In this episode of Dishing with Buff Faye, Buff reflects on the power of queer joy—especially in today’s world where joy is a revolutionary act.

Coming off a fabulous Charlotte Pride celebration, Buff celebrates how far the city has come, from its first Pride picnic in 1981 to now hosting the largest parade in Charlotte, PERIOD!

Joining Buff is her drag sister and special guest, Devida—a licensed counselor, addiction specialist, professor, and former Miss Gay North Carolina America.

The two dive deep into what it really means to embrace joy as LGBTQ+ people. From Cheetos dresses and pageant memories to the importance of rest, authenticity, and connection, the conversation blends drag, mental health, and healing.

Devida shares her journey in both drag and counseling, highlighting how acknowledging burnout, setting boundaries, and embracing your full self are key steps toward finding joy.

For queer folks, it’s not just about celebration—it’s about survival,

In a world where people often perform to be seen, finding joy is about being truly yourself—no filter needed.

The episode wraps with a playful round of “Yuck or Yum: Pride Edition” that will leave you laughing and lifted.

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