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In this upbeat, practical episode Terri Kellums and Jennifer Grossi dig into the midlife toolbox — self-care strategies, hair and skin tips, sleep hacks, and real talk about sweating and libido shifts. They trade favorite products, DIY recipes, and tiny daily rituals that improve mood, energy and confidence. Expect humor, honesty, and actionable steps you can try this week.
Links from the episode Nut Milk Machine
https://amzn.to/4oojwFa
Carpe
https://a.co/d/3EGcTg9
Sleep bonnets
https://a.co/d/4hrGdoI
Paleo Valley protein powder https://paleovalley.com/store/grass-fed-bone-broth-protein
Vitamin D https://a.co/d/0oiUryu
Hair & Nails Gummies, Pumpkin Spice Protein Shake, Slip Shorts, & Neck Fan:
https://www.amazon.com/shop/lemonadeconnection/list/1GL4X79X3GIV0?ref_=aipsflist (https://www.amazon.com/shop/lemonadeconnection/list/1GL4X79X3GIV0?ref_=aipsflist)
Dream Serene - “The Poop Pill”:
https://shop.pomifera.com/#/shop/detail/21400/from/915139 (https://shop.pomifera.com/#/shop/detail/21400/from/915139)
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DISClAIMER: The content of Kellums & Grossi Podcast is intended for entertainment and general informational purposes only. We are not lawyers, therapists, or other licensed professionals, and nothing on this podcast should be taken as professional, medical, legal, or financial advice. Always consult a qualified professional before making decisions or taking action based on what you hear here. Your use of our content is at your own risk.
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Midlife isn’t an ending — it’s a reinvention. In this episode of Kellums & Grossi, Terri and Jennifer flip the script on the “midlife crisis” narrative and share the real upside of midlife: gratitude, deeper marriage, clearer identity, fitness gains, time for hobbies, renewed faith, and even the joy of silence. If you’re navigating menopause, an empty nest, or a career pivot — this episode is for you.
What you’ll learn:
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Key takeaways
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DISClAIMER: The content of Kellums & Grossi Podcast is intended for entertainment and general informational purposes only. We are not lawyers, therapists, or other licensed professionals, and nothing on this podcast should be taken as professional, medical, legal, or financial advice. Always consult a qualified professional before making decisions or taking action based on what you hear here. Your use of our content is at your own risk.
*any Amazon links listed in the show notes are affiliate links, and we get a small commission which helps us with production costs. This does not affect the price for you or the seller of these items. We appreciate you so much!
In this conversation, Jennifer and Terri explore the complexities of relationships, self-love, and personal growth. They discuss how generational perspectives influence views on marriage and love, the importance of communication, and the necessity of healing before entering new relationships. The dialogue emphasizes the significance of self-acceptance and the dynamics of partnership, highlighting the emotional needs of both men and women in romantic relationships. In this conversation, Jennifer Grossi and Terri Kellums explore the dynamics of partnership, self-love, and the evolving expectations in relationships. They discuss the importance of appreciation, the balance of roles in marriage, and the impact of time freedom on personal happiness. The conversation also touches on the fear of loneliness, the changing perspectives on remarriage, and the societal shifts that influence modern relationships.
Chapters
00:00
Exploring the Fear of Love
03:04
Personal Experiences with Love and Relationships
06:10
The Importance of Self-Love
08:54
Navigating Relationships and Security
12:00
The Role of Gender in Relationships
14:50
The Need for Companionship
18:45
The Importance of Partnership in Relationships
21:52
Understanding Needs and Appreciation
24:49
Balancing Roles and Responsibilities
27:36
Negotiating Life Choices in Marriage
30:59
Cynicism vs. Hope in Relationships
35:44
Cultural Shifts and Remarriage Trends
36:36
Introduction and Community Engagement
37:00
disclaimer.mp4
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*any Amazon links listed in the show notes are affiliate links, and we get a small commission which helps us with production costs. This does not affect the price for you or the seller of these items. We appreciate you so much!
In this conversation, Terri and her co-host explore the complexities of relationships, particularly focusing on the importance of communication, intentionality, and thoughtfulness in maintaining a strong connection with one's spouse. They discuss the differences in how men and women think, the significance of planning date nights, and share personal anecdotes about their own experiences with dating and marriage. The conversation also touches on statistics regarding how often couples go on dates and offers creative ideas for making date nights special and meaningful.
Chapters
00:00 Dilly Dallying: A Marriage Perspective
00:44 The Importance of Intentionality in Relationships
03:56 Learning and Growing Together
06:45 Celebrating Milestones and Relationships
10:11 The Reality of Marriage and Date Nights
16:21 Intentionality in Date Nights
21:00 Barriers to Dating and Connection
25:45 Communication and Connection in Relationships
28:05 Memorable Dates: The Importance of Thoughtfulness
30:03 Creative Date Ideas: Making Memories Together
31:39 Affordable and Meaningful Date Options
34:20 Shared Hobbies and Experiences
36:17 The Joy of Game Nights and Shared Laughter
37:04 Cultural Experiences: Concerts and Comedy Shows
37:42 Volunteering Together: Strengthening Bonds
39:15 DIY Projects: A Mixed Bag of Challenges
40:51 Prioritizing Date Nights: Communication is Key
44:01 Introduction and Community Engagement
44:23 disclaimer.mp4
takeaways
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*any Amazon links listed in the show notes are affiliate links, and we get a small commission which helps us with production costs. This does not affect the price for you or the seller of these items. We appreciate you so much!
