It's So Hard

We've had to shift some things this week, so this one is hot off the press - ep 59 of It's So Hard, a podcast about life in and around the sex industry.

This week, Tess shares her recent professional development in service provision for clients living with disabilities. We also talk about the narrowness of societal sexpectations, Jenn's dumpsterfire mental health and why diverse sex is the best sex.

Join our hosts for a laugh, a muse and some of the real (and occasionally sexy!) convos. And if you're keen to participate in the pod, or just give us feedback, you can email us at [email protected].

Content Warning: NSFW, contains explicit sexual descriptions and some naughty humour

Hosts: Jenn and Tess Louise Intro Music: Aussens@iter (c) copyright 2018 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/tobias_weber/58028 Ft: rslane32

Segment Intros: "The Empress" EP by Lil Hoe (@the.peoples.hoe on social media)

We welcome Liv to ep 58 of It's So Hard, a podcast about life in and around the sex industry.

Liv is a Pro Domme provider, and she's here to talk all things BDSM. She talks about her kink apprenticeship, which services make people say "ooooh" and we all bond over DSM diagnoses.

You can find us on social media @sohardpod, at our website itssohard.info/ or support us and our guests at patreon.com/itssohard.

Content Warning: NSFW, contains explicit sexual descriptions and some naughty humour

Hosts: Jenn and Tess Louise Intro Music: Aussens@iter (c) copyright 2018 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/tobias_weber/58028 Ft: rslane32

Segment Intro Music: "The Empress EP" by Lil Hoe (@the.peoples.hoe on social media).

It's Ep 57 of It's So Hard, a podcast about life and around the sex industry.

This week, we delve into dealing with problematic, whorephobic and/or plain ignorant convos with civvies, clients and grandmas. We also touch on how to raise concerns as a client, and why Jenn will always assist you to find a good, slur-free swear-based insult!

Join our hosts for a laugh, a muse and some of the real (and occasionally sexy!) convos. You can find us @sohardpod on social media, at our website itssohard.info/ or support us and our guests at patreon.com/itssohard.

Content Warning: NSFW, contains explicit sexual descriptions and some naughty humour

Hosts: Jenn and Tess Louise Intro Music: Aussens@iter (c) copyright 2018 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/tobias_weber/58028 Ft: rslane32

Segment Intros: "The Empress" EP by Lil Hoe (@the.peoples.hoe)

It's Anal Week for It's So Hard, the podcast about life in and around the sex industry.

This week, we're joined by FSSW and Anal Queen, Little Red. She talks us through leaving church, getting into FIFO sugaring and learning important anal lessons from a French Daddy and a babe called Joey. And we're just so blessed she's passing on those teachings to us!

Join our hosts for a laugh, a muse and some of the real (and occasionally sexy!) convos. You can find us on social media @sohardpod, at our website itssoshard.info/ or support us on patreon.com/itssohard.

Content Warning: NSFW, contains explicit sexual descriptions and some naughty humour

Hosts: Jenn and Tess Louise Intro Music: Aussens@iter (c) copyright 2018 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/tobias_weber/58028 Ft: rslane32

We get a little *kinky* for ep 55 of It's So Hard, the podcast about life in and around the sex industry.

This week, Jenn makes some sweaty fantasy confessions and Tess gets to analysing them! We talk about where fantasy and kinks come from, how to explore them and why Jenn can't seem to get away from her sportsperson attraction!

Join our hosts for a laugh, a muse and some of the real (and occasionally sexy!) convos. You can find us on social media @sohardpod, at our website itssohard.info/ or support us on patreon.com/itssohard.

Content Warning: NSFW, contains explicit sexual descriptions and some naughty humour

Hosts: Jenn and Tess Louise Intro Music: Aussens@iter (c) copyright 2018 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/tobias_weber/58028 Ft: rslane32

Segment Music: "The Empress" EP by the.peoples.hoe on social media

We're excited to bring you an extra special panel discussion for ep 54 of It's So Hard, the podcast about life in and around the sex industry.

