Kinky in the Real World

Kinky in the Real World

By Becca and LunaEducation
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Kinky in the Real World episodes

  • #12 - MONSTERFUCKING FILES: #1 Series Overview and Ghosts

    Introducing the Monsterfucking Files: A series on monsters and their undying, kinky appeal.

    Becca mentions a few things in this episode in case you want to dive deeper:

    • some great examples of scary women monsters in the Netflix series Love, Death and Robots. Season 1, episodes "Sonnie's Edge" and "Beyond the Aquila Rift".
    • AND something she is SUPER JAZZED about, a new-to-her style of porn that she was all "TAKE MY MONEY" about, an audio creator that does NSFW stories with characters from her favourite obsession, My Hero Academia - YUZUYA!! Relevant here because he does a few Vampire and Animal Hybrid AUs that are to die for! (Alternate Universe). You can find his SFW content HERE on YouTube.
    • Have any questions or thoughts for us? We'd love to hear from you!! [email protected] or message us on tumblr at @kinkyintherealworld

      You can find us on:YouTube, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, Amazon Music


      37 min
    • #11 - Explore a Kink: Tantric Sex aka Just Great Sex

      "Get naked for REAL!" ~ Luna


      Luna and Becca have a conversation about the practice and mindset of Tantric Sex. It is all about enhancing your sexual connection - with yourself and your partner, so you can have REALLY great sex.


      Becca mentions a great dance program called The World Groove Movement, you can check that out here - https://theworldgroovemovement.com/ (get out of your head and into your body, baby!)


      Have any questions or thoughts for us? We'd love to hear from you!! [email protected] or message us on tumblr at @kinkyintherealworld

      You can find us on:YouTube, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, Amazon Music

      Want to help support us creating the podcast? You can donate here or check out some of our kinky merch! ❤️


      49 min
    • #9 - Kinky Q & A: Poly Under Duress?

      In this weeks episode, Luna and Becca answer a question from an anonymous writer, asking:

       "What are your thoughts on “poly under duress”?"

      They discuss poly, monogamy and just plain good ol' relationship habits. 

      Becca mentions a book she read about heartbreak (which she recommends to anyone going through it):
      Heartbreak: A Personal and Scientific Journey by Florence Williams


      48 min
    • #8 - Explore A Kink: A really BIG episode about Dicks!

      In this lengthy episode, Luna and Becca address the wild array of fun sizes, shapes and kinks penises 'come' in. 

      Some links from the episode you may want to check out: 

      How To Do It (on Slate.com) with Stoya and Rich: https://slate.com/human-interest/how-to-do-it

      The depilatory cream that Luna talked about: Barenuts - https://nutcare.com/products/bare-nuts

      Have any questions or thoughts for us? We'd love to hear from you!! [email protected] or message us on tumblr at @kinkyintherealworld


      1 hr 2 min
    • #7 - Kinky Q & A: Labels - a double sided sword & Kinky Formative Experiences

      In this episode we answer two fabulous listener’s comments:

      @curvycandyyyy wrote in:

      The podcast feels like sitting with cool friends in a café and a lot of fun to watch!

      I’m not sure this fits the theme or audience. It’s a thought about when you are first introduced to kink there’s an entry exam you didn’t study for asking what role you are. I wish for less emphasis on titles, more on living the experience. If you don’t know, you don’t grow…it takes time.
      I love to break the stereotype of being a little as a mature *smirk* adult. I can appreciate there is controversy depending on what you call the dynamics. The fetish world spun me around trying to explain this “role” to me vs me defining myself.
      When I tell someone I have a little side, they associate that with something too innocent (baby-ish) or much more taboo than I am. I am not submissive by nature, I am not into age play or regression, I am not the picture of represented littles I see in the lifestyle (age, size, etc.) All these things I know aren’t cookie cutter but it does bring challenges finding friends in common without bias.
      It can be frustrating when you feel misunderstood for an involuntary mindset vs a role you aren’t playing. I still struggle now & then how to bring both the lion with the lamb forward in kink. I am continuously learning thorough self-discovery whatever is inside me sexually is not meant to stay little.
      Thanks for thought-provoking conversations I didn’t know I was missing. I look forward to future episodes. Best!

      @chillifour Wrote us with:

      Loved listening to Ep2 about finding Huster magazines in the woods. I had that experience of finding torn pages in bushes and trees. My first copy of Hustler still enjoying it’s staples was in my grandparents bedside cabinet, along with a dog-eared copy of The Story of O. I’ve grown up becoming more and more aware of my desire for kink and a need on my submissive side. Do you think early subconscious experiences gives us permission to act upon what we discover consciously about ourselves at a later time? Loving the podcast by the way - I have so many comments on it! :)

      Thank you both SO MUCH for the fabulous conversations!

