Lets Be Honest Before We Start Pretending

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  • Ep 067: Why the "Type" of Goal Matters

    On today’s episode we are going to be talking about what it means to play a bigger game in life from a place of abundance and authenticity as a leader, and the impact that has on you and your relationships, teams, dreams, and aspirations through looking at goals beyond the SMART formula. Ready to take your life to the next level? You will want to tune in and take lots of notes.

     


    Here are the highlights from this episode:


    {2:01} Meaningful life starts with an important step


    {5:11} Setting goals helps us through tough days


    {7:22} Get a mentor who asks the tough questions


    {10:34} Resistance is the first stage of change


    {12:34} Keep smiling when people laugh at you


    {15:35} Don't give up on dreams because they take a lot of effort


    {17:48} Don't let the 'how brain' kick in


    {20:12} A and B goals are realistic and important...


    {21:27} ...but C goals are the ones to chase!


    Want to expand your contribution in your life? LIFt registration has opened up again, let’s take the lead together! www.kellyjmobeck.com/LIFt


     


    To connect with Coach Kelly and for more resources please visit www.kellyjmobeck.com  follow on Instagram @kellymobeck. Join us in our NEW Impact Growth Community on Facebook.


    You can also email us at [email protected]  let us know any questions you in life you have, and what you would love to hear more about, we are happy to help and will take these on in future episodes


    28 min
  • Ep 066: Teamwork Makes it ALL Work!

    In today’s episode we get to meet the LIFt Team! These five brilliant women along with myself will be supporting you throughout your LIFt adventures. They will be sharing their thoughts on some important topics and questions.  You will get to know them a little bit and they look forward to getting to know you. We will cover things like the importance of being a leader in your life, servant leadership, stretching out of your comfort zone, being in action even when you don’t know how and much more.  I know you will love them just as much as I do.  For more info on the team visit the website, and feel free to ask us any questions. 

     


    Here are the highlights from this episode:


    {3:48} You are in charge of your life


    {8:23} Andrea Voirin


    {12:11} Candy Cole


    {15:47} Shirley Patterson


    {18:38} Gia Hellwig


    {21:24} Kelsey Starz


    {22:12} The LIFt program


     


    Want to expand your contribution in your life? LIFt registration has opened up again, let’s take the lead together! www.kellyjmobeck.com/LIFt


    To connect with Coach Kelly and for more resources please visit www.kellyjmobeck.com  follow on Instagram @kellymobeck. Join us in our NEW Impact Growth Community on Facebook.


    You can also email us at [email protected]  let us know any questions you in life you have, and what you would love to hear more about, we are happy to help and will take these on in future episodes


    27 min
  • Ep 065: Becoming PALS with Aiesha Colvin

    In today’s episode we are going to continue talking about playing a bigger game from a place of abundance and authenticity as a leader and the impact that has on you and your  relationships, teams, dreams, and aspirations.  Today we have an amazing guest here who I am so excited to share with you all who I have had the extreme honor to witness her stepping into her authentic leadership and create abundance in her life and also the lives of others. She is a recent graduate of LIFt the Leadership Impact Forum training where she truly committed to creating breakthroughs, contributions, and results that she wants in her life, her family’s life and big steps towards some big aspirations.  She is a leader, has a huge heart, is brilliant I am thrilled to have Aiesha Colvin on the podcast today.

    Aiesha Colvin is a native Angeleno, animal lover, mother, and business owner. When she says animal lover, she means it! Even though she was raised in the middle of Los Angeles, California; her life was infused with exotic and wild animals. Her love of animals was nurtured by her mother allowing her to participate in several urban animal education classes. She studied animal anatomy and eco system in elementary grade level programs offered by the Los Angeles Natural Museum. She then began a life defining student volunteer program at the Los Angeles Zoo. The more she worked with animals the more she wanted to be around them. After high school, she attended California Polytechnic University in San Luis Obispo where she earned a Bachelor of Science in Animal Science. After she graduated from “Poly”, she attended exotic animal training school. Yes, there is an exotic animal training school. From there her career has been filled with several high profile zookeeping and animal positions. She currently works as an Animal Safety Monitor with film and TV animals. Aiesha is nurturing and growing her entrepreneurial dreams by developing her own business. Aiesha is also a single mother of two lovely and precocious teens. They live in Los with four senior dogs and two rabbits.


