As we celebrate entering our 7th year, we invited two people to join Woody in the celebration. First, you will hear the voice of a cast member that has been with the cast from the first episode. Touchy is our editor. Why edit, you might ask? The cast is made up of non-broadcast-professionals that still care enough to bring you a broadcast quality product. Touchy’s seldom-heard voice talks about some of the challenges of producing a product you can enjoy. Our main guest is an old friend that always has something to say. Nookie of NookieNots joins us for a fun talk about Dating Kinky. DatingKinky.com is built by kinksters for kinksters, poly, queer, trans folk, and anyone not-quite-vanilla—and it’s FREE. We're putting the finishing touches on our first official non-prototype release now, and we're testing with 45,000 kinksters already signed up. Join us for our Grand "Launch Again," and check out our amazing kinky educational library!

https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2020-archive/313---6-year-anniversary.html

Lew says…

https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2020-archive/312---lew-rubens---lew.html

We ran into Master Aaron’s fet page and saw a newspaper clipping, “Club’s bondage show spurs chain reaction”(click here to see the clipping). Ok, you have my interest. What’s going on? It seems Aaron has been staring thing up since 1996 in Southern California and Vaga$. He puts on bondage shows and is very active in the porn business. Master Arron has been doing live bondage & fetish show in the 805 (area code) & Los Angeles and Las Vegas since 1996 and I have been in over 39 Adult videos so he does know his shit about the Adult Industry. A Pro Dom & lifestyler and live of his days training subs/slaves in the art of BDSM & Kink. His dungeon is open for BDSM training sessions.

For the second show of the new year, we reach way down to New Zealand to find Ray Ray, a short time gang bang queen. Why short term? As you listen to this podcast, Ray Ray is on her way back to the USA. Listen as she lays out the ganging scene in a place where most of us know nothing about New Zealand’s brand of kinkyory. Ray Ray says, “I like the gang bang - woman - empowerment angle. I want the KinkyCast listeners to know what I get from the experience, how to deal with distractions - 8 and more, dicks yelling “suck me” and getting yourself off.” Hear about this logistical clusterfuck and how she gets it done.

From Explorations in Being Black and Kinky:

Sit a bunch of people around a microphone and the conversation can go in any direction. In the past it was everything you could not talk about at the dining room table. This one is different. We dig a bit deeper into what we think, is kink and what makes us kinky. Questions like: When did you first feel you were kinky? How old were you when it occurred? What was the situation? We covered if any of the panel members were sexually violated by a family member. We got into consent, giving it and revoking it. For the next hour, sit back and follow our crew on a journey through kinky discovery.

This week’s guest is, Susan Wright, founder of the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom. Each year at this time Susan joins us to revisit the year that was. This year we had some impressive improvements in the number of reported sexual assaults.

Chris and Elisha have celebrated more than a decade together as a polyamorous couple in a power exchange dynamic. They live in a 24/7, negotiated authority transfer dynamic and are the Arizona Master/slave 2018 titleholders. They believe continued growth is important to a successful long-term relationship and to that end are continually pushing their own, and each other’s, boundaries. They are both graduate students looking at various sex positive topics. Chris is looking at perceptions of hierarchy and power exchange in long term polyamorous relationships. He is recently divorced from a 23 year marriage and has two teenage boys. Elisha is looking at the intersection of the perceived benefits of yoga and BDSM participation, for example reduced anxiety and depression, connection to the self, and improved body image. She has been married 19 years. Her husband spent the last few years in Florida by the beach, but recently moved back to be closer. She’ll miss the easy vacation spot, but is happy to have him home. To extend their educational and academic outreach online they created TrulyBeloved.com where they offer adult coloring books, created by local artists, to help fund their conference presentation travel.

https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2019-archive/306---chris--elisha---ms.html

I would describe myself as a bubbly, sweet “girl next door” type with a secret kinky taste. The people in my life would never expect me to have such a freaky side because of how innocent I appear to be when I’m out in public. When I’m not working, you can typically find me hanging out with my cat, Ellie, playing volleyball or doing anything spontaneous. I’m always down for a fun adventure whether it’s sexual or not. :) I make a good FWB because I honestly love socializing, and making people smile. Behind closed doors I like the thought of all different types of sex. I enjoy anything from sensual soft kisses, to non-consensual role playing. My profile says I’m a switch but that only applies to women. I absolutely love dominating a beautiful woman and watching her get fucked. Her pleasure ultimately is mine, and I want it to be all about satisfying her desires. I’ve found that I typically enjoy threesomes the most, with some light bondage. Ultimately I am up for exploring all sorts of kinks, and maybe make some friends along the way.

-PhoenixSoul- is relatively new to the world of BDSM, but in the short time she's been on the scene has discovered a deep love of the lifestyle's ability to fuel her growth addiction. A lifelong commitment to understanding her deeper motivations behind her emotions and behaviors has fueled many of PhoenixSoul's writings. In this episode, she chats with Woody about her discovery of poly relationships, the difference between jealousy and envy and her writing group which dove into the "7 Deadly Sins" for October, which led to a series of hypothetical conversations with her mom. Phoenix' approach to BDSM (and life in general) is "look at what hurts, and why" to deepen self-awareness and growth.