People rely much too heavily on sex to fix things that are broken in their relationships. However, truth be told, fucking has never fixed a thing. The best that can be said about people having sex when they are not getting along is that sex can be an entertaining distraction from relationship or life problems. However, having sex, in and of itself, has never fixed anything. People need to stop reaching for kink to fix their relationships.

When men think about submitting to a Dominant woman they instinctively feel like they are giving up power and control. That actually feels negative to me. As a woman, even I am uncomfortable with such a scenario. I teach men that submission is about learning how to trust their female significant other to love them to the point that their needs will be met - happily, enthusiastically, sincerely, and even abundantly. But first, men - you’ve got to learn how to take your sticky little fingers off of it!

When men think about submitting to a Dominant woman they instinctively feel like they are giving up power and control. That actually feels negative to me. As a woman, even I am uncomfortable with such a scenario. I teach men that submission is about learning how to trust their female significant other to love them to the point that their needs will be met - happily, enthusiastically, sincerely, and even abundantly. But first, men - you’ve got to learn how to take your sticky little fingers off of it!

One of my listeners was brave enough to answer one of my tougher questions: How does it feel when your female significant other rejects you sexually. His vulnerable and heartfelt response touched me. I’m going to talk through his response in today’s show, and I know that his words will help other men and women in the Female-Led Relationship lifestyle, as well. Let’s talk about it. ❤️

Men need to learn how to actively love their woman as she learns to find her truth and stand in it. For, she cannot learn to stand in her kinky truth until she gains confidence and learns a couple of things about herself as a person. This is where you, as the guy, come in. Actively engage with her with love, sincerity, and genuine interest. Do these things outside of the bedroom. She will gain confidence in herself, in you, and in the relationship. Then she will have emotional space to explore kink.

Ladies, when you are in charge, the success of your relationship rests on your shoulders. We talk about being a Boss Bitch and about how the future is female, but we don’t talk about responsibility. Today, I’m going to talk to you ladies about ensuring that you have a successful relationship by discussing some of the things that women often do wrong, or poorly, in FLRs.

I recently had an interaction with a man in a community that promotes Female-Led Relationships. I was looking for women to interact with, but I ended up finding yet another community where horny men thrive and are pushing the dick agenda. I want to share this experience with my audience because I feel that it will be helpful for you all to walk through this with me. Nothing crazy or dramatic, but an incident that is indicative of the underlying issues that exist between the sexes.

Lots of men present themselves to Dommes as ‘slaves’ and they have no idea what they are really saying. If you (Dominant Female or submissive male) are interested in a Female-Led Relationship, you really should understand some basic terminology before you get started. ‘Submissive’ and ‘slave’ do not mean the same thing in a BDSM context. Let’s talk about it.

In today’s episode of Kink Friendly, Mistress Alisa discusses how unruly horny men killed her passion for the kink-friendly lifestyle and ultimately led to her retiring as a professional Dominatrix. Today’s show is going to be a deep dive into the inner workings of women, and hopefully it will help men to understand what it means when a woman gets fucking fed up with your horny ass. You bring this on yourselves, guys. Let’s talk about it.

So, you want to start a Female-Led Relationship with your partner, and you want to know how to go about having that conversation? Well, you are in the right place. Whether you are the Dominant Female or the submissive male in your relationship, I’m going to help you to get started. Let’s talk about it!