    Want to create more of an impact in your life? LIFt registration has opened up again, let’s take the lead together! www.kellyjmobeck.com/LIFt


     


    Here are the highlights from this episode:


    {4:51} What does leadership mean to you?


    {7:18} Using LIFt to build self-confidence


    {11:36} How do I want to show up?


    {13:03} About PALS


    {17:21} Having an AirBnB


    {21:03} It's all about the kids


    {22:58} I have stretched


    {27:16} Not ANY single men


     


    To connect with Aiesha please contact her at:


    PALS Pet and Life Solutions (213) 296-3805 (responds within 24 hours)doTerra http://my.doterra.com/aieshacolvin2


    AirBnB site: https://abnb.me/Z7spSPg8Jhb


     


    As heard on this episode for women leaders looking for a self-care retreat visit:


    BAWLR www.badassretreat.com


     


    To connect with Coach Kelly and for more resources please visit www.kellyjmobeck.com  follow on Instagram @kellymobeck. Join us in our NEW Impact Growth Community on Facebook. You can also email us at [email protected]  let us know any questions you in life you have, and what you would love to hear more about, we are happy to help and will take these on in future episodes


    35 min
  • Ep 064: Where Do You Serve with Gia Hellwig & Joclynn July

    In today’s episode we are going to be talking about servant leadership from a place of abundance and authenticity as a leader. Today we have two amazing guests here who I am so excited to share with you all and they truly come from a place of abundance, authenticity, and always creating an impact in the world. Both of these amazing women are recent graduates of LIFt and one of the principles we dive into in LIFt is the power and gift of servant leadership.  These two women chose to be accountability partners and really dove into servant leadership in a big way.  You will also hear about their contribution in service to Conservation Ambassadors' Wild Things. I am thrilled to have them here today, they are going to share about their project, what they learned and are learning as servant leaders and so much more. So let me introduce you to both Gia Hellwig and Joclynn July are also returning guests, a true testament to the power of continued growth and always taking on their next level personally and professionally.

     


    Gia Hellwig is the owner and creator of Gia Hellwig Events. She creates moments in time for people to forget about the hustle and bustle of daily life. Party Package to Go is the crafty, creative side of Gia Hellwig Events. Gia grew up in Monterey County and graduated from UC Davis with her bachelor’s degree. She grew up dancing, playing musical instruments and generally getting dirty outside learning life skills like post hole digging and building retaining walls. Inside, she learned how to cook and read many books. Gia loves creating and building! She lives in Woodland with her honey in their beautiful home enjoying their succulents and our garden.


    Joclynn July is the owner of the newly established Leo Rising Travels where she aims to provide uniquely life altering experiences globally and will be launching in South Africa. Her purpose is to share her love and appreciation of animals and mother nature. Joclynn’s purpose has driven her to make a difference, empower stewardship and share her knowledge and love of animals with the world. Her passion for the natural world also permeates through her doTerra Essential oils business. In wanting to make a difference and take a stand with others, Joclynn is training to become a coach. Overall, her passion for growth and change inspires her to make a difference in her life and the lives of others both for human-kind as well as the natural world.


     


    Here are the highlights from this episode:


    {1:04} Introduction & LIFt


    {7:01} Doing what you love


    {9:55} Just start somewhere


    {12:32} Wild Things


    {16:25} Stepping beyond the comfort zone


    {20:13} Planning for California fires


    {22:39} Creating an appreciation for the natural world


    {26:38} wildthingsoutreach.org 


    {30:26} The benefits of LIFt



    Check out Wild Things! https://wildthingsoutreach.org/wp-content/uploads/2021/06/ad_flyer-wildthings.pdf


     


    To connect with Gia Hellwig please visit her at www.partypackagetogo.com


    Instagram @partypackagetogo


     


    To connect with Joclynn July please visit her at [email protected]


    www.doTerra.com/joclynnjuly


     


    Want to expand your contribution in your life? LIFt registration has opened up again, let’s take the lead together! www.kellyjmobeck.com/LIFt


    To connect with Coach Kelly and for more resources please visit www.kellyjmobeck.com  follow on Instagram @kellymobeck. Join us in our NEW Impact Growth Community on Facebook.


    You can also email us at [email protected]  let us know any questions you in life you have, and what you would love to hear more about, we are happy to help and will take these on in future episodes


    43 min
  • Ep 063: What is Your Impact with Shirley Patterson

    In today’s episode, we are going to be talking about what it means to play a bigger game in life from a place of abundance and authenticity as a leader and the impact that has on you and your dreams, and aspirations. 

