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November 22, 2019 #303 - Deb - The Kink Shrink
Hello, I am Debs, also known as The Kink Shrink.

I am a 54 yr old female submissive who has been around for 37 years. In this time I have been on and off the scene and certainly practiced privately, not so much this year due to cancer, chemo and radiotherapy. I run workshops about all aspects of kink (especially around the more psychological, relationship, communication aspects etc) regularly; nationally and internationally. I run a monthly workshop at LAM (see links) which is recorded every month and have done for the past 5 years. It was supposed to be a one off, and I am grateful for the queue every month still! Feel free to contact me to ask about my availability for workshops, or to see me as a therapist.

I am also a mother of 4 amazing daughters and my family, friends and clients know about my kink.

I am practicing therapist in the UK and have a private practice in psychotherapy and counseling. I have over 50,000 hours of experience and see individuals, couples, poly, families etc. face to face or on line. A lot of kinksters come to me so they don’t have to their sexuality pathologized.
https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2019-archive/303---deb---the-kink-shrink.html
44 min
November 15, 2019 #302 - Unicorn Husbandry - Philosopher & Sadist
This week we present a person with some very interesting viewpoints. We would call him a ‘Fetlebrity’, a sadist and a philosopher. Read this text below, to start to understand who this remarkable man really is.
"Stop limiting the Freedom. At all. Give your partner no sin to commit and they will never fall from grace. Love them more than you love your own pride. Love them more than you love your insecurities. Love them more than you love the sad back-history you tell yourself has influenced all of your relationships. Simply love them.

It is Love with an open hand. Let them rest lightly in your love, free to land or free to fly away no fist clenched around them demanding that they conform to your version of love. When you give your heart, give all of it. Do you want to know when you are enough? Actually enough?

It is when you have poured out your soul like water, when you have emptied yourself completely when you have given everything so that there is nothing left. No reservations. Nothing held back no secret little insecurity that waits to spring out from the shadows when your partner inadvertently crosses the line. Or more importantly, when they are simply human.”

https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2019-archive/302---unicorn-husbandry--.html
31 min
November 08, 2019 #301 - Challenge at the Intersection of Race and Kink
Challenge at the Intersection of Race and Kink: Racial Discrimination, Fetishization, and Inclusivity Within the BDSM Community

Many organizations within the BDSM community make sincere efforts toward inclusivity, but the success of these efforts is inconsistent, with the community achieving integration with respect to gender identity and sexual orientation yet remaining segregated by race. 398 BDSM practitioners completed surveys asking about racial and ethnic discrimination, fetishization, and inclusivity. People of color were 16 times more likely than non-people of color to feel discriminated against at BDSM events and 17 times more likely to feel fetishized. Qualitative results included troubling stories of overt racism and offensive racial slurs, and examples of microaggressions, feelings of isolation, and feelings of being dismissed. Results suggest that organizations can increase inclusivity by understanding the unique costs faced by people of color with an awareness that these costs might be invisible to White individuals, diversifying positions of authority and leadership, and teaching well-meaning members what types of behaviors could create a hostile environment.

https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2019-archive/301---challenge-at-the.html
52 min
November 01, 2019 #300 - KinkyCast Goes to San Francisco
For our 300th show, we decided to do something different. Nurse Ratched and Woody took off for San Francisco. The City is Woody’s birth place and holds a lot of memories. We were invited to the Citadel for the Pre-Folsom Party, what a great time we had. We spoke with Robert a DM, Raven the owner and her manager. A wonderful time was had by all. We went to the Folsom Street Fair, a fair like nothing you have ever been to. It was a colorful, kinky, loud, GLBT+ meeting of the minds and souls. We kept hearing the San Francisco Gay Chorus, after we returned to home base saw the new documentary called, Gay Chorus Deep South. This movie gives a view to the prejudice Southern States that is still hard to watch. The 300 strong chorus toured the south bring a message on love and unity and yes, many got it, but some will never change. We have included the audio of the movie trailer to give you an idea of what happened. Follow the links to see the trailer and check out the locations where the movie is being shown. It will go into wider distribution next year, it is a must see for anyone that cares for human kind.

