Living Content

In this episode I share about healing through being seen by ourselves first, therefore, healing as a collective.

I have come to learn that sometimes the things we long for the most are often the things we resist the most, like being seen. 

As a person who was constantly bullied, I received that as rejection and the hardest thing is being rejected while being yourself. So naturally, it felt safe not to be seen. In this episode, I share what it means for me to be seen. 

I know now that you have to heal what hurts, so you don’t have to hide who you are.

Do share with me what it means for you to be seen or heard.

Thank you for deciding to spend your time here.

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It must be that the synonym for Peace is Boundaries

The way I see it boundaries help with simplifying our lives and therefore grants us peace of mind. I never knew that asking for peace would mean setting boundaries, not only the easier ones that would not cause any discomfort but more so those ones. To set them and learn to reinforce them.

Today’s topic reminded me of my childhood favorite tree, so I share some of my fondest childhood memories.

If anything that therapy helped me with, among other things, was being able to grant myself permission to own my feelings and validating them, this has also helped me learn to communicate and draw my boundaries, and the hardest part reinforcing them. To me, it has become important to preserve and protect my energy, to be able to call it back home.

Setting boundaries is one of the most important parts of cultivating healthy relationships.

~Show notes~

In this episode I share;

[08:15] - What is the benefit of setting boundaries

[13:35] - Way to set and maintain good boundaries

Thank you for deciding to spend your time here.

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The Podcast is officially back! Welcome to Season 2!

I am excited to be back.

In South Africa, we celebrate Women's day on the 9th of August and this makes the month Women's month. So let me start by saying - Happy women’s month, I hope you always know that you are loved, celebrated and that your life matters. But I that you never wait to be celebrated to celebrate yourself too.

In today’s episode, I wanted to talk about acceptance, trust and surrender to life. All these almost mean the same thing. To accept is surrendering to life - being completely open and available to what life intends for you in this moment or whatever situation you find yourself in, and to accept one has to drop into deep trust beyond our own knowing.

I am in a Season of deep Trust, surrender, and acceptance. I made a huge life-changing decision this past few days which was a huge act of trust and faith. 

In this episode, I will touch on what acceptance is not when to know you have to release control and trust or accept, then lastly ways in which you can practice acceptance or cultivate openness to life.

Do enjoy listening.

Thank you for being here.

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This episode is our final episode for Season 1 and I have so much in my heart, but a huge part of it is gratitude. I am grateful to my Devine Source who I got to co-create this Podcast with, who found my broken story and still said I will use you for good. I am grateful to you who somehow found this podcast in time and have been part of the sisterhood. I hope the podcast helped you start or continue in your healing journey. 

It was not so long ago when I made the announcement that I was starting this podcast, and today more than 5 months in we are here. I have grown and gained so much since. The wisdom, the courage, and the relationships here. I can say that my heart is full.

This is merely a break and in Season 2 I am hoping to stretch Living Content just a little bit out of comfort. There will be exciting things coming.

In this episode, I share the lessons I have gained this year, through conversations I have had and some just as I encounter life. I also close this episode with a meditation so I hope you will find a comfortable space where you can rest your body and listen as I take you through a meditation to wrap our season. 

Do enjoy listening.

Thank you for being here.

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In this episode, I sat for a conversation with Buyisile Mncina. Buyisile is familiar to my guest chair, we once created a 4 part series called Psychology matters which covered 4 topics to assist women as they navigate their motherhood, work-life, relationship, and business journey currently hosted on The Journey Unearthed podcast.

Buyisile Mncina is a practicing counseling psychologist, co-founder of ReBasadi Mental Health Associates, as well as a sessional psychology lecturer at Wits University.

She considers herself primarily a student of life before she is a teacher, counsel, healer, and companion. One of Buyisile's values is in contributing to the existing body of knowledge as well as being flexible to the ever-changing times. To be a healer, one must continuously facilitate a state of abundance, and that state requires; effort, insight, shedding, and healing, a soul position that Buyisile is never shy to own.

