Let me ask you something—have you ever felt like you’re making progress in life, only to suddenly hit a setback and think, What the hell? I thought I was on the right path! Why is this happening to me?
Maybe you’ve been training consistently, eating well, and then—boom—you get sick, or injured. Maybe you’ve been saving money and budgeting, then suddenly your car breaks down and eats up your emergency fund. Maybe your relationship has been smooth sailing, then out of nowhere, an argument shakes your confidence.
We all experience this, and yet we constantly act shocked when things don’t go our way. Why? Because most of us have been conditioned to believe that progress should be linear. That once we start improving in an area of life, it should be like stepping onto an escalator that smoothly takes us upward. We expect steady gains, predictable progress, and minimal resistance.
But the truth? Life does not work that way.
Progress is nonlinear. And if you don’t learn to expect adversity, to factor in setbacks, you’re setting yourself up for stress, frustration, and failure.
This chapter dives into why we must stop expecting smooth sailing and instead build resilience for the inevitable ups and downs. Because adversity isn’t the problem—your reaction to it is.
References:
“Make Changes That Lasts. 9 simple ways to break free from the habits that hold you back.”
Dr. Rangan Chatterjee
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