Lead Yourself First

Lead Yourself First

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Lead Yourself First episodes

  • So you're INTIMIDATED by STRONG women?

    This is for the MEN out there who find themselves getting triggered by strong, independant, fierce, sexual women.... • • This is the time to step forward, step up and step out. We need MEN who can hold space for themselves, and in turn hold space for our sisters, so they can be unappologetically them 😍🚀

    4 min
  • #118 - Joel Stoinanis - Connect to yourself!

    Meet Joel Stoianis, the Perth based coach helping men step into their manhood!

    In this episode we delve into:
    -going against the grain
    -feeling like he owed his parents
    -suppression
    -personas
    -giving himself permission to be super weird
    -connecting with other MEN

    Direct download:


    Joels course:
    https://evolvebrotherhood.com/

    47 min
  • Bro, let her go through your phone!! - Making Sense of the Mess

    Bro, let her go through your phone.. 👀

    This is for all my men out there who cant let their partner go through their phone. Trust me, Ive been that guy... BUT I broke through the bullshit and made the changes necessary to quit being a man who was anxious and ashamed of his behaviour... you can too.

    What would it feel like to not worry about this?
    How much would your life improve without the constant anxiety?

    How much better would you feel about yourself knowing you no longer had to hide parts of you from the people you love?

    3 min
  • Your KIDS dont feel WORTHY of your LOVE 💔- Making Sense of the Mess

    Your KIDS dont feel WORTHY of your LOVE 💔

    This is for the FATHERS out there who struggle to let themselves express their feelings, emotion and love to their kids...

    Ive seen it in many of the men throughout my life amd Ive been that father myself. When we know the why, we can work towards reconstructing that underlying driving force, in a bid to become the father that our kids deserve...

    A father that gives and receieves love freely 💙

    3 min
  • Your SIDECHICK aint gonna solve the PROBLEM 😳😓- Making Sense of the Mess

    Your SIDECHICK aint gonna solve the PROBLEM 😳😓

    This is for those MEN that feel like having another partner is going to fill the void in their current relationships... like another partner will make them feel whole or worthy 😳

    Brothers, lets not bullshit ourselves, most of us know someone who either has or had a side chick... Ive definitely been that guy. Ive been that fifo guy with a fifo partner... hell, multiple partners... and yes the flirting and sex made me feel good in the moment, but id instantly fall back into the anxiety of my partner finding out, deleting my facebook account so I didnt get caught out and feeling more ashamed of myself and therefore, less worthy.

    So with that being said..

    What void are you trying to fill with someone else?

    How much would your life improve if you filled it with a deep sense of love and respect for yourself?

    Change the MINDSET, change the MAN!

    Lets BREAK THROUGH THE BULLSHIT!

    3 min
  • #117 - Raniera Rewiri - Look up from the trenches

    Meet Raniera Rewiri, AKA The Plant Based Maori and Host of the Planting Seeds Podcast. 

    In this episode Raniera opens up about:
    -Not receiving the love he wanted from his dad growing up & how he's been able to reframe his perspective on it.
    -Seeking external validation through relationships.
    -Being unfaithful and owning up to it
    -Playing the victim and how he's been able to acknowledge and accept his role in relationship breakdown.
    -His dream of being a speaker, then freezing on stage in front of an auditorium for 5+ minutes, then immediately attacking the fear and speaking again 1hr later. 
    -Acknowledging his progress and effort.
    -His belief around consciousness and love.


    This mans energy is infectious, so make sure you take the time to listen, digest and vibe high!

    Direct download:

    The Planting Seeds Podcast:
    https://podcasts.apple.com/nz/podcast/planting-seeds/id1463125582

    1 hr 2 min
  • #116 - Isaac John - Making the most of your setbacks

    This week we meet Isaac John, the former Kiwi International who made the transition from frequently injured athlete, to a thriving apparel co-founder and podcast host.

    In this episode we touch on:
    -Getting used to winning young
    -How he handled losses
    -The pressures of being a professional sportsman
    -Dealing with injuries
    -Not worrying about the opinions of others
    -Transitioning from athlete to business owner
    -How he perceives failure
    -Dealing with expectations 

    The Ice Project (podcast):
    https://theiiceproject.libsyn.com/

    To order from YKTR:
    https://www.yktr.com.au/

    44 min

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I'm back at it after 5+ years.

I've been through the fire. Forged by it 🔥

From finding out I wasn't actually my girl's dad 💔 to heart problems, strokes, losing my…