Like a Mother

When I was married I always worked, but my husband always earned more. My career skyrocketed when I was divorced. Like so many women, I realize now I unconsciously held myself back professionally for the sake of my marriage. We figure out why even feminists like me do this – and why we should still expect guys to pay on the first date. Guest: Traci Bild, entrepreneur, founder of Bild & Company and creator of Get your Girl Back.

When you forbid your kids from dating you send them a negative message about relationships that affects rest of lives. Instead, build a trusting relationship with your kids, encourage them to trust their instincts and help them create positive first-relationship experiences.

Despite sexist societal messages, it is normal and healthy to be BOTH a great mom and a sexual woman at the same time. Stop teaching your kids that relationships and love are shameful, and be open about your dating life.

Guest: Rosalind Sedacca, author of How Do I Tell the Kids about the Divorce? www.childcentereddivorce.com 

What woman doesn't feel totally overwhelmed from time to time. I explore why it seems you have no control over your life, why you actually do, and some tips for getting a grip when you're about to lose your mind.

Caller Ashley is 22 and caring for a 11 year-old niece while working fulltime and pursuing an acting career. Find out how I helped her deal with all those days school is closed- but she still has to work.

Lakea is overwhelmed by attending law school and working, and can hardly stay in touch with friends and family. I give her tips for putting it all in perspective and making time for everything.

Admit it: You feel guilty for working. You feel guilty because you subscribe to the idea that the stay-at-home mom is a better mom. And you work. I show you how the notion of a SAHM is a myth, and how to scrub your life free from nagging guilt to be more productive and happier at work AND home.

Guests:

Katrina Alcorn, author, "MAXED OUT: American Moms on the Brink"

Farnoosh Torabi, author, "You're So Money: Live Rich Even When You're Not" and Yahoo! Finance contributor.