It's So Hard

It's So Hard

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  • 69. 69-ing and Tit Journies: "Close your eyes and picture an upside down dick!"

    We cover a lot of ground in ep 69 of It's So Hard, a podcast about life in and around the sex industry.

    This week, we talk Jenn's ADHD progress, the psychology and logistics behind 69-ing, how body type impacts how we're sexualised and the very different boob challenges we both face!

    Join our hosts for a laugh, a muse and some of the real (and occasionally sexy!) convos. You can find us on social media @sohardpod, at our website itssohard.info/ or support us on patreon.com/itssohard.

    Content Warning: NSFW, containts explicit sexual descriptions and some naughty humour!

    Hosts: Jenn and Tess Louise

    Intro Music: Aussens@iter copyright 2018 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) lisence. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/tobias_weber/5808 Ft: rslane32

    Segment Intros: "The Empress" EP by Lil Hoe (@the.peoples.hoe)

    1 hr 10 min
  • 68. Sexy Tidbits from Jenn: "Look, a lot went wrong there..."

    We got a little impromptu this week on It's So Hard, a podcast about life in and around the sex industry.

    Tess and Jenn are finally in the same city, so we've been busy with upcoming guests and other fun projects that we have to be secretive about for now. This week, we fangirl over other SW-led pods like Whoretopia and The Satisfaction Project, and Jenn finally shares the iconic tale of her first time giving head... it's a doozy, folks!

    Join our hosts for a laugh, a muse and some of the real (and occasionally sexy!) convos. You can find us on social media @sohardpod, at our website itssohard.info/ or support us on patreon.com/itssohard.

    Content Warning: NSFW, contains explicit sexual descriptions and some naughty humour

    Hosts: Jenn and Tess Louise Intro Music: Aussens@iter (c) copyright 2018 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/tobias_weber/58028 Ft: rslane32

    Segment Intros: "The Empress" EP by Lil Hoe (@the.peoples.hoe)

    59 min
  • 67. First Times: "Just out here trying to have a hump!"

    We're talking about firsts on ep 67 of It's So Hard, a podcast about life in and around the sex industry.

    This week, Tess and Jenn delve into the the "virginity" conversation, mull over facilitating firsts and fantasies and we manage to solve the mystery of Jenn's church porn fantasy!

    Join our hosts for a laugh, a muse and some of the real (and occasionally sexy!) convos. You can find us on social media @sohardpod, at our website itssohard.info/ or support us on patreon.com/itssohard.

    Content Warning: NSFW, contains explicit sexual descriptions and some naughty humour

    Hosts: Jenn and Tess Louise Intro Music: Aussens@iter (c) copyright 2018 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/tobias_weber/58028 Ft: rslane32

    Segement Intros: "The Empress" EP by Lil Hoe (@the.peoples.hoe)

    1 hr 7 min
  • 66. Advocacy and Aftercare feat. Liv: "I swipe myself to sleep!"

    Can you believe we're back for ep 66 of It's So Hard, a podcast about life in and around the sex industry?!

    We're stoked to talk again with ProDomme, sex work advocate and all round fabulous person Liv! Liv shares her experiences in navigating advocacy, developing aftercare processes both personally and professionally and we all get on another tangent about neurodiversity, capitalism and the productivity trap.

    Join our hosts for a laugh, a muse and some of the real (and occasionally sexy!) convos. And if you're keen to participate in the pod, or just give us feedback, you can email us at [email protected].

    Content Warning: NSFW, contains explicit sexual descriptions and some naughty humour

    Hosts: Jenn and Tess Louise Intro Music: Aussens@iter (c) copyright 2018 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/tobias_weber/58028 Ft: rslane32

    Segment Intros: "The Empress" EP by Lil Hoe (@the.peoples.hoe)

    1 hr 5 min
  • 65. Our Origin Story: "We have time for some dick stuff if you want..."

    We get a little nostalgic for the 65th ep of It's So Hard, a podcast about life in and around the sex industry.

    Tess and Jenn head back in time to talk through the origins of our podcast, our friendship story, our current identity crises and why sleeping in on a Sunday morning is an orgasmic experience!

    You can find us on social media @sohardpod, at our website itssohard.info/ and support us at patreon.com/itssohard.

    Content Warning: NSFW, contains explicit sexual descriptions and some naughty humour

    Hosts: Jenn and Tess Louise Intro Music: Aussens@iter (c) copyright 2018 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/tobias_weber/58028 Ft: rslane32

    Segment Intro: "The Empress" EP by Lil Hoe (@the.peoples.hoe)

    1 hr 17 min
  • 64. Decrim WA feat. Lena Van Hale: "We're in the wild, wild west out here..."

