Philip’s short, and personal podcast journey concludes.

How he feels. A summation of what he has learnt. Where he goes from here.

Organisations that offer Bereavement Support information

(alphabetical order)

Please note, I have not used them myself as I never thought to look online. You live and learn.

Please perform your own due diligence / research.

Age UK

https://www.ageuk.org.uk/information-advice/health-wellbeing/relationships-family/bereavement/

HM Government

https://www.gov.uk/after-a-death/bereavement-help-and-support

• NHS advice on dealing with bereavement, grief and loss
• Cruse Bereavement Support to learn more about the grieving process
• National Bereavement Service for ways to manage grief
• The Good Grief Trust for support if you are newly bereaved

Sue Ryder

https://www.sueryder.org/grief-support/online-bereavement-support/

Very Well Mind

https://www.verywellmind.com/what-is-traumatic-grief-therapy-5097276

NHS

https://www.nhs.uk/mental-health/feelings-symptoms-behaviours/feelings-and-symptoms/grief-bereavement-loss/

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Music: Dvorak’s Largo (From “New World Symphony”)

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This episode explores how a Mother’s work is never done.

Philip explores his own relationship with life and how his mother was influential in shaping his outlook on the world and how he, as an individual, has control over how he wants to live.

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Music extract: Dvorak’s Largo (From “New World Symphony”)

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Philip discuses what, in his eyes, makes a great mum. The character traits and the diligence required and how he has applied that to his own life. And how a loving and safe childhood is the best thing any parent can do for their child.

He also explores how within those seemingly strict guidelines of nurturing his Mum’s adventurous spirit found avenues of expression and one, which fifty years later would be instrumental in his own healing process.

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Music extract: Dvorak’s Largo (From “New World Symphony”)

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Philip examines the importance to be “present” in life, not only for your own life, but for those around you.

And the importance of “banking” memories and discusses the idiosyncratic traits that makes some memories stand out from all the rest.

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Here Philip explores some of the changes that occurred in his Mum following her dementia diagnosis, his thoughts based on several days when he acted as his Mum’s primary carer and an interpretation of his Mum’s actions that is pivotal to his understanding.

Show Notes:

Oliver James, called “Contented Dementia”

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Music extract: Dvorak’s Largo (From “New World Symphony”)

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A retrospective review of the person behind the “Mum” persona and what makes a great mum and how this has lead him to realise that he has embraced many of her “soft skill” teachings.

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Recalling the more quirky side of his Mum’s final wishes Philip reveals a measure of the “can do” attitude required to find solutions to ensure all is satisfactory.

As well as revealing his thoughts and feelings on the day his mother is laid to rest.

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Philip reviews the UK Government’s “Tell Us Once” service, what you need to know and how it works.

In addition he recounts his experience of being an Executor for the first time.

Show notes:

Link to the UK Government’s Tell Us Once service:

https://www.gov.uk/after-a-death/organisations-you-need-to-contact-and-tell-us-once

If you missed the deadline, the Do It Yourself link:

https://www.gov.uk/after-a-death/report-without-tell-us-once

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Drawing upon past experiences, tempered by modern world attitudes, Philip makes the bold decision to not suppress his emotions.

He also briefly examines the various stages of grief and explores what they mean to him, and why not all apply.

Shownotes:

https://www.healthline.com/health/stages-of-grief#5-stages

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Music extract: Dvorak’s Largo (From “New World Symphony”)

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The sudden and unexpected death of the podcast Host’s mother leaves him heartbroken and retrospective.

In this first episode, podcast-host Philip examines his relationship, laying down the foundations of his journey to determine if there is life after her death.

This is a very personal account of one man’s healing from a trauma that has or will befall almost everyone at sometime in their lives.

Show Notes

Post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) re NHS

https://www.nhsinform.scot/illnesses-and-conditions/mental-health/post-traumatic-stress-disorder-ptsd/

Oliver James, called “Contented Dementia”

https://www.amazon.co.uk/Contented-Dementia-Revolutionary-Wraparound-Well-being/dp/0091901812

Workhouse

https://www.britannica.com/topic/workhouse

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