It's So Hard

It's So Hard

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  • 78. Bowling Through feat. Easygreens: "If it's just you and your BFF Becky, that's not feminism babe!"

    We go from tramp stamp to full rant real quick in ep 78 of It's So Hard, a podcast about life in and around the sex industry.

    We're joined by Wiradjuri woman and FSSW Easygreens as we chat about NAIDOC week, advocacy and the disgraceful treatment of incarcerated First Nations kids. We also talk allyship (or lack thereof!), intersectionality and why Easygreens' toes have never recovered from her stripper days!

    Content Warning: NSFW, containts explicit sexual descriptions and some naughty humour!

    Hosts: Jenn and Tess Louise

    Intro Music: Aussens@iter copyright 2018 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) lisence. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/tobias_weber/5808 Ft: rslane32

    Segment Intros: "The Empress" EP by Lil Hoe (@the.peoples.hoe)

    54 min
  • 77. Fuck the System feat. Old Pros, New York: "Our stories matter!"

    We're unbelievably honoured to be joined by Kaytlin Bailey of New York-based sex work nonprofit Old Pros for ep 77 of It's So Hard.

    Kaytlin is the founder and executive director of Old Pros, and a fellow pod host of the educative and entertaining af podcast, The Oldest Profession. We caught up with Kaytlin about a week after the Roe v. Wade decision so there was quite a bit to talk about!

    We chat about the interconnectedness of the criminalisation of abortion and sex work, the way that a sex work identity automatically places you in an activism role and the importance of challenging and reconfiguring historic narratives that have erased sex workers.

    Content Warning: NSFW, containts explicit sexual descriptions and some naughty humour!

    Hosts: Jenn and Tess Louise

    Intro Music: Aussens@iter copyright 2018 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) lisence. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/tobias_weber/5808 Ft: rslane32

    Segment Intros: "The Empress" EP by Lil Hoe (@the.peoples.hoe)

    1 hr 5 min
  • 76. Mouthy Broads: "What's my prognosis re. deep throating?"

    We're all storytime for ep 76 of It's So Hard, a podcast about life in and around the sex industry!

    Jenn and Tess have had some busy days this week, and we invite listeners along as we discuss medical appointments, difficult work decisions, crying in public and the revelation that Jenn has a clinically tiny mouth!

    Content Warning: NSFW, containts explicit sexual descriptions and some naughty humour!

    Hosts: Jenn and Tess Louise

    Intro Music: Aussens@iter copyright 2018 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) lisence. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/tobias_weber/5808 Ft: rslane32

    Segment Intros: "The Empress" EP by Lil Hoe (@the.peoples.hoe)

    44 min
  • US Abortion Rights Overturned: "It's not a debate to us, it's real life..."

    Jenn and Tess got onto Zoom yesterday afternoon to have an convo that many, many people with uteruses are having across the world this weekend. Forgive the muffled recording, this wasn't a planned record.

    We thought we'd share our initial reflections on the revocation of rights, why a legislative decision in the US has a monumental impact on all of us and why we NEED cis men to be just as responsive and proactive about this issue as everyone else!!!

    Hosts: Jenn and Tess Louise

    Intro Music: Aussens@iter copyright 2018 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) lisence. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/tobias_weber/5808 Ft: rslane32

    Segment Intros: "The Empress" EP by Lil Hoe (@the.peoples.hoe)

    34 min
  • 75. Going Private Part 1 feat. Juno: "The glittery walk of shame..."

    We may be 2 days late but we make up for it by bringing back a listener fave for ep 75 of It's So Hard, a podcast about life in and around the sex industry.

    Juno is back!!! And, naturally, they bring premium vibes as they share their process of moving from broth to private work. We also chat about mermaid light fixtures, the perils of advertising and how Juno managed to third-wheel their way into an international threesome!

    Content Warning: NSFW, containts explicit sexual descriptions and some naughty humour!

    Hosts: Jenn and Tess Louise

    Intro Music: Aussens@iter copyright 2018 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) lisence. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/tobias_weber/5808 Ft: rslane32

    Segment Intros: "The Empress" EP by Lil Hoe (@the.peoples.hoe)

    55 min
  • 74. Decrim QLD: "Institutions like this LOVE wanky titles..."