Terri Kellums and Jennifer Grossi explore the complexities of marriage, communication, and personal growth. They discuss their experiences with divorce, the challenges of maintaining emotional connections, and the importance of open dialogue in relationships. The discussion also touches on the impact of aging and the need for self-awareness in navigating life's transitions. Through their relatable anecdotes and insights, they aim to empower listeners to foster healthier relationships and embrace personal development. In this episode, they explore the complexities of communication in relationships, emphasizing the importance of understanding emotional connections, the role of prayer and counseling, and the impact of love languages. They discuss how to navigate conflicts, the significance of community support, and the value of intentional conversations. The hosts share personal experiences and insights on how to foster a deeper connection with partners, highlighting the necessity of open dialogue and the use of media as a tool for enhancing communication.
KEY TAKEAWAYS
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DISClAIMER: The content of Kellums & Grossi Podcast is intended for entertainment and general informational purposes only. We are not lawyers, therapists, or other licensed professionals, and nothing on this podcast should be taken as professional, medical, legal, or financial advice. Always consult a qualified professional before making decisions or taking action based on what you hear here. Your use of our content is at your own risk.
*any Amazon links listed in the show notes are affiliate links, and we get a small commission which helps us with production costs. This does not affect the price for you or the seller of these items. We appreciate you so much!
summary
In this conversation, Jennifer Grossi and Terri Kellums explore the complexities of relationships, focusing on the importance of communication, managing expectations, and the role of conflict. They discuss how unspoken expectations can lead to misunderstandings and emphasize the need for open dialogue about desires and needs. The discussion also highlights the significance of personal growth and how it can positively impact relationships. They share personal anecdotes and insights on navigating challenges, adjusting expectations, and the brutal truths of marriage, ultimately encouraging listeners to embrace growth and understanding in their relationships.
takeaways
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DISClAIMER: The content of Kellums & Grossi Podcast is intended for entertainment and general informational purposes only. We are not lawyers, therapists, or other licensed professionals, and nothing on this podcast should be taken as professional, medical, legal, or financial advice. Always consult a qualified professional before making decisions or taking action based on what you hear here. Your use of our content is at your own risk.
*any Amazon links listed in the show notes are affiliate links, and we get a small commission which helps us with production costs. This does not affect the price for you or the seller of these items. We appreciate you so much!
In this conversation, Terri Kellums and Jennifer Grossi explore the positive aspects of midlife, discussing themes such as gratitude, the wisdom gained from life experiences, the evolution of marriage, the importance of physical fitness, and the joy of pursuing hobbies. They emphasize the significance of self-care, the appreciation of silence, and the potential for personal reinvention during this stage of life. The discussion highlights how midlife can be a time of growth, deeper connections, and newfound passions.
*Links for Sleep Products Terri Mentioned
*Link for Jennifer's BB cream - https://shop.pomifera.com/#/shop/detail/BBCREAM-P/from/915139
TAKEAWAYS
Chapters:
Embracing Positivity in Midlife
02:50
The Wisdom of Life Experiences
05:54
The Power of Gratitude
08:47
Marriage in Midlife: A Deeper Connection
11:56
A Stronger Sense of Identity
14:43
Transforming Health and Fitness in Midlife
22:58
The Importance of Health in Recovery
25:32
Rediscovering Hobbies in Midlife
27:16
Finding Joy in Simple Pleasures
32:41
Spiritual Growth and Midlife Reflections
35:33
Embracing Midlife Reinvention
39:52
The Gift of Silence and Personal Recharge
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License code: VSIEUQZLGYNXIQLX
DISClAIMER: The content of Kellums & Grossi Podcast is intended for entertainment and general informational purposes only. We are not lawyers, therapists, or other licensed professionals, and nothing on this podcast should be taken as professional, medical, legal, or financial advice. Always consult a qualified professional before making decisions or taking action based on what you hear here. Your use of our content is at your own risk.
*any Amazon links listed in the show notes are affiliate links, and we get a small commission which helps us with production costs. This does not affect the price for you or the seller of these items. We appreciate you so much!