    We have an amazing guest here who I am so excited to share with you as she truly comes from a place of abundance, authenticity, and always creating an impact in the world. She is a recent graduate of LIFt the leadership impact forum training where she committed to and continues to be in bold action towards realizing her dreams and contributions in the world.  She is an impact maker, an amazing Coach, one of our fantastic coaches on the Fall LIFt 2021 Team, and I am thrilled to have her on the podcast today.  


     


    Shirley Patterson established Charis Coaching and Consulting with a mission to empower individuals and organizations to reach their goals. Her purpose is “to ignite a spirit of hope and purpose in people in a way that supports and encourages them to embrace and achieve “what’s possible!” 


    After retiring from a successful career in the Aerospace and Defense Sector with The Raytheon Company, Shirley became a Certified Performance and Leadership Coach through the Source Point Training Institute, an ICF affiliate. Her years of mentoring and coaching employees and small business owners coupled with her expertise in training, strategic planning, policy and proposal development, and conference and retreat planning, uniquely prepared her for her role as Coach and Consultant.


    Shirley is passionate about being in service and actively supports child education, economic development, and women’s empowerment initiatives worldwide. Her missions’ travels have included nations in Africa, South America, and the Caribbean.


     


    Shirley holds a Master of Science degree in Supply Chain Management from the University of San Diego and a Master of Arts in Behavioral Science with a Concentration in Negotiations and Conflict Resolution from California State Dominguez Hills.


     


    To connect with Shirley please visit her at https://www.chariscoachingandconsulting.com/


    Instagram @chariscoachshirley


    Facebook @Charis Coaching and Consulting


     


    Here are the highlights from this episode:


    {5:02} How and why Shirley became a coach


    {7:43} How LIFt helped Shirley personally and professionally


    {13:26} Shirley's coaching business


    {15:14} Shirley's favorite thing about being a coach


    {19:28} Having a growth mindset


    {21:29} What's next for Shirley



    Want to expand your contribution in your life? LIFt registration has opened up again, let’s take the lead together! www.kellyjmobeck.com/LIFt


     


    To connect with Coach Kelly and for more resources please visit www.kellyjmobeck.com  follow on Instagram @kellymobeck. Join us in our NEW Impact Growth Community on Facebook.


    You can also email us at [email protected]  let us know any questions you have, and what you would love to hear more about, we are happy to help and will take these on in future episodes


    30 min
  • Ep 062: It's All In the Mind

    In this week’s episode we are going to be talking about what it means to have an abundant mindset as a leader, and the impact it can have on you and your relationships, teams, dreams, aspirations.

    Here are the highlights from this episode:


    {1:41} Jamie Kern Lima's success story


    {3:00} Leaders share an abundance mindset


    {4:18} Seeing opportunity where others see obstacles


    {6:11} Scarcity is the opposite of abundance


    {8:43} A leader's mindset sets the culture


    {10:58} Abundance creates abundance


    {13:25} Challenges are opportunities


    To find out more about LIFt please visit www.kellyjmobeck.com/LIFt


    To connect with Coach Kelly and for more resources please visit www.kellyjmobeck.com  follow on Instagram @coach_kellymobeck. You can also email us at [email protected]  let us know any questions you in life you have, and what you would love to hear more about, we are happy to help and will take these on in future episodes.


    18 min
  • Ep 061: This Is Me

    In this episode we are talking about what it means to be an authentic leader, and the impact it can have on you and your relationships, teams, and dreams.

    We are going to highlight and create value on what it means to be authentic, ahead of a new mini series all about authenticity.


     


    Here are the highlights:


    {1:34} Have you won the $100 gift card?


    {3:58} Authenticity allows us to see someone as they are


    {6:14} The characteristics of authenticity


    {7:40} The characteristics of inauthenticity


    {10:53} The Queen of Authenticity - Jamie Kern Lima


    {17:19} Tap into who you are as a leader


    Ready to dive deeper in taking the lead in your life? LIFt registration is open! Check out the details and register here www.kellyjmobeck.com/LIFt


    To connect with Coach Kelly and for more resources please visit www.kellyjmobeck.com  follow on Instagram @kellymobeck. You can also email us at [email protected]  let us know any questions you in life you have, and what you would love to hear more about, we are happy to help and will take these on in future episodes.


    22 min
  • Ep 060: Rule Makers

    In this episode, I'm going to dive into self-limiting beliefs. We've talked a lot before about being in charge of our experiences, and we're going to continue with that.