https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2019-archive/300---kinkycast-goes-to-san.html
27 min
October 25, 2019 #299 - Call Me Jenny!
Tonight Woody introduces “Call Me Jenny!” A 22 year old person of color in North Carolina. What’s it like to be young, black and female in the some times strange world of kink. Jenny has a bubbly personality and can talk to anyone. What’s it like to get in, fit in and play with people in a new community. Where are all the other people of color? What’s it like when you Mom finds out you are kinky? So many things to talk about. This and more in “Call Me Jenny!”
https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2019-archive/299---call-me-jennytonight.html
25 min
October 18, 2019 #298 - Find Me in the Sun - Life Changing Events
Today Woody sticks his nose in FindMeInTheSun’s business. She lays it out best…

"I have never been your typical California girl, sure I have blonde hair, sometimes, the sun is like my mothership, I am pretty much tan all year round, I used surf slang a lot, but that is about all that makes me your typical Cali girl. After living my life for someone else (which I have no regrets doing) I realized I lost myself. When my son moved in with his dad and left me pretty much an empty nester, I realized I didn’t have an identity away from him, I didn’t even know what I liked to do for fun; everything in my life was centered around my son. So, by chance, I discovered BDSM and then Fetlife and my journey started. The journey of self-discovery through Kink. And I would not change a second of it.”

https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2019-archive/298---find-me-in-the-sun--.html
30 min
October 11, 2019 #297 - Just Rob - Leather Leader
Todays guest is JustRob or just Rob :) He have been involved in the public community in Jacksonville, FL since 2008.

Identifies primarily as a Top and a Leatherman, but on occasion, he inhabits the roles of Sadist, Dominant, Leader, Mentor and Teacher.

Leading the committee that runs the local group Alternative Lifestyles Enthusiasts (A.L.E.),. He organizes the weekly Taco Tuesdays event and is especially passionate about and active in their local polyamory group.
https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2019-archive/297---just-rob---leather.html
30 min
October 04, 2019 #296 - Daemon Danes - Fetlebrity
Daemon Danes is an alternative lifestyle enthusiast, knowledge worker, and somewhat of an icon or anti-hero to many in the Fetish community. He is the proud patriarch of a 24/7, M/s poly family known as the "Danes", who share colorfully about their lives online. Often controversial but never boring, Daemon is seen as an unapologetically extreme practitioner and outspoken personality to most.
https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2019-archive/296---daemon-danes---fetleb.html
35 min
September 26, 2019 #295 - River City Girls of Leather
River City girls of Leather is a non-profit patch club based out of Jacksonville, FL. The club is for Leather identified women/girls, transgenders, and those who are curious about and/or enjoy Leather culture and history.

It is our goal to increase understanding and encourage camaraderie among Leather identified women/girls within the Leather and alternative lifestyle communities with respect, honor, integrity, and dignity.

They also hope to provide support as a sisterhood to local and regional Leather/alternative lifestyle organizations or events through attendance, educational presentations, group volunteering, and/or community service.

Although there are other traditional Leather clubs in our community, we saw a need locally for something that is different from any other clubs. We wanted to not only share our love of Leather, Leather history, but also provide an environment for sisterhood, education not only in kink/BDSM, but also in empowerment for women by women who face the same challenges.
https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2019-archive/295---river-city-girls-of.html
35 min
September 20, 2019 #294 - Abbey Wants It
How does a hot wife in Salt Lake City Utah, find play partners that want to perform in front of hubby? The answer is not nearly enough for Abbey. She is the opposite of what you may think about and a good religious girl. She gets off on teasing very straight gentlemen. Hear how this land-locked horny girl get it, in a very conservative state and her happily married husband gets to watch. What fun!

https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2019-archive/294---abbey-wants-ithow.html
25 min

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