When Kathy De La Torre was 20 years old, she married her High School sweetheart. She loved him dearly and held a lot of respect for him. However shortly after the honeymoon period was over, things started to change. Very quickly, Kathy realised that she was being controlled and that her new husband was not the man she had thought him to be. In the thick of abuse and suicidal thoughts, Kathy learned how to upgrade her circumstances to design herself a much more positive future. Today she talks how traumatic memories do not need to have power over us. And how we CAN take charge over them.