Keeping It Young

For this special episode Dave and Bethlie invite you to join them for part 2 of 2 of the 2024 Special Education Summit hosted by Tabernacle Christian School in Hickory North Carolina. The speaker is Renee Gamble and you will not want to miss her talk!

Do you know someone who could benefit from this series? Will you share this episode with a friend?

Interested in attending the 2025 Special Education Summit? Click Here for more details.

Thanks for joining us! See you next week.

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For this special episode Dave and Bethlie invite you to join them for part 1 of 2 of the 2024 Special Education Summit hosted by Tabernacle Christian School in Hickory North Carolina. The speaker is Renee Gamble and you will not want to miss her talk!

Do you know someone who could benefit from this series? Will you share this episode with a friend?

Interested in attending the 2025 Special Education Summit? Click Here for more details.

Thanks for joining us! See you next week.

Want to hear Pastor Dave Young preach?

Westwood Baptist Church

Westwood Baptist Church Podcast

Thanks for joining us for Part 4 of our series on Raising A Child with Special Needs.

If you missed parts 1 and 2, and 3 here are the links:

Part 1

Defining special needs

Part 2

1) Recognize that "special needs" vary in scope and demand

2) Recognize that special needs are nothing new

Thank you for joining us!

Part 3

1) Parent's must train children

2) Paren'ts must bring them up/norture them.

Episode 264 Notes

Part 4

5. Recognize that special needs children can be lead to Christ

1. Be patient
2. Be repetitive
3. Believe in the power of the gospel
4. Teach them to love
5. Teach them to love Jesus

Having a special needs child doesn't negate the responsibility to train them anymore than it negates the responsibility to care for them.

Special Education Summit

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https://www.tabernaclechristianschool.org/special-education-summit

Thanks for joining us for Part 3 of our series on Raising A Child with Special Needs.

If you missed parts 1 and 2 here are the links:

Part 1

Defining special needs

Part 2

1) Recognize that "special needs" vary in scope and demand

2) Recognize that special needs are nothing new

Thank you for joining us!

Episode 263 Notes

3. Recognize that God's commands are the same

1. 1. Parent's must train children
      1. Having a special needs child doesn't negate the responsiblity to train any more than it negates our responsibility to care for them.
         1. Our culture often believers it does (it negates our responsibility to care for them)
         2. Abortion is usually the answer
         3. Giving them away as a foster child or giving them up for adoption is another way
      2. Having a special needs child means that you have a greater responsiblity to train and care
   2. Parent's must bring them up/nurture them
      1. Remember that you are not alone. GET HELP

4. Recognize that behavioral issues are to be solved with patient teaching and training

1. ODD; ADHD; ADD are quite normal and will become worse if left alone
2. A child left to himself, brings his mother to shame

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Thanks for joining us for Part 2 of our series on Raising A Child with Special Needs.

But first..Dave and Bethlie answer a question from a listener.

"What do yall recommend to do for family devotions with a 2 year old, and even how often?"

1. Make family devotions simple and easy
   1. Read to your little one
      1. This trains them to sit and listen
   2. Memorize 1 verse with your little one
      1. Say it to them over and over at specific times
         1. Before a meal
         2. Before prayer
         3. At bedtime
      2. Say it repeatedly until they begin saying it themselves
   3. Pray with them (just a short prayer . . .)
      1. Put them in bed and have dim lights and quiet music
      2. Talk quietly at that time of night
      3. Kneel beside their bed
      4. Touch them, rub their head or their back and sing to them, say a verse to them, and have a short prayer

Now let's dive into the episode for today!

Parenting Special Case Scenarios

1. Recognize that "special needs" vary in scope and demand

1. Severe autism vs. "on the spectrum"
2. Fetal alcohol syndrome
3. Blind
4. Deaf
5. ODD, ADHD, ADD

2. Recognize that special needs are nothing new

1. Parents have dealt with special needs throughout history
2. You are not alone
3. Illustration of reaching DEAF through the Bill and Cathy Rice family
4. Illustration of Helen Keller

Dave and Bethlie are BACK!

In today's episode Dave and Bethlie tackle a very important question from a listener about how to train a 3 year old with a big imagination to not lie.

Later on in the episode Dave and Bethlie begin their series on raising a child with special needs.

Thanks for joining us and enjoy this episode!

