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Did Beethoven rock the 'naughty or nice' list? Ava and Solange kick off this merry episode with some holiday sweater antics and a playful debate about the legendary composer himself, (spoiler: he was deaf). Grinch sweaters,  some laugh-filled reflections on our annual behavior report—naughty or nice? 
We also announce our snail giveaway contest winner! 

As the conversation turns to cherished Christmas traditions, we sprinkle in a dash of nostalgia, recalling childhood memories like sneaking a peek at presents and the magical sound of bells signaling Santa's imminent arrival. These stories remind us of the joy of keeping traditions alive, honoring those we've lost and making new memories with family and friends. Story about Monica's (Solange's sister) humorous take on AI in our everyday life, igniting a lighthearted tech debate are you a green bubble? 

Wrapping things up on a high note, we dish about our celebrity crushes and favorite shows like "Love Island UK," adding a sprinkle of Hollywood magic to our festive farewells. As we extend warm holiday wishes, including shout-outs to Hanukkah! Whether you're cozying up in your favorite sweater or decking the halls with loved ones, join us for a jolly journey through this season of giving and gratitude. 

Happy Holiday's! 

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In this episode, we chat about the awkward dance of returning an engagement ring post-breakup? Setting the stage for a lively debate about the etiquette of ring returns when wedding bells fails. We’re joined by Ava and Solange, who spill the beans on their personal stories. We also share our last minute gift guide for the queers and non queers!

Holiday gift guide is listed below as well with all the links to everything we chat about in this episode. We also have a very special Holiday Giveaway in the episode of the infamous SAIL! A.K.A the Lelo Sila Vibrator. It is one to surely send you to the moon! Contest detail below...   
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GIVEAWAY DETAILS:
1. Like and follow us on Instagram (follow contest post rules)
www.instagram.com/lezsaymore

2. Subscribe to our YouTube channel and make sure to comment
"I WANT A SNAIL"
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3. Follow our show on Apple Podcast and give us a 5 star rating along with a review, make sure to add a "nickname" that matches your instagram and YouTube name so, we can identify you on all platforms.

Apple podcast
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/lez-say-more-podcast/id1774126255

Winner will be announced on Christmas Day 2024 on our episode as well as on Instagram and Dm'ed for additional shipping information. GOOD LUCK!
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HOLIDAY GIFT GUIDE:

1. Lelo Vibrator (snail)
https://www.lelo.com/sila?utm_source=google&utm_medium=cpc&utm_campaign=GSN-AOA-Lelo-lelo-SALES-BOT-BRAND-eng-USCA&gad_source=1&gbraid=0AAAAADdTo8g0vWnAr9D-nsxDQ5VggCNXc)

2. Best lube
https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B00KDHSAAM?psc=1&ref=ppx_pop_mob_b_asin_title

3. Hardware Harness
https://www.wetforher.com/joque-strap-on-o-ring-harness-xs-5x.html?gad_source=1&gbraid=0AAAAADpddi8g8tjfKFIn4AesskdTaX6KL&gclid=CjwKCAiA3ZC6BhBaEiwAeqfvyoDbb-Qv55j1LM5u8fp_j-oQ44x0aRDvb0C8w7mFO4jrFPySMmgOchoCVcUQAvD_BwE

4. Surya Spa Massage
https://www.properhotel.com/santa-monica/surya-spa/

5. Mother F' Socks
https://www.motherdenim.com/products/baby-steps-mwb-white-black-1

6.  Our Place
https://fromourplace.com/

7. Quince Sheets
https://www.quince.com/home/bamboo-sheets?color=sand&qpid=_

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We find out what Solange's bombshell cliff hanger is, who's Ms. O? To can honesty in the bedroom transform your intimate relationships? Join us for an eye-opening journey as we toast to vulnerability and unmask the misconceptions surrounding female orgasms. We kick things off with a lighthearted cheers and tequila shots, setting the stage for candid confessions about faking orgasms, mental barriers, and the long path toward sexual empowerment. Through personal anecdotes, we uncover the pressures of people-pleasing and the liberating experience of shifting from solely giving to embracing the joy of receiving pleasure. 
 
 We dive into the nuances of patience, communication, and self-exploration, underscoring that not climaxing doesn't mean something is broken within us. By challenging societal taboos and confronting past insecurities, we reveal how honesty can lead to a breakthrough in sexual satisfaction and self-acceptance. You'll hear stories that challenge stigmas and embrace the messy realities of personal growth in intimacy, from the differences between solo and partnered orgasms to the humorous misunderstandings of sex parties and stoplight-themed get-togethers.
 
