episode 13 of It's So Hard, the podcast all about life in and around the sex industry.

This week, Jenn and Tess get gynaecological as they muse over clitoral rehab and whether it's possible to cum too much. They also yarn about different forms of coercive communication and how we can all be better at seeking to understand each other.

Join our hosts for a laugh, a muse and some of the real (and occasionally sexy!) convos. And if you're keen to participate in the pod, or just give us feedback, you can find us at our website itssohard.info or on Insta and Twitter @sohardpod.

Content Warning: NSFW, contains explicit sexual descriptions and some naughty humour

Hosts: Jenn and Tess Louise Intro Music: Aussens@iter (c) copyright 2018 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/tobias_weber/58028 Ft: rslane32

You guys, we're so lucky! It's Eva May Day on It's So Hard, the podcast all about life in and around the sex industry. 

Eva is a well-established full service worker, and a highly sought after porn performer and producer. She dropped in to talk with us about the ins and outs of porn (pun intended), friendly face fucking and how sex work has drastically raised her dating standards but tanked her Uber rating. 

Join our hosts for a laugh, a muse and some of the real (and occasionally sexy!) convos. And if you're keen to participate in the pod, or just give us feedback, you can find us online at itssohard.info or on Insta and Twitter @sohardpod.

Content Warning: NSFW, contains explicit sexual descriptions and some naughty humour

Hosts: Jenn and Tess-Louise Intro Music: Aussens@iter (c) copyright 2018 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/tobias_weber/58028 Ft: rslane32

Technical difficulties be damned! It's episode 11 of It's So Hard, the podcast all about the sex industry, and life in and around it.

This week, Jenn and Tess Louise do a deep dive into panic attacks in an Uber, the pressures of social performance and why Tess loves sex-related paperwork! Shout out to those of us living with mental health challenges - to quote Joe Gilgun, we're all hard cunts. 

Join our hosts for a laugh, a muse and some of the real (and occasionally sexy!) convos. And if you're keen to participate in the pod, or just give us feedback, you can find us on Insta and Twitter @sohardpod or at our website itssohard.info. 

Content Warning: NSFW, contains explicit sexual descriptions and some naughty humour

Hosts: Jenn and Tess Louise Intro Music: Aussens@iter (c) copyright 2018 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/tobias_weber/58028 Ft: rslane32

It's a super exciting episode 10 of It's So Hard, the podcast all about the sex industry, and life in and around it. Welcome to our special guest, Jameson Scarlett - escort, content creator and all round great human!

Jameson muses on his stripper days, Tess reiterates how good a scene partner Jameson is (turns out, the feeling is mutual!) and we all share the stories of our very first nudes. You don't want to miss this folks!

Join our hosts for a laugh, a muse and some of the real (and occasionally sexy!) convos. And if you're keen to participate in the pod, or just give us feedback, you can find us on Insta and Twitter @sohardpod, at our website itssohard.info or email us at [email protected].

Content Warning: NSFW, contains explicit sexual descriptions and some naughty humour

Hosts: Jenn and Tess Louise Intro Music: Aussens@iter (c) copyright 2018 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/tobias_weber/58028 Ft: rslane32

Kate is back by popular demand in ep 9 of It's So Hard, the podcast all about the sex industry, and life in and around it.

Today, we talk painful depictions of un-lubed sex in Bridgerton, whether any of us should have children and how Christian women are reportedly super sexually satisfied. Kate drops some gems about STIs and we all agree that there is no place for shame or stigma in sexual health.

Join our hosts for a laugh, a muse and some of the real (and occasionally sexy!) convos. And if you're keen to participate in the pod, or just give us feedback, you can email us at [email protected].

Content Warning: NSFW, contains explicit sexual descriptions and some naughty humour

Hosts: Jenn and Tess-Louise Intro Music: Aussens@iter (c) copyright 2018 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/tobias_weber/58028 Ft: rslane32

Oooh guys, welcome to our extra deep Episode 8 of It's So Hard, the podcast all about the sex industry, and life in and around it.

This week, Tess Louise and Jenn open the lid on their personal histories and how they both survived a cult! Seriously... you don't want to miss this. Tess also shares some bookings where religion and sex interacted in interesting ways and we muse over surviving toxic family dynamics.

Join our hosts for a laugh, a muse and some of the real (and occasionally sexy!) convos. And if you're keen to participate in the pod, or just give us feedback, you can email us at [email protected], or on our Instagram @sohardpod or our website itssohard.info.

Content Warning: NSFW, contains explicit sexual descriptions and some naughty humour

Hosts: Jenn and Tess-Louise Intro Music: Aussens@iter (c) copyright 2018 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/tobias_weber/58028 Ft: rslane32

OMG you guys, it's a surprise bonus episode of It's So Hard, the podcast all about the sex industry, and life in and around it.

Tess Louise has been plunged into lockdown, so we thought we should do a quick bonus episode about some of the ways that the pandemic has impacted and changed the sex industry. We talk legal shit, online shit and how to reach out and support sex workers during such a complicated time.

Join our hosts for a laugh, a muse and some of the real (and occasionally sexy!) convos. And if you're keen to participate in the pod, or just give us feedback, you can email us at [email protected] or find us on our Instagram @sohardpod or our website https://itssohard.info/

Content Warning: NSFW, contains explicit sexual descriptions and some naughty humour

Hosts: Jenn and Tess Louise Intro Music: Aussens@iter (c) copyright 2018 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/tobias_weber/58028 Ft: rslane32

It's episode 7 of It's So Hard, the podcast all about the sex industry, and life in and around it. And today, we have our first special guest - the absolutely fabulous Kate!!!

Kate brings a wealth of experience in dating and sex, and together we giggle over the need to clone good men (shout out Jameson!), the importance of oral and the age-old orgasm debate: to fake or not to fake.

Join our hosts for a laugh, a muse and some of the real (and occasionally sexy!) convos. And if you're keen to participate in the pod, or just give us feedback, you can email us at [email protected] or find us on Instagram @sohardpod or our website: https://itssohard.info/.

Content Warning: NSFW, contains explicit sexual descriptions and some naughty humour

Hosts: Jenn and Tess Louise Intro Music: Aussens@iter (c) copyright 2018 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/tobias_weber/58028 Ft: rslane32

It's officially episode 6 of It's So Hard, the podcast all about the sex industry, and life in and around it.

This week, Jenn and Tess Louise muse over coming out as a sex worker, awkward run-ins, the magic of the male prostate and all things anal play.

Join our hosts for a laugh, a muse and some of the real (and occasionally sexy!) convos. And if you're keen to participate in the pod, or just give us feedback, you can email us at [email protected] or find us on Instagram @sohardpod.

Content Warning: NSFW, contains explicit sexual descriptions and some naughty humour

Hosts: Jenn and Tess Louise Intro Music: Aussens@iter (c) copyright 2018 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/tobias_weber/58028 Ft: rslane32

It's a surprise bonus episode of It's So Hard, the podcast all about the sex industry, and life in and around it.

Tess Louise and Jenn mull over January 26th, a complicated day in the Australian context. They discuss their own journeys towards understanding Australia's colonial history and the ways that the sex industry interacts with race in complex ways.

Content Warning: NSFW, contains explicit sexual descriptions and some naughty humour

Hosts: Jenn and Tess Louise Intro Music: Aussens@iter (c) copyright 2018 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/tobias_weber/58028 Ft: rslane32