    We get legislative on ep 74 of It's So Hard, a podcast about life in and around the sex industry!

    Jenn recounts her first ever fun, sexy flashback and shares some exciting recent purchases. Tess and Jenn then talk about the QLD decrim campaign, law reform and how the whole process have given Tess a new kink for authoritative/wanky titles!

    Content Warning: NSFW, containts explicit sexual descriptions and some naughty humour!

    Hosts: Jenn and Tess Louise

    Intro Music: Aussens@iter copyright 2018 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) lisence. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/tobias_weber/5808 Ft: rslane32

    Segment Intros: "The Empress" EP by Lil Hoe (@the.peoples.hoe)

    1 hr 17 min
  • 73. Brothel Diaries Part 6: "Either way, it's a finger in the ear!"

    We enjoy a bit of a throwback for ep 73 of It's So Hard, a podcast about life in and around the sex industry.

    This week, we chat about Jenn's ADHD diagnosis, productivity dramas and the nuances of sexting services. Tess also dives back into her brothel diaries for a well-handled broken condom and a mysterious back scar!

    Content Warning: NSFW, containts explicit sexual descriptions and some naughty humour!

    Hosts: Jenn and Tess Louise

    Intro Music: Aussens@iter copyright 2018 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) lisence. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/tobias_weber/5808 Ft: rslane32

    Segment Intros: "The Empress" EP by Lil Hoe (@the.peoples.hoe)

    1 hr 16 min
  • 72. Values-Based Publishing feat. Ruby Summers: "Okay, what else is possible?"

    We're so excited to welcome another iconic guest to ep 72 of It's So Hard, a podcast about life in and around the sex industry.

    Former stripper, academic and SWer zine creator Ruby Summers joins us to talk all things publishing! Ruby shares the process of developing the fantastic TOS Journal, we rant about research ethics limitations and we daydream about a night on the town to blow off some steam!

    Content Warning: NSFW, containts explicit sexual descriptions and some naughty humour!

    Hosts: Jenn and Tess Louise

    Intro Music: Aussens@iter copyright 2018 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) lisence. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/tobias_weber/5808 Ft: rslane32

    Segment Intros: "The Empress" EP by Lil Hoe (@the.peoples.hoe)

    58 min
  • 71. Know Thyself feat. Georgie Wolf: "The work of being a great client..."

    Another heavy hitter guest for ep 71 of It's So Hard, a podcast about life in and around the sex industry.

    We welcome author (The Art of the Hook Up), podcaster (The Satisfaction Project) and FSSW Georgie Wolf to the pod! We talk client resources, self-awareness, duty of care in the industry and engage in some mutual fangirling!

    Content Warning: NSFW, containts explicit sexual descriptions and some naughty humour!

    Hosts: Jenn and Tess Louise

    Intro Music: Aussens@iter copyright 2018 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) lisence. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/tobias_weber/5808 Ft: rslane32

    Segment Intros: "The Empress" EP by Lil Hoe (@the.peoples.hoe)

    57 min
  • 70. Tilly from Whoretopia: "Elon Musk moving into the Twitter sphere is terrifying!"

    We're psyched to be linking up with FSSW, educator and fellow podcaster, Tilly of Whoretopia for ep 70!!! 

    Tilly, Tess and Jenn talk about marketing, podcasting, the immense skillset of sex workers and why none of us are particularly good at small talk!

    Join our hosts for a laugh, a muse and some of the real (and occasionally sexy!) convos. You can find us on social media @sohardpod, at our website itssohard.info/ or support us on patreon.com/itssohard. 

    Content Warning: NSFW, containts explicit sexual descriptions and some naughty humour!

    Hosts: Jenn and Tess Louise

    Intro Music: Aussens@iter copyright 2018 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) lisence. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/tobias_weber/5808 Ft: rslane32

    Segment Intros: "The Empress" EP by Lil Hoe (@the.peoples.hoe)

    1 hr 13 min

About It's So Hard

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I'm Tess Lyrez, a Western Australia–based and touring Ȿ:/ 𝒲₃ᵣ. Listen in as I chat with guests about life in and around the Ȿ₃* industry.