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- 88. Squirting on Command feat. Little Red: "So I was going through my slut phase..."
Welcome to Ep 88 of It's So Hard, a podcast about sex work and other sexy things. We're excited to welcome back fellow ex-churchie and FSSW Little Red!
We raise the question of whether we are "ourselves" at work. We chat about various relationships with fantasies, including Tess's 10-yr fantasy-plan. Little Red chats about how much one should jam into an hour-long booking. And of course, how she discovered squirting...
So if you're into PSE services with some armchair philosophy on the side, this is the ep for you!
Content Warning: NSFW, containts explicit sexual descriptions and some naughty humour!
Hosts: Jenn and Tess Louise
Intro Music: "No Justice" by Lil Hoe (@the.peoples.hoe)
48 min - 87. Call Out or Call In feat. Tilly: "We've lost our sense of compassion!"
We're stoked to welcome back a fantastic guest for part 2 of our discussion on cancel culture and compassion for It's So Hard, a podcast about life in and around the sex industry.
Tilly from Whoretopia the Podcast, Tess and Jenn discuss the complexities of navigating social media, making mistakes, learning and growing. We also cover accountability, privilege, nuance and how changing your mind is a radical thing!
Content Warning: NSFW, containts explicit sexual descriptions and some naughty humour! Hosts: Jenn and Tess Louise I Intro Music: "No Justice" by Lil Hoe (@the.peoples.hoe)1 hr 5 min - 86. Going Private Part 2 feat. Juno: "I believe that we create experiences..."
Welcome to part 2 of our chat with the fantastic Juno about going private for ep 86 of It's So Hard, a podcast about life in and around the sex industry.
Tess, Jenn and Juno enjoy some drinks and snacks while chatting about Juno's experience of moving from brothel to private work. Tess and Juno groan over the unique challenge of writing marketing bios, the process of developing and evolving service lists and preferences and why balcony sex might not be on Juno's to-do list any time soon!
Content Warning: NSFW, containts explicit sexual descriptions and some naughty humour!
Hosts: Jenn and Tess Louise
Intro Music: "No Justice" by Lil Hoe (@the.peoples.hoe)
48 min - 85. The Whorearchy Part 2: "It's like being tourist in a different class..."
Welcome to part 2 of our group chat about the whorearchy for ep 85 of It's So Hard, a podcast about life in and around the sex industry.
We welcome back Pro Domme Liv, Jenn's mum Pet, poet and proud transwoman Joni and pole dancer Lacey to finish off our group discussion about whorephobia. We chat about gender expectations, constructions of class and the pressure to educate or entertain.
Content Warning: NSFW, containts explicit sexual descriptions and some naughty humour!
Hosts: Jenn and Tess Louise
Intro Music: "No Justice" by Lil Hoe (@the.peoples.hoe)
51 min - 84. Whistleblowing feat. Vivienne Harlow: "Shall we call this brothel owner Cruella?"
Sex worker Vivienne Harlow opens up about her bad experience at a brothel. She chats about mpox, revenge porn, and stealthing. Sex workers need to access working rights, and here's why.
Contains explicit sexual descriptions.
Hosts - Jenn and Tess Louise® Website - itssohard.info Music - "No Justice", The Empress 2021 by Lil Hoe
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1 hr 13 min - 83. Casual Sex Experts feat. Georgie Wolf: "We had a 2-hour fuckathon!"
We're excited to welcome back Georgie Wolf to It's So Hard, a podcast about life in and around the sex industry.
Tess, Georgie and Jenn chat about the need for better s^x ed, the expertise that SWers bring to their bookings and the power of eroticism. We also cover doubles, couples and why f^cking in pleasers is a serious task!
Content Warning: NSFW, containts explicit sexual descriptions and some naughty humour!
Hosts: Jenn and Tess Louise
Intro Music: "No Justice" by Lil Hoe (@the.peoples.hoe)
55 min - 82. Productivity and a Psych Ward: "Just buy the dildo!"
We're coming to you from somewhere a little different this week on It's So Hard, a podcast about life in and around the sex industry.
This week, we cover mental health, changing meds, productivity and why capitalism totally sucks! We also discuss curious civvies, the various circumstances that can bring people into the industry, and Jenn gives an update from within the walls of her mental health facility!
Content Warning: NSFW, containts explicit sexual descriptions and some naughty humour!
Hosts: Jenn and Tess Louise
Intro Music: "No Justice" by Lil Hoe (@the.peoples.hoe)
1 hr 15 min - 81. Brothel and Parlour Work feat. Lil Hoe: "Life is a brothel!"
We're so excited that we're a day early for ep 81 of It's So Hard, a podcast about life in and around the sex industry.
We're joined by FSSW, rapper and all round fantastic human Lil Hoe. We chat about structures and experiences of brothel and parlour work across different Australian states, how the structures of society impact brothels and why the answer is more rights for all!
Content Warning: NSFW, containts explicit sexual descriptions and some naughty humour!
Hosts: Jenn and Tess Louise
Intro Music: Aussens@iter copyright 2018 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) lisence. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/tobias_weber/5808 Ft: rslane32
Segment Intros: "The Empress" EP by Lil Hoe (@the.peoples.hoe)
1 hr 1 min - 80. HepatitisWA feat. Donna and Ali: "You don't have to get off the gear to receive treatment..."
It's World Hepatitis Day and we want to mark it for ep 80 of It's So Hard, a podcast about life in and around the sex industry.
We were so lucky to be hosted by HepatitisWA to chat with Donna and Ali about fighting BBV stigma, busting myths about hepatitis and breaking down health system barriers for streed-based and imprisoned folks.
We also learn about the fantastic work that the Deen Clinic does as a highly accessible and supportive health service for some of the most marginalised populations in Perth. Head on down to say hi to the friendly crew and get the test - when you're ready.
Content Warning: NSFW, containts explicit sexual descriptions and some naughty humour!
Hosts: Jenn and Tess Louise
Intro Music: Aussens@iter copyright 2018 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) lisence. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/tobias_weber/5808 Ft: rslane32
Segment Intros: "The Empress" EP by Lil Hoe (@the.peoples.hoe)
1 hr 3 min - 79. The Whorearchy Part 1: "What you earn and how you work impacts the amount of whorephobia you face..."
It's a group session for ep 79 of It's So Hard, a podcast about life in and around the sex industry!
Tess and Jenn are joined by Pro Domme Liv, Jenn's mum Pet, spoken word poet and proud trans woman Joni and pole dancer Lacey (and 4-6 pets!) to chat about whorephobia, patriachy, women's place and the way the Whorearchy is embedded in all of our lives.
Content Warning: NSFW, containts explicit sexual descriptions and some naughty humour!
Hosts: Jenn and Tess Louise
Intro Music: Aussens@iter copyright 2018 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) lisence. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/tobias_weber/5808 Ft: rslane32
Segment Intros: "The Empress" EP by Lil Hoe (@the.peoples.hoe)
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About It's So Hard
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I'm Tess Lyrez, a Western Australia–based and touring Ȿ:/ 𝒲₃ᵣ. Listen in as I chat with guests about life in and around the Ȿ₃* industry.
Website - softermedia.net