    We get legislative for ep 64 of It's So Hard, a podcast about life in and around the sex industry. 

    We're joined by sex worker and activist Lena and we talk about the importance of decriminalisation for all sex workers, the challenge of walking the myth-busting tightrope and why we all get over-complicated when we talk about *sex*!!!

    You can find us on social media @sohardpod, at our website itssohard.info/ or support us and our industry guests at patreon.com/itssohard. 

    Content Warning: NSFW, contains explicit sexual descriptions and some naughty humour

    Hosts: Jenn and Tess Louise Intro Music: Aussens@iter (c) copyright 2018 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/tobias_weber/58028 Ft: rslane32

    Segment Intros: "The Empress" EP by Lil Hoe (@the.peoples.hoe)

    58 min
  • 63. Stripping feat. 50 Plus a Tip: "Cheers and woos don't pay our bills!"

    We're going international this week on ep 63 of It's So Hard, the podcast about life in and around the sex industry.

    We welcome Danica and Riley from the fab Canadian podcast 50 Plus a Tip! They're both strippers with a whole range of other experiences in the sex industry, and we chat about club etiquette, legislation between Canada and Australia, advertising and more of Jenn's grandma drama!

    Join our hosts for a laugh, a muse and some of the real (and occasionally sexy!) convos. You can find us on social media @soharpod, at our website itsshard.info/ or support us on patreon.com/itssohard.

    Content Warning: NSFW, contains explicit sexual descriptions and some naughty humour

    Hosts: Jenn and Tess Louise Intro Music: Aussens@iter (c) copyright 2018 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/tobias_weber/58028 Ft: rslane32

    Segment intros: "The Empress" EP by Lil Hoe (@the.peoples.hoe)

    1 hr 21 min
  • 62. The Nordic Model feat. Kit: "In a world where clients are criminalised..."

    We get legislative in ep 62 of It's So Hard, the podcast where a sex worker and a civvy talk about life in and around the sex industry.

    Kit from Fuscous Fury joins us again and they've done their homework! We get talking about the Whorephobia Checklist, break down the fallacies of the Nordic Model and get weirdly passionate about plumbers rights.

    Content Warning: NSFW, contains explicit sexual descriptions and some naughty humour

    Hosts: Jenn and Tess Louise Intro Music: Aussens@iter (c) copyright 2018 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/tobias_weber/58028 Ft: rslane32

    Segment intros: "The Empress" EP by Lil Hoe (@the.peoples.hoe)

    1 hr 35 min
  • 61. Male Sex Work feat. Rome the Tradie: "Spreading the Good Word of dick!"

    Ep 61 is a triumph for It's So Hard, a podcast about life in and around the sex industry.

    We're joined by companion, masseuse and venue host extraordinaire: Rome the Naked Tradie. We talk about being a male sex worker, navigating substances and safety and using his handyman skills for sexy purposes.

    Join our hosts for a laugh, a muse and some of the real (and occasionally sexy!) convos. You can find us on social media @sohardpod, at our website itssohard.info/ or support us at patreon.com/itssohard.

    Content Warning: NSFW, contains explicit sexual descriptions and some naughty humour

    Hosts: Jenn and Tess Louise Intro Music: Aussens@iter (c) copyright 2018 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/tobias_weber/58028 Ft: rslane32

    1 hr 8 min
  • 60. Reflections on Representation: "I do worry about fucking up!"

    We're 60 eps young at It's So Hard, a podcast about life in and around the sex industry.

    This week, Jenn and Tess hit record on an It's So Hard planning meeting as we started to muse more deeply about allyship, representation, identity and the purpose and direction of the pod. Tess also walks us through her slightly stalk-y vetting process for guests!

    Join our hosts for a laugh, a muse and some of the real (and occasionally sexy!) convos. You can find us on social media @sohardpod, at our website itssohard.info/ or support us on patreon.com/itssohard.

    Content Warning: NSFW, contains explicit sexual descriptions and some naughty humour

    Hosts: Jenn and Tess Louise Intro Music: Aussens@iter (c) copyright 2018 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/tobias_weber/58028 Ft: rslane32

    Segment Intros: "The Empress" EP by Lil Hoe (@the.peoples.hoe on social media)

    56 min

About It's So Hard

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I'm Tess Lyrez, a Western Australia–based and touring Ȿ:/ 𝒲₃ᵣ. Listen in as I chat with guests about life in and around the Ȿ₃* industry.