In this conversation, Terri Kellums and Jennifer Grossi explore the challenges and pressures of content creation in the age of social media. They discuss the feelings of dread associated with creating content, the impact of social media on mental health, and the struggle for authenticity versus performance. The conversation also touches on the importance of taking breaks from social media, finding balance in content creation, and the evolution of engagement in the digital age. Ultimately, they emphasize the need for genuine connection and community building in an increasingly digital world.
takeaways
00:00
The Dread of Content Creation
01:59
Social Media Burnout: Recognizing the Signs
04:22
The Pressure of Perfection on Social Media
06:49
The Impact of Social Media on Mental Health
09:35
Authenticity vs. Performance in Online Spaces
12:04
Finding Balance: When to Step Back from Social Media
16:32
The Evolution of Social Media Engagement
21:25
Finding Balance in Content Creation
22:10
Navigating Emotional Responses to Digital Detox
22:42
Seeking Deeper Meaning in Content Creation
28:11
Exploring Perspectives on Social Media Engagement
30:52
The Joy of Missing Out vs. Fear of Missing Out
33:57
Authenticity in Social Media
37:30
Navigating Social Media Breaks and Returns
40:58
The Impact of Social Media on Mental Health
41:39
Building Community Through Social Media
42:11
riverside_outro_terri_kellums_& grossi po.mp4
42:33
disclaimer.mp4
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DISClAIMER: The content of Kellums & Grossi Podcast is intended for entertainment and general informational purposes only. We are not lawyers, therapists, or other licensed professionals, and nothing on this podcast should be taken as professional, medical, legal, or financial advice. Always consult a qualified professional before making decisions or taking action based on what you hear here. Your use of our content is at your own risk.
*any Amazon links listed in the show notes are affiliate links, and we get a small commission which helps us with production costs. This does not affect the price for you or the seller of these items. We appreciate you so much!
Today's Episode
In this engaging conversation, Terri Kellums and Jennifer Grossi explore the complexities of adult friendships, discussing how they evolve over time, the importance of vulnerability, and the dynamics of building a supportive community. They share personal anecdotes, insights from friendship statistics, and the significance of emotional bank accounts in maintaining strong relationships. The discussion highlights the challenges of making new friends as adults and the value of both in-person and online connections. In this conversation, Terri Kellums and Jennifer Grossi explore the significance of friendships, particularly the concept of 'ride or die' friendships. They discuss the importance of having close friends who can challenge you, support you, and provide a safe space for vulnerability. The conversation delves into the seven actions that can help build strong friendships, emphasizing the need for freedom, no judgment, great listening skills, trust, vulnerability, and respect. They also share personal anecdotes and insights on how to navigate friendships in different life stages.
Chapters
00:00 Introduction to the Podcast Journey
02:02 Childhood Friendships: A Nostalgic Reflection
07:51 The Evolution of Adult Friendships
10:41 Building a Community: The Importance of Connection
14:30 Navigating Changes in Friendships
18:38 Emotional Bank Accounts in Relationships
22:17 Navigating New Friendships
26:29 Building Connections in Midlife
32:29 The Importance of Authenticity
38:13 Understanding Friendship Dynamics
47:18 Identifying Red Flags in Friendships
50:29 Building Ride or Die Friendships
52:13 The Importance of No Judgment
54:51 Listening and Curiosity in Friendships
59:58 Trust and Vulnerability
01:03:58 Respect as a Core Value
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DISClAIMER: The content of Kellums & Grossi Podcast is intended for entertainment and general informational purposes only. We are not lawyers, therapists, or other licensed professionals, and nothing on this podcast should be taken as professional, medical, legal, or financial advice. Always consult a qualified professional before making decisions or taking action based on what you hear here. Your use of our content is at your own risk.
*any Amazon links listed in the show notes are affiliate links, and we get a small commission which helps us with production costs. This does not affect the price for you or the seller of these items. We appreciate you so much!
In this final episode of the series, Terri reflects on the past year and the need for change. She discusses the resistance to change and the importance of recognizing when something no longer works. Terri encourages listeners to clear clutter, prioritize health, create a vision, build connections, and continue personal growth. She emphasizes the importance of celebrating achievements and setting SMART goals. Terri concludes by inviting listeners for coaching or assistance in planning activities.
Takeaways
Chapters
00:00
Introduction and Reflection
02:16
Recognizing the Need for Change
04:09
Resistance to Change
06:34
Taking Action: Clearing Clutter and Prioritizing Health
07:32
Creating a Vision and Building Connections
08:28
Continued Personal Growth and Celebrating Achievements
09:27
Conclusion and Next Steps
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DISClAIMER: The content of Kellums & Grossi Podcast is intended for entertainment and general informational purposes only. We are not lawyers, therapists, or other licensed professionals, and nothing on this podcast should be taken as professional, medical, legal, or financial advice. Always consult a qualified professional before making decisions or taking action based on what you hear here. Your use of our content is at your own risk.
*any Amazon links listed in the show notes are affiliate links, and we get a small commission which helps us with production costs. This does not affect the price for you or the seller of these items. We appreciate you so much!
From the publisher's feed
Welcome to the Kellums & Grossi Podcast—where midlife gets real, raw, and ridiculously honest. Hosted by two passionate women who’ve lived a little (okay, a lot), we dive into the…
Fueled by social media scrolls and reels that make us say, “Okay, but seriously…,” we unpack life, love, friendship, health, and the occasional hot take—all with a glass in hand and zero judgment.
Pull up a seat at our table—you’re invited.

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