Lifting the Veil

What to wear and what NOT to wear at upcoming weddings. While Kathy & Christina tend to agree on guest attire, they have varying opinions about what is appropriate for vendors. This topic has made its' way around the internet so it's time they lend their two cents. Just to give you a little taste, here are some quick take-a-ways: 

1. Know the event style/dress code: Casual, Cocktail, Formal Black Tie
2. Guys iron your shirts, pull up your pants, put on a belt, and wear dark colored socks when dressing for an event. 
3. Ladies, let's put on a bra, light shapewear and maybe a slip. There are reasons for this...side tip....if you are wearing a silky dress, place a panty liner or light maxi-pad under your boobs to absorb sweat. Yep, it works! 
4. Fix your face. You gotta tune in to know what this is about. 
5. Rarely are shorts appropriate...again tune in to learn more! 

Alright you've gotten a taste, so now it's time to tune in for a deeper dive into the types of standard attire, tips for guests and a lively discussion about what is acceptable, and why, for vendors. 

Hey there cutie pies! We're back this week to talk about our Top 24 Tips for 2024. In this episode we're chatting about all things helpful. Things you might have thought about, things we're pretty sure you never thought you'd care about and so much more. So what might these things include? Well here are a few but you'll have to tune in for the entire list. And these are in no specific order, just our most helpful advice, tips and tricks cause well you know, we love you and want you to have a fantastical event! 

• Establish a main "point of contact" (POC) for decisions throughout the planning process, and then for the wedding/event day. Of course this should be your planner on the day-of, but if you don't have one (tisk-tisk) then be sure to assign this to someone that's organized, confident and commands attention. 
• Make a wedding website. This one's been around a while but a lot of couples under-value its' necessity. Think about just how many emails you get during the planning process. Dedicating an email will keep your tension down and help you time-block when YOU are ready to respond. 
• If you have feet, break in your shoes! 
• Practice tying your tie.
• Try on and steam/iron all of your clothes well before wedding day. Simple touches can be done day of. 
• Consider custom menu cards...tune in to why we recommend this.
• Pack tupperware or strudy/secure "to go" containers. The reason is likely not what you are thinking...it's not for that left over catering food. Extra tip, by health regulations, most caterers won't send home all the left overs anyway. You'll get a snack box, but that's about it. So order wisely when working with catering....this is a whole other topic. 
• The 3-Second Rule...yep, we're gonna make you tune in for this one too!
• What to do in the last 2-weeks of the planning process. Hint...this also isn't what you think :) 

Alrighty, that's enough for now...you get the gist. Tune in for all the dirty deets and drop us a line if you have tips you think we should shout out for our 25 in 2025 list.

Are you someone that constantly finds themselves trying to navigate chaos in their daily life, running into various conflicts in the workplace or with clients? Then sit down with Kathy & Christina and tune into today's episode with speaker, educator and communications expert, and owner of Lip Service Makeup, Jen Trotter, where we talk about how to:

• Manage and negotiate conflict with confidence
• Deal with toxic clients 
• How to master apology free communication
• Speak to clients is in their anxious brain and navigate their own processes
• Use the phrase "I'm sure you can understand" to drive your message home 
• Learn that the word "manipulation" is not a bad word
• Be heard...

Today's episode is jam pack full of helpful information, tips and tricks to help you with your clients, family, friends, partner, etc. If you communicate with others, this is a MUST listen episode. 

To chat with Jen directly: 
Email: [email protected]
Beauty Services: https://www.lipservicemakeup.com
Speaking & Consulting: https://www.thejentrotter.com

In this episode of Lifting The Veil, Kathy & Christina dive into the why behind choosing the perfect time for your wedding ceremony! From when the heck "golden hour" really is to how first looks, family formals, and cocktail hour all impact your timeline, we’ve got you covered. Tune in for expert tips from a Dallas wedding photographer and planner duo—and of course, a little laughter along the way.

Join Kathy & Christina as they walk along some of the most fun, silly and ridiculous stories we've decided to share in this episode. Sometimes we focus too much on the negative, so this episode is fully dedicated to fun, insightful stories. 