      46 min
    • #6 - Kinky Q & A: Your Sexy Vagina as You Age

      A saucy conversation about vaginas in need of some extra sauce!

      A great question from an Anonymous listener:

      • Good evening to you both!

      • I am writing about an issue that isn’t  necessarily kink related-still sex related though.
        I am a woman in my fifties with a pretty high sex drive, and although it is high-I am unable to achieve a decent amount of wetness and if I do-I can’t seem to maintain it.
        I know, I know-that’s what lube is for! I have it, I use it.  My boyfriend is terribly turned on by me being wet without the use of lube.  Do you have any suggestions for a non-hormonal fix for this issue?
        I do currently take ashwaganda supplements, but I don’t see that making a difference.
        Thank you for any advice you can give-and I love this podcast! ❤️💖🔥

        Thank you so much for bringing this important topic up!

        Some of the information we talked about in the podcast:

        Buck Angel - the trans Male porn star talks about vaginal atrophy https://buckangel.com/blogs/news/tranpa-trans-male-vaginal-atrophy

        You can also find his specially designed lube on his site - we have not tried it nor are we affiliated, but we found it interesting and relevant.

        Ashley Winter MD || Urologist

        https://twitter.com/AshleyGWinter
        https://www.odelahealth.com/

        35 min
      • #5 - Meet a Kinkster - The Magical Misty Tour
        An intimate conversation with special guest, Misty LovesFun, about her multifaceted and fluid explorations in sexuality, gender, and kink. 
        And for more information (than you may want) on Misty and the pineapple, you can check out her profile on Porn Hub - MistyLovesFun 
        Or you can connect with her on her FetLife (a social media for kinky people) - @mistylovesfun, or at Club Eden - @mistylovesfun
        1 hr
      • #4 - Explore A Kink: Let’s talk about Porn!

        In episode #4 of Kinky in the Real World we discuss how traditional porn trends can affect real life sex, kinky dynamics and exploration.

        We love porn, but not all porn is created equally. We talk about some sites we love and why. Here are a few of the sites we talked about and some that are note worthy:

        • Cockyboys - gay male awesomeness that we both give a 5 out 5
        • Kink.com  - whatever flavour of kink you like, there is something for everyone. This site was actually Becca's first paying for porn experience. She still gives it a 5 out of 5
        • Literotica  - free erotic fiction. We recommend looking at the ratings of stories to find the good stuff in whatever genre you enjoy. 
        • bellesa.co - a women friendly pornhub type set up
        • Pornhub - a classic. And Canadian. (sheesh we are a bunch of pervs up here) 
        • Pure Taboo -  definitely worth a look
        • MATH Magazine - Porn roots, in magazine form! Their mission: "MATH enables sex-positive experiences through radical inclusiveness, community, and high-caliber collaboration. Our flagship book series features explicit artwork and writing for an increasingly connected and sexually liberated world. We believe in pleasure for all." - who doesn't love that! 
        • Have questions or thoughts about porn you'd love to share? We'd love to hear from you!! Email us at [email protected] or visit us at https://www.tumblr.com/kinkyintherealworld and send us a message!


          Love what we do and want to buy us a coffee each month? We set up a Patreon! 



          41 min
        • #3 - Kinky Q & A: Thoughts on D/s and FinDoms

          More questions have been sent in, and we address 2 of them in this episode! One from whatever-the-mess (tumblr), who asks us what aspects of D/s (Dominance/submission) do we enjoy the most, and what is it about the dynamic that attracts us to it.

          Our next question comes from female-led-relationship (tumblr) who asks us how we feel about Fin-Dommes (FinDom) and Financial Domination - an interesting, and sensitive topic for some. Urban dictionary describes Findom as: a shortened combined version of the term Financial Domination, similar to Femdom which is short for Female Domination. Financial Domination is a fetish of power exchange which involves the transfer of money from sub to Domme as an act of ultimate submission, as money is the ultimate representation of power in our modern society.

          Have questions about kink? We'd love to answer them! Drop us a question on our tumblr at Kinky In The Real World or email us at [email protected] - we'd love to hear from you!

          35 min

        About Kinky in the Real World

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        Two Dominant women - Luna & Becca - straight talk and get curious about kink, interview kinksters, and answer your questions about kink.

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