 As we navigate these conversations, we also tackle topics like sexual health, personal preferences, and the emotional toll of less-than-ideal experiences. From sex injuries to the power of vocalizing desires, we leave no stone unturned. Whether you're chuckling at the mishaps or nodding along with the journey of self-discovery, this episode promises a blend of humor, honesty, and heartfelt insights. So tune in and join our community focused on understanding, communicating, and celebrating the diverse paths of sexual exploration.

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On this weeks episode of the Lez Say More podcast we navigate the tricky terrain of gender roles in sexual relationships, sharing personal stories that reflect the confusion and discovery that come without the traditional "birds and the bees" talk. With open hearts and open laughs, we recount the missteps and learning curves of aligning personal feelings with societal expectations. This chapter offers a poignant look at the early stages of sexual self-discovery, underscored by anecdotes that are as amusing as they are insightful.
 
 In a light-hearted exploration of intimacy, insecurities, and the playful world of sex toys, we dive into emotional connections that transcend mere physical attraction. The conversation takes a funny turn as we entertain the idea of 'field trips' to explore instant attraction and share our adventures with vibrators like "the snail." From the dynamics of being a top or bottom to the role of dirty talk, we paint a vivid picture of the joys and complexities of personal intimacy. Trust, communication, and a dash of humor steer this candid chat about the pleasures and pitfalls of exploring one's desires.

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Clearing the air on our last episode about cougars, pumas, cheetahs and jaguar!  We kick off this episode with a playful exploration of these often misunderstood labels. We humorously unpack the quirky dynamics of age and relationships they imply, and even stumble upon the term "gerontophile" for those who prefer older partners. Our chat wraps up with a delightful revelation of our own fitting labels, all while championing the notion that diverse dating preferences deserve celebration, not scorn.

Thanksgiving is about family, food, and sometimes, a side of chaos. We share our heartwarming and occasionally chaotic Thanksgiving tales, spanning classic American traditions with turkey and pumpkin pie to a vibrant blend of Persian and American customs. Navigating the holiday season also means juggling multiple family gatherings and the sometimes tricky dynamics of a partner’s family. Our stories offer tips on keeping it all together with kindness and grace, and we celebrate a cousin’s engagement, adding a joyful note to these festive reflections.

Love, lust, and friendships with blurred boundaries—these are the minefields we traverse in our candid conversation. We recount the awkwardness of bumping into exes and the complexities when friends harbor unreciprocated romantic feelings. Through personal stories, we ponder the fine line between friendliness and flirtation and whether to confront these emotions head-on or let them dissolve quietly. Delving into the age-old debate of love versus lust, we challenge the idea of instant love, focusing instead on how genuine connections thrive on humor and personality. As we close, gratitude fills the air for our relationships, health, and the sheer joy of creating this podcast together.

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Ever had a beauty mishap right before a major event? Ava sure did, with an eyebrow lift incident just days before her wedding! In our latest episode, we—Solange and Ava—share some hilarious Botox tales and candidly discuss our self-care rituals. We’re not afraid to laugh at ourselves while highlighting the importance of choosing the right skincare routines that match our personalities and bodies.

Fashion lovers, tune in as we chat about how Love Island has influenced our clothing choices, especially during those scorching California summers. We navigate the sometimes tricky waters of dressing for diverse body types while staying true to our style. From polo shirts to exploring new fashion territories, we’ve come a long way—and we're all about letting individuals express themselves, especially when it comes to big events like weddings!

Age is just a number, right? We tackle this common perception as we explore relationships with age differences. From weight loss boosting our fashion confidence to the humorous labels like "cougar" and "puma," we’re all about embracing what makes us feel good. We share our thoughts on how age impacts relationship dynamics and how those differences often fade over time, leaving room for maturity and shared experiences. Join us for a light-hearted yet insightful conversation on style, self-care, and the age-old topic of love across generations.

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Have you ever found yourself trapped in the intricate web of lies that comes with juggling multiple relationships? In this episode of the Lez Say More podcast, we unravel personal tales of infidelity and the emotional chaos that ensues when secrets are revealed. We explore the devastating impact on trust and self-worth, and share the hard-earned lessons about honesty and transparency in relationships. From the rebellious thrill of deceit to the inevitable confrontation, we lay bare our experiences and what they've taught us about the complex dynamics of fidelity.

Cheating isn't just black and white—it's a spectrum of emotional and physical betrayals. We dive into what happens when a partner strays, weighing factors that influence the decision to stay together. Is emotional infidelity more damaging than physical indiscretions? Join us as we dissect these questions, ponder the psychological fallout of cheating, and consider open relationships as a potential alternative for those seeking multiple connections. The pursuit of someone desired by others and its impact on self-esteem is also on the table, as we discuss how these dynamics shape our choices and perceptions of self-worth.