    You can also find out more about this topic through LIFt - the leadership impact forum training, which is open again for registration. Let’s take the lead together! www.kellyjmobeck.com/LIFt


     


    Here are the highlights:


    {2:44} What are self-limiting beliefs?


    {5:00} We make up rules to fit our beliefs


    {7:51} Nobody likes being wrong


    {10:07} You must believe you're good enough


    {13:05} Don't limit yourself; always find a way


    {17:04} How to identify your limiting beliefs


    {19:26} Set realistic outcome goals


    {21:12} It's okay to reach out


    {25:53} Guess what? I did it, and so can you


    {28:43} Understand the self-limiting belief's purpose


    {31:04} Laugh at them


    To connect with Coach Kelly and for more resources please visit www.kellyjmobeck.com  follow on Instagram @coach_kellymobeck. You can also email us at [email protected]  let us know any questions you in life you have, and what you would love to hear more about, we are happy to help and will take these on in future episodes.


    38 min
  • Ep 059: Ready for a Bigger Game

    On this episode we're going to revisit lessons from one of America's favorite pastimes - baseball.

    It's a game that really requires repetitive building of skills to be successful. Thousands of ground balls, hours in the batting cage, and throwing until your arm is legitimately rubber. And you know what leadership is exactly the same!


    Great leaders are not born.; they emerge through the application of principles and skills on a consistent basis. Leaders must constantly practice and hone their skillset in coaching, listening, planning from their purpose and vision and enrolling allies or a team, and then empowering them to take the lead and create results. 


     


    Here are the highlights from this episode:


    {1:00} Reminiscing about the Dodgers


    {5:25} Baseball and leadership are games of collective results


    {10:48} Confusion is just a lack of focus


    {13:25} What's your bigger game?


    {15:20} LIFt yourself up


    {19:49} What do you want for yourself?


     


    Want to expand your contribution in your life? LIFt registration has opened up again, 


    let’s take the lead together! www.kellyjmobeck.com/LIFt


    To connect with Coach Kelly and for more resources please visit www.kellyjmobeck.com  follow on Instagram @coach_kellymobeck. You can also email us at [email protected]  let us know any questions you in life you have, and what you would love to hear more about, we are happy to help and will take these on in future episodes.


    24 min
  • Ep 058: Half Time Huddle Up

    To celebrate Memorial Day and get you ready to head into June to slay your goals comes our halfway through the year huddle. 

    June reminds us often it's time to take a break. School takes a summer break. Vacations are being planned and we are ready to relax and take a break. I've always looked at June as like a half time huddle up as it's a great time to revisit those goals that we set at the start of the year, and then do something today that I know my future self is going to thank me for. That's what this episode is all about.


     


    Here are the highlights from this episode:


    {3:39} What is a half time huddle up?


    {6:21} Write down everything you have achieved


    {9:15} Get real!


    {11:31} Reassessing what didn't work


    {13:40} Schedule your steps, get accountable and be in action.


     


    It’s celebration time! We are celebrating our one-year anniversary of the podcast where you are taking the lead in your life every single week and I am here for it.  Thank you so much for listening, subscribing, and sharing with the people in your life. I am incredibly grateful. In honor of our anniversary, we are going to give a lucky listener a $100 Amazon gift card. Please subscribe (if you haven’t already) and leave a 5 Star written review on Apple podcasts. If you are an android user or don’t listen on Apple podcasts you can play too. Leave a review and subscribe wherever you listen to podcasts then send me a screenshot. Or write and send me a review for the website. I will be pulling one lucky winner for the $100 Amazon card at the end of May 2021.


    Have you seen our new Impact Series workshops? Click here for the Impact Series and we look forward to welcoming you.


    Want to expand your contribution in your life? LIFt registration has opened up again, let’s take the lead together! www.kellyjmobeck.com/LIFt


    To connect with Coach Kelly and for more resources please visit www.kellyjmobeck.com  follow on Instagram @coach_kellymobeck. You can also email us at [email protected]  let us know any questions you in life you have, and what you would love to hear more about, we are happy to help and will take these on in future episodes.


    19 min

About Lets Be Honest Before We Start Pretending

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Welcome to Let’s Be Honest Before We Start Pretending, the Podcast where YOU get to Take the Lead in Your Life w/ Coach Kelly Mobeck as we move through this beautiful thing called life!