How can pickleball test a relationship, reveal our communication patterns, and actually help couples love each other better instead of wanting to pull out a kitchen knife?
In this episode, Teri Citterman and Dr. Stormy Hill, co-authors of the Amazon bestselling book In a Pickle: How to Master Love and Pickleball and Not Kill Each Other, share how their personal pickleball journeys, professional expertise, and real-life relationship struggles inspired them to write one of the most relatable books in the sport. Teri brings her background as an executive coach helping people with communication, feedback, and difficult conversations, while Stormy brings 20 years of experience as a mental health occupational therapist and relationship and intimacy coach. Together, they explain why the pickleball court can become a surprisingly intense communication workshop for couples, and why so many loving relationships can suddenly go sideways once the score starts counting.
They also open up about their own stories, from discovering pickleball in Austin and Costa Rica to watching their otherwise strong romantic relationships get tested on the court. Teri and Stormy talk honestly about expectations, competitiveness, learning differences, assumptions, frustration, mixed doubles, tournament pressure, and the emotional charge that comes from playing with the person you love most. Along the way, they share practical tools from the book, including safe words, intention setting, the importance of humor, and their unforgettable first rule of pickleball: don’t be a dick.
This is a funny, wise, and surprisingly insightful conversation about pickleball, relationships, communication, mixed doubles, marriage, dating, couples coaching, emotional intelligence, conflict resolution, Costa Rica pickleball, and the life lessons that remind us that love and pickleball can absolutely go together, if we learn how to play with more grace, honesty, and fun.
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