Question from a listener

Would you be able to share tips on how to train a 3 year old who has a beautiful imagination on lying. We do a lot of pretend/imagination play, but I want him to also understand that lying (if asked a specific question) is not good. This is something that just recently came up, and I wasn't sure how to handle it or train him on it.

1. You have to know the difference in imagination and lying.
   1. Lying lips are an abomination to God; but they that deal in truth are his delight
   2. You shall not bear false witness (you shall not be dishonest in any situation)
   3. Truth shall be established forever, but a lying tongue is but for a moment
   4. Using ones imagination is fun and normal and creative; lying is refusing to face facts and/or take responsibility in a specific situation.
   5. Imagination is not wrong; lying is very wrong.
   6. Imagination is fun; lying is dangerous
2. You have to use different words.
   1. Let's pretend
   2. Let's imagine
   1. Always tell the truth, the whole truth, and nothing but the truth
   2. That is a LIE and That is VERY BAD
      1. Say that softly and sadly
      2. Connect those emotions with the act of lying
   3. In imagination
   4. In reality
3. You have to teach
   1. Jacob and his family
      1. He lied to his dad
      2. His father in law lied to him
      3. His sons lied to him
   2. The Boy Who Cried Wolf

(14:40) Raising A Child With Special Needs Part 1

Defining special needs.

Special needs refer to children who require additional support or services due to physical, developmental, intellectual, or emotional challenges.

These needs can range from mild to severe and may affect various aspects of a child's life, including: communication, mobility, learning, behavior, and social interaction.

1. Some children have physical challenges
   1. Blindness, deafness, etc.
2. Some children have mental or emotional challenges
   1. Various degrees of autism
   2. Fetal alcohol syndrome
3. Some children are diagnosed with behavioral issues

ADHD

Attention-deficit/hyperactivity disorder (ADHD) is a neurodevelopmental disorder characterized by persistent patterns of inattention, hyperactivity, and impulsivity. These symptoms can cause significant problems in functioning at home, school, or work.

ADD

Attention Deficit Disorder (ADD) is the older, more colloquial term for a specific type of Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD) called "Predominantly Inattentive Type".

ODD

Oppositional Defiant Disorder (ODD) is a behavioral disorder characterized by persistent negativity, defiance, and anger, often in children and adolescents. It's not a personality trait but a diagnosable condition that can impact a child's ability to learn, interact with others, and function in various settings.

OCD

Obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD) is a mental health condition characterized by obsessions (unwanted, persistent thoughts, images, or urges) and compulsions (repetitive behaviors or mental acts) that individuals feel driven to perform to reduce the anxiety caused by the obsessions.

Conclusion

The last few weeks Dave and Bethlie are taking an important break in order to focus on moving into their new home and also to enable them freedom to serve their community as it continues to deal with the recent tornados that negatively impacted their town of Poplar Bluff. They will resume normal programming very soon.

In the meantime, please enjoy this rewind episode which is part 3 of a series entitled The Challenging Seasons of Life.

For the next few weeks Dave and Bethlie are taking an important break in order to focus on moving into their new home and also to enable them freedom to serve their community as it continues to deal with the recent tornados that negatively impacted their town of Poplar Bluff. They will resume normal programming very soon.

In the meantime, please enjoy this rewind episode which is part 2 of a series entitled The Challenging Seasons of Life.

For the next few weeks Dave and Bethlie are taking an important break in order to focus on moving into their new home and also to enable them freedom to serve their community as it continues to deal with the recent tornados that negatively impacted their town of Poplar Bluff. They will resume normal programming very soon.

In the meantime, please enjoy this rewind episode which is part 1 of a series entitled The Challenging Seasons of Life.

Join Dave and Bethlie as the discuss a sensitive yet prevalent issue in our culture today.

What do you do when your child has been caught viewing porn?

1. Be thankful for the "caught"
2. Be matter of fact
3. Begin the conversation

1. What happened?
2. How long has this been happening?
3. What have you been viewing?
4. How did you access it?

Be willing to disciple for the long haul

1. Psalm 119:9-11

1. God's Word cleanses us
2. God'w Word strengthens us to victory

5. Take time to evaluate

1. Is there a failure in the home?
2. Is there a fault that can be corrected?
3. Is there a failure in your teaching?

1. Have you had conversations about sexuality?
2. About porn?
3. About what to do when you see porn?

6. Take time to grow the relationship