Buyisile has also engaged in numerous media platforms including' Psycho-educational TV shows, Social Media Lives, Speaking Engagements, Magazine contributions, and radio contributions. With much of the work she has done, she has also contributed to philanthropic efforts and believes we can never quite get to a state where we feel we have done all we can - each day presents new opportunities to show up for purpose, whatever that may be for the season you are in.

In this episode we talk about codependency which she would rather call conflicted dependency, learning to create your independence, and constructing a sense of self.

Do enjoy listening.

You can follow Buyisile Mncina on Instagram: @buyisilemncina and ReBasadi Mental Health Associates

Thank you for being here.

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The Journey Unearthed Podcast - Psychology Matters 4-Part Series with Buyisile

1. Part1 - On Psychology for Mom

2. Part2 - On Psychology for the working woman

3. Part3 - On Psychology for the Boss-lady

4. Part4 - On Psychology for a Healthy Relationship

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In this episode, I sat for a conversation with Monica Phumza Mankayi. She is currently working as a UX Content Writer in the banking sector and moonlights as a Mental Health Advocate when she is not writing articles, poems and helping people with their social media platforms.

Her career has been supported by her psychology background and her avid love for a well-written story. Her aspirations are to find ways to help people work through their trauma by giving them information, resources, and perspectives. When she is not listening to lectures for fun, she is planning her days on a farm where she will write books and raise children while building a legacy for those who follow her.

In this episode with Phumza, she shares about choosing joy, naming ourselves, contextualizing our stories, and work and well-being balance

Do enjoy.

Thank you for being here.

You can follow Phumza on Instagram: @impondomise_egoli

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Today’s episode is a guest episode, I sat over zoom for a chat with Nkhensani Rikhotso. Nkhensani is an interior plant stylist and educator, Mother, reiki practitioner, UX UI Manager, and social impact advocator.

In this episode we talk about spirituality, Reiki Healing, Motherhood, finding purpose, authenticity in and Plant energy

Do enjoy.

Thank you for being here.

You can follow Nkhensani on Instagram: @hermerakai 

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Today’s episode is a guest episode, I sat over zoom for a chat with Kamogelo Walaza, I met Kamogelo years ago through a mutual friend, we met through art and our recent reunion was also through art but we also had a beautiful healing conversation on what had transformed, changed and what had shed in our lives. So I decided to invite her over for a conversation in healing through art and to uncover her journey.

Kamogelo Walaza loves working with children through art education. She is an avid writer and pens her skills through poetic writing and academic literature. She is passionate about the theory of identity as a black woman, which was further instilled in her recent Autoethnograpic Thesis. Her deep interest in holistic based reflexive practice led to her co-founding an online support group called We Feel @wefeeltalk

In this episode we talk about healing through art, identity and unlearning.

Do enjoy.

Thank you for being here.

You can follow Kamogelo on Instagram: @walaza and We Feel @wefeeltalk

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Today’s episode is a solo one. As you may note from the title of the episode I am sharing 28 things I know for sure and you can for sure count Rest as one of the things I am listing. 

I started doing this in 2019 and this year will be the 3rd year. What has been beautiful about doing this is that you are able to see how far you’ve come, what has changed, how you may be looking at things differently, what may have stayed the same. Just like monthly reflection, except for now, the changes are quite visible and sometimes drastic because years have passed.

So here’s my 28 list of things I know for sure, be mindful that this is all based on my personal experiences and therefore I derived my truth on that. If it resonates with you and I must grab coffee one day, if it doesn’t just stay open and keep listening.

DISCLAIMER: Do not treat the content here as a substitute for therapy or professional help.

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On supporting Peggy:

Peggy Ntsepe currently runs a program called She Imagines through her NGO Change That Happens, which focuses on the empowerment of our women and girls, they will be hosting Activation event on the 8th of May for 30 girls between the ages of 11-18. Please support this initiative by donating to this great course. I will be sharing what is needed on our Instagram Stories.

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This is Part 2 of the previous episode, where I sat down with Mpumi Mayisa to uncover her healing journey. In this episode, we dive deep into her inner child healing and how she's cultivating joy in her life.

You can listen to the first part of our conversation here.

Thank you for being here.

You can follow Mpumi on Instagram: @mpumi_dee and Among The Lillies @among.the.lilies

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