For those navigating closeted relationships, the struggle is real and often fraught with fear of societal and familial rejection. We reflect on the emotional challenges of loving someone afraid to openly embrace their identity, sharing insights from our own experiences. Additionally, we critique the portrayal of lesbian relationships in media, the complex allure of dating newly out or straight women, and the varied ways individuals monetize their content online. As we wrap up, we consider the value of bringing experts like sex and relationship therapists onto the podcast to enrich our discussions, offering listeners deeper insight and advice.

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Ever felt blindsided by love's unpredictable twists? We've been there, and we're recounting those messy, magical moments that define our journey to self-discovery. From Solange's humorous tale of shared ex-girlfriend Mildred to Ava's reflections on youthful intuition and trust, we explore how the chaos of early relationships shapes who we are today. Revisit those cringe-worthy yet enlightening times when our sidekick phones buzzed with secrets, friendships teetered on the brink, and we learned more about ourselves than we ever imagined.

Navigating through the stormy seas of breakups, we share how personal freedom and self-identity become our anchors. Imagine a breakup so intense that a Blackberry became the focal point of escape! With gratitude, we recount the unwavering support of friends who helped us through the turbulence, and how embracing a ready-made family brought unexpected highs and lows. Experience the hilarity and heartbreak as we untangle the web of workplace romances and instant messenger breakups, proving that love’s end is just as complex as its beginning.

Every story shared in this episode invites you into the world of loving fiercely and learning deeply. We reflect on the balance between giving your all and the importance of self-reflection before jumping into something new. Join us as we laugh, cringe, and embrace the crazy, beautiful journey of love and loss, always reminding ourselves and our community of the joy found in shared experiences. Don't forget to support our adventures by rating, subscribing, and sharing the fun with your friends. Let's keep building this supportive community together!

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Have you ever had a dating experience so spooky it left you glancing over your shoulder? This Halloween special is filled with spine-chilling tales from our listeners and our own encounters, painting a picture of the eeriest side of dating. As we don our themed costumes—one of us as a symbol of being hunted and the other as a valiant Captain—we share stories of creepy stalkers and unsettling encounters that will make your heart race and your lips curl into a smirk. Tune in for a ghoulishly good time as we chat about these bizarre dating scenarios with of course some humor.

Our discussion takes an intriguing twist with the odd dynamics of being watched, as we recall past relationships and the peculiar ways they sometimes ended. From tales of troubled partners and being pursued by overly dedicated ex-girlfriends, to reflecting on drive-bys and our own stakeout adventures, we uncover the complexities of control and boundaries. We also dive into modern dating culture, discussing the impact of social media and dating apps while critiquing shows like "Love is Blind." It's an exploration of infatuation, obliviousness to romantic interest, and the ever-evolving landscape of digital romance.

To lighten the mood, we end with a nostalgic walk down Halloween memory lane, sharing our favorite costumes and memories that brought laughter and creativity to the forefront. Whether reminiscing about witty costume choices like a cereal killer or reliving the vibrant chaos of West Hollywood Halloween nights, we embrace the fun side of this spooky season. As we plan for future Halloweens and share our gratitude for our listeners, we hope these stories inspire you to both reflect on your own dating adventures and share your most haunting tales with us. Happy Halloween to all our listeners—may your nights be filled with treats and just the right amount of tricks!

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What happens when cultural expectations clash with personal identity? Join us as we navigate the emotional highs and lows of coming out in diverse family settings. From the heart-wrenching confrontation in an Islamic household triggered by the discovery of photos, to the struggle for acceptance within a non-religious family led by a feminist mother, we uncover the complexities of reconciling one's true self with the pressures of societal norms. With stories that blend humor and sincerity, we share the awkward family dynamics, the guilt, and the impactful moments that shape our personal journeys toward self-acceptance.

Take a trip down memory lane as we reminisce about the pressures of adhering to traditional roles, like dressing for prom, while exploring how these experiences influenced our understanding of identity. Our episode captures the vibrant and sometimes humorous facets of lesbian culture, reflecting on stereotypes, relationship dynamics, and the evolution of nightlife. We ponder why lesbian bars have dwindled over time. Through personal anecdotes, we highlight the power of unexpected attractions and the joy of shared experiences that bring laughter amidst serious conversations.

As we wrap up, prepare for a lively segment filled with rapid-fire questions about favorite things and personal qualities that offer a glimpse into our lives beyond the coming out narrative. From dream encounters with iconic figures to karaoke song preferences, we reflect on the qualities we admire most in others. This episode is a heartfelt blend of introspection and entertainment, leaving you with gratitude and anticipation for what's next in our exploration of identity, culture, and the stories that shape us.

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