You may find yourself in some of these stories, so let's stroll and tell old stories. Examples include the bride that wanted to put potted plants from Lowe's on their guest tables as the centerpieces...which is fine if you don't mind the dirt or the random bug crawling on the table. Or how about the groomsmen that get arrested at the rehearsal dinner or end up in "wedding jail". There's also the one about the guests that get too handsy, the bride that throws up before the ceremony, and how we fan the body parts that get too sweaty....you get the idea. Tune in and enjoy, and you'll probably pick up a couple of quick tips along the way. 

Today, we’re diving into the reality that even the most experienced vendors can feel overwhelmed. It often feels like a feast or famine situation. Highs and lows are expected, but lately, it’s been more intense than usual. Christina and I chat about feeling overwhelmed, the anxiety that comes with slow periods, and the random thoughts that keep us up at night. Despite the chaos, we truly love this industry and feel fortunate to be where we are. If you’re a business owner and ever feel isolated, know you’re not alone—we’re all navigating this together. Tune in for some laughs, insights, and a little reassurance for our restless, busy minds. If nothing else, this will be 20 minutes of soul-soothing nonsense to get you through the day. Enjoy and giggle along! 

Today we’re diving into something that might hit close to home for many of us—social media etiquette, and why you might not be getting tagged in posts as often as you’d like.

It’s easy to get frustrated when you see your colleagues or counterparts sharing photos of a project you collaborated on, and they don’t tag you. But what if it’s not intentional? What if they’re just moving too fast and forget? Or maybe they don’t fully understand the difference between tagging, collaborating on posts, stories, reels, and all the other options out there.

Today, we’re hosting a Social Media 101 session. We all had to learn the ropes at some point, and now that we’ve got the hang of it, it’s time to share that knowledge so we can all make our social media interactions smoother and more inclusive.

So, whether you’re a seasoned pro or just starting out, stick around as we break down the basics. Let’s make sure that the next time you’re working with your vendor friends, everyone gets the recognition they deserve. Tune in, and let’s start tagging!”

You're engaged and smack-dab in the middle of that love-filled blissful haze with not a problem in the world. Well soak it up because it's time to start planning your big day and that can mean big bucks! 

But before you get started, we thought we'd share some helpful tips to get you started. Now of course, the very first thing we are going to tell you to do is hire a planner BEFORE YOU DO ANYTHING…but we realize that many, actually most, will say, “I can do this….I don’t need a planner”. And while we believe, you truly believe that, we’re going to tell you that it’s a heck of a lot easier if you hire someone that knows what they are doing, will be your advocate along the way, work to save you money, and help you get the biggest bang for your buck.

In today's episode we'll talk all things budget to help get you off on the right foot. Join us as we explore tips to creating your custom event budget. And if you are looking for a guide to follow along, check out our planner extraordinaire's blog post "How to Create a Wedding or Event Budget...Our Top 10 Steps to Get You Started!" 

Did you know that by not diversifying your client base, you’re not just making a decision—you’re making a statement. And in doing so, you might be closing the door on incredible opportunities to connect with people who are celebrating love in all its vibrant forms, just as passionately as any “traditional” couple.

Join Kathy & Christina as they lift the veil on inclusivity and dive into Adam Golden’s heartwarming journey. From the moment he met his husband, to the instant he knew he’d found his forever person, Adam’s story is a testament to love in its purest form. Discover how they navigated the intricate world of the event industry, facing challenges and triumphs, as they planned their perfect day—a celebration of their love that echoes joy from every corner. This is more than just a wedding story; it’s a powerful reminder that love knows no boundaries.

This hot topic episode doesn't need much introduction, other than to say...if you are easily offended, or if you think you might know vendors with unethical practices, that you protect, you might want to steer clear of what we have to say. 

In this episode we expose the ugly truth behind unethical vendors, how their true behavior ultimately gets exposed, and what we are doing to prevent it from happening to others. AND, if you want to learn the warning signs for yourself, tune in!! 

We truly hope this info helps you regulate your business practices (if needed) or if you are a client listening, we hope this helps provide tips to protect yourself. Lastly, know that if we are involved, and find out something shady is happening, we are running to your rescue!