How to Split a Toaster: A Divorce Podcast About Saving Your Relationships

Learning to Take the High Road with Andy Heller


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Why Is It So Hard to Take the High Road?

In the last decade, Andy Heller wrote two books on real estate investing while running an international freight forwarding company. So why is he the guest on this episode? Well... then he got divorced. 


Andy took the lessons of the challenges of that experience and reframed it into his third book, “Take the High Road: Divorce with Compassion for Yourself and Your Family.” He joins us to talk about all the roads he has taken along the way, and why learning to take the high road is the most important.


Links & Notes

  • “Take the High Road” on the web and Facebook
  • Buy "Take the High Road" on Amazon
  • Andy on Instagram
  • Schedule a consult with Seth
  • Got a question you want to ask on the show? Click here!
  • (00:00) - Welcome to How to Split a Toaster
  • (03:55) - Meet Andy Heller
  • (04:30) - Take the High Road
  • (09:00) - From Bigger to Smaller Objectives
  • (10:51) - Knowing When You're Emotionally Compromised
  • (14:04) - It's a Marathon, Not a Sprint
  • (15:59) - Being Flexible
  • (17:22) - Example
  • (19:07) - Where Your Energy Should Be
  • (20:33) - When Kids Aren't Involved
  • (21:30) - Leading to Changes From Your Ex
  • (28:57) - Time Moves Fast
  • (30:54) - Coming to a Place of Focus
  • (31:33) - The Rubber Suit
  • (35:37) - Wrap Up

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