What can decades of studying relationships teach us about leadership? Bestselling author and psychologist Dr. Les Parrott joins Dr. McKinley to explore the intersection of relational intelligence and leadership. Drawing from his work with John Maxwell, Les reminds us that leadership is ultimately about influence. Our ability to influence others well begins with the courage to become more self-aware.

Our final episode has arrived! Still Becoming is a no-polish leadership conversation for people tired of pretending they’ve arrived. Two psychologists trade the wisdom their clients found most transformative. This mini-series podcast shares honest stories and practical insight on identity, work, joy, and resilience for leaders learning to adapt without losing themselves. 

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Leadership often rewards people who take ownership, but what happens when responsibility becomes over-responsibility?

In this solo episode, Dr. McKinley explores The Paradox of Responsibility: the tension between owning what is yours while resisting the temptation to carry what belongs to others. Drawing from personal stories, leadership coaching, and insights from thinkers like Stephen Covey and Edwin Friedman, he examines why so many leaders become exhausted by taking on burdens they were never meant to carry.

If you've ever struggled with burnout, over-functioning, or feeling responsible for everyone else's growth, this episode will help you lead with greater clarity, healthier boundaries, and the discernment to know what truly belongs to you.

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The conversation continues! Still Becoming is a no-polish leadership conversation for people tired of pretending they’ve arrived. Two psychologists trade the wisdom their clients found most transformative. This mini-series podcast shares honest stories and practical insight on identity, work, joy, and resilience for leaders learning to adapt without losing themselves. 

To Order Doug's Books: The Resiliency Quest, Mad About Us 

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In this episode, we explore how high achievers can build relationships that thrive under pressure, not just perform when the heat is on. Author and leadership coach Michelle McElroy, wife of former NFL athlete Ray McElroy, joins Dr. McKinley to unpack her Mental Conditioning Framework and discuss how ambitious professionals can channel their vocational success into becoming better human beings, spouses, parents, and partners.

Get Michelle's book: Performace-Driven Partnerships

To Order Doug's Books: The Resiliency Quest, Mad About Us 

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The conversation continues! Still Becoming is a no-polish leadership conversation for people tired of pretending they’ve arrived. Two psychologists trade the wisdom their clients found most transformative. This mini-series podcast shares honest stories and practical insight on identity, work, joy, and resilience for leaders learning to adapt without losing themselves. 

Watch the full episode on YouTube: Still Becoming Part 6

To Order Doug's Books: The Resiliency Quest, Mad About Us 

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What keeps gifted professionals from building the business their impact deserves? In this episode, Dr. McKinley interviews Adam Roach, a world-class business growth expert. They discuss the hidden fears that sabotage growth: self-doubt, sales resistance, insecurity, and the exhausting need to prove yourself. Discover how identity, mindset, and courage intersect so skilled professionals can finally scale their influence, income, and meaningful contribution.

To Order Doug's Books: The Resiliency Quest, Mad About Us 

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Learn more about Adam's work: https://ilovecoachingco.com/ 

The conversation continues! Still Becoming is a no-polish leadership conversation for people tired of pretending they’ve arrived. Two psychologists trade the wisdom their clients found most transformative. This mini-series podcast shares honest stories and practical insight on identity, work, joy, and resilience for leaders learning to adapt without losing themselves. 

Watch the full episode on Youtube: Still Becoming Part 5

To Order Doug's Books: The Resiliency Quest, Mad About Us 

Visit Doug's Website: https://www.dougmckinley.com/ 

Receive a Free Leadership Resource: Leadership Guide 

What does leadership look like when it stops being about control, performance, and proving? In this powerful conversation with frequent guest, Hendre Coetzee, Dr. McKinley discusses the hidden role fear plays in modern leadership and why courage is the pathway to authenticity. Together they address over-control, high-performing anxiety, identity gaps, and the cost of unnamed fear in teams and relationships. This episode is an invitation to lead with greater honesty, presence, and alignment so that who you are and how you lead finally become the same thing. Inspired by themes from Dr. McKinley's Lead From Identity work.

To Order Doug's Books: The Resiliency Quest, Mad About Us 

Visit Doug's Website: https://www.dougmckinley.com/ 

Receive a Free Leadership Resource: Leadership Guide 

The conversation continues! Still Becoming is a no-polish leadership conversation for people tired of pretending they’ve arrived. Two psychologists trade the wisdom their clients found most transformative. This mini-series podcast shares honest stories and practical insight on identity, work, joy, and resilience for leaders learning to adapt without losing themselves. 

Watch the full episode on Youtube: Still Becoming Part 4

To Order Doug's Books: The Resiliency Quest,Mad About Us 

Visit Doug's Website: https://www.dougmckinley.com/ 

Receive a Free Leadership Resource: Leadership Guide