How are we suppose to respond when our ex texts us? Should we respond at all? How are we suppose to react and feel afterwards? There are times where some of us need to text our ex- but how do we navigate through this without it ruining our entire day. 

This episode on Life Re-assembled goes deep. We cover every aspect of what texting your ex can entail. Get a notebook out, and a pen- we got a lot to cover together in this situation.

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Weird concept right? But the definition of abusive is mistreating, causing harm, being harsh, insulting, and can defiantly purvey physical violence. This can defiantly be brought down upon ourselves when we are not paying attention to our words, actions and lifestyle. 

In today’s episode of Life Re-assembled, I go into how we can sometimes check out too often, and begin living in a world of fantasy too long, and some people get trapped in it. Some travel in their minds down endless rabbit trails that always seem to hold promise to a satisfying end, yet find there isn’t. Sleepless nights due to staying up late to binge watch our favorite tv shows, play video games or over work ourselves. 

There’s many forms of self-sabotage, racing for the instant gratification, over-indulging, only consuming; and what we consume… There’s also actions that some take on purpose- so we discuss all that here on today’s episode. Enjoy.

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In this episode of Life Re-assembled, we talk about how when we ignore the red flags for too long, or we get used to the ugly brown compromised flags; we can become numb to the sight of them. That deep sub-conscious feeling of understanding that we’ve been quenching and depriving the power and goodness of Holy Spirit that is meant for OUR GOOD! 

Maybe you haven’t been ignoring red flags, maybe you’ve just repainting them. Sometimes it’s the way you are handling a situation (or not handling it) is the red flag that you’re ignoring or repainting. Or maybe you are putting up your own red flags on things you don’t want to deal with. We go into all of that in this episode!

If you are interested in reading more about this subject, check out our blog on how and why we’re trying to deal with our flags- this is responsibly that should not be taken lightly and it will go well with us when taken care of properly my friends!

https://re-assembledlife.com/are-you-changing-the-color-of-the-red-flags-in-your-relationship

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The reality of being afraid of the unknown, especially the future is more common than most people care to talk about. However, when we’re secure in Christ, we do not need to worry about the future. Jesus tells us constantly not to worry or to be anxious about anything. In this weeks episode of Life Re-assembled we talk about the importance of finding a community, no matter how far gone you think you are or how crazy you believe your situation is. There is a place where there is no judgment, no expectations. Wearing no more masks, because you don’t need to. You never need to feel alone when you come to Jesus, embrace yourself in His endless redeeming grace.

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Living without purpose or direction can lead you into a world of trouble- and fast. Not having a firm aim, will allow for others to redirect you more easily. In this weeks episode of Life Re-assembled, we discuss when you start heading into your calling, there will be distractions, other voices, and personal reasons to stop and redirect. 

However, if we do not allow God to redirect when needed, and we start becoming our own guide... that will derail us off course so fast, we don't even know we left the tracks. And it could be a 20 year journey of wondering, "where did my life go?"

My hope for you is that we can see these signs early enough and recognize when we need to turn back to God, or to stay the course even if it's not 100% clear we're making any headway. Either way, we will know when we lean on God and not our own understanding. Having all of our ways, acknowledge Him, and He will make our paths straight. 

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In this episode of Life Re-assembled, we discuss the everyday burdens and demands that are realistically too much for anyone to handle. So how do we live? How can we take our current circumstances, remove what no longer serves us and add in a life that's meaningful to us? 

Let's stop overwhelming our brains with fake images and coveting what everyone else has, and make a life of our own. A life that has been given to us by God- for blessings that go far beyond the physical. Tune in to this episode if you're ready to take life serious and get ideas on how to finally move forward.

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Having your voice taken away can be one of the most devastating acts taken against any of us. Growing up, I never really answered for myself- giving me a disadvantage for when I grew up and needing to speak up for myself didn’t happen for years. I didn’t know how. I didn’t know I could. So I remained silent in many circumstances. Due to my lack of having a voice, the rest of my life was stripped away.

Then when I was older, when all of a sudden I had the space to talk- I was speechless. Have you ever experienced anything similar? In this weeks episode of Life Re-assembled, we discuss the various determents that comes with having your voice taken away, what it feels like when you begin speaking but with someone else’s voice. Sometimes when you’re given an opportunity to have a voice, you feel that at any moment your words will be used against you and perverted in some way. Your voice matters and in this episode we dive into why.

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In this weeks episode of Life Re-assemble, we go through the basic steps in how to re-assemble our relationships in the right order and how to have healthy relationships in the future. We discuss the different levels of these relationships and how to deal with them individually. Why being in the wrong relationships will drain your energy, time and keep you from succeeding quicker.

We deep dive into the 5 stages of how going from toxic relationships into healthy ones. The steps to get there and the freedom that comes with every decision in between. If you are ready to have healthy relationships in your life, especially after expressing toxic ones, then this episode is for you.

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In this episode of Life Re-assembled, we go deeper in our conversation about how trust correlates to our mental health. Asking questions like, “do you view God as untrustworthy?” We discuss how imperative it is to practice trusting ourselves by before we can even show up for anyone else. When we become trustworthy to ourselves, we will naturally attract the right people in our lives who are also trustworthy.

We also discuss my journey of how vulnerable I was after leaving my abusive relationship and every time I tried reaching out to trust anyone, I was still constantly cut off and abandoned by others. A repeated pattern of not being able to trust anyone except God.

If your ready to re-assemble how you trust, then this episode is for you. 

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In this weeks episode of Life Re-assembled, I open up about how my lack of establishing boundaries exposed me completely to the enemy. And by doing so, I was a perfect victim for an abusive relationship. My life and family were forever changed due to this decision of not even trying.

It wasn’t until God placed a boundary between me and the enemy that I finally had one. I did not understand the imperativeness of having set limits to what you’re willing to do and say. Let your yes be yes and your no be no. When you respect your boundary, others will too. And those who don’t respect it, don’t belong near it.

God is a great project manager in our re-assembling process. When you have boundaries, and allow God to re-assemble them; you’re allowing Him to expose the areas where the enemy can still sneak in. And together, you’re creating a solid barrier between what you refuse to have in your life moving forward.

Link to blog mentioned in podcast: https://re-assembledlife.com/are-you-changing-the-color-of-the-red-flags-in-your-relationship

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