We're honoured to bring you a panel discussion on the experiences of sex workers in the healthcare system, convened by the AMSA Sexual and Reproductive Health Project. Fox, Lena and our very own Tess Louise discuss the stigmas faced by sex workers when engaging with medical professionals and give valuable guidance to medical students about how to practice in sex work-friendly ways. 

You can find us on social media @sohardpod, at our website itssohard.info/ or support us at patreon.com/itssohard.

Content Warning: NSFW, contains explicit sexual descriptions and some naughty humour

Hosts: Jenn and Tess Louise Intro Music: Aussens@iter (c) copyright 2018 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/tobias_weber/58028 Ft: rslane32

Guests: Fox (then-acting President, Scarlet Alliance); Lena (Manager, Magenta.

We laugh, cry and get personal on this ep of It's So Hard, the podcast about life in and around the sex industry.

This week, we cover all things SWer/civ communication. We share the diversity of context in communication, how we often say the same thing in different ways and why Tess would need to mentor Jenn to be a successful threesome partner.

Join our hosts for a laugh, a muse and some of the real (and occasionally sexy!) convos. You can find us on social media @sohardpod, at our website itssohard.info/ or support us on patreon.com/itssohard.

Content Warning: NSFW, contains explicit sexual descriptions and some naughty humour

Hosts: Jenn and Tess Louise Intro Music: Aussens@iter (c) copyright 2018 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/tobias_weber/58028 Ft: rslane32

Segment Intros: 'The Empress' EP by @the.empress.lil.hoe

It's our first season 2 guest on It's So Hard, the podcast about life in and around the sex industry!

We're joined by Kit, photographer and founder of Fuscous Fury Media. Fuscous Fury was 'born from a dark and sombre fury towards the lack of safe, non-judgemental and inclusive environments within the creative industry'. We chat safe and mindful collab dynamics, navigating whorephobic TOS, the attraction of chaos and why we do support singing into the abyss.

You can find us on social media @sohardpod, at our website itssohard.info/ or support the pod on patreon.com/itssohard.

Content Warning: NSFW, contains explicit sexual descriptions and some naughty humour

Hosts: Jenn and Tess Louise Intro Music: Aussens@iter (c) copyright 2018 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/tobias_weber/58028 Ft: rslane32

We're baaaaack for Season 2 of It's So Hard, the podcast about life and around the industry.

We dive straight into Tess' first work threesome, the value of honest industry mentors and how the hell anyone keeps track of their lube! We also shout out some fab face-in workers, do a dick pic deep dive and celebrate the incomparable tunes of SWer and rapper Lil Hoe.

Join our hosts for a laugh, a muse and some of the real (and occasionally sexy!) convos. You can find us on social media @sohardpod, our website itssohard.info/ or support us on patreon.com/itssohard.

Content Warning: NSFW, contains explicit sexual descriptions and some naughty humour

Hosts: Jenn and Tess Louise

Intro Music: Aussens@iter (c) copyright 2018 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/tobias_weber/58028 Ft: rslane32S

Segment Music: Lil Hoe from her new EP The Empress (@the.empress.lil.hoe)

Well it's only gone and turned into a New Year!!! And It's so Hard is here with you to ring it in...

Tess and Jenn talk high pressure holidays, low energy celebrations and we start to answer some of the fantastic questions sent in by clients and listeners of the pod! Parts 2 and 3 of this Q&A will be up in the coming weeks on patreon.com/itssohard.

You can find us on social media @sohardpod, at our website itssohard.info/ or support us on patreon.com/itssohard.

Content Warning: NSFW, contains explicit sexual descriptions and some naughty humour

Hosts: Jenn and Tess Louise Intro Music: Aussens@iter (c) copyright 2018 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/tobias_weber/58028 Ft: rslane32