Living Lucky® Podcast with Jason and Jana Banana

Living Lucky® Podcast with Jason and Jana Banana

By Jana and Jason ShelferEducationSelf-Improvement
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Living Lucky® Podcast with Jason and Jana Banana episodes

  • Rooted in Rage: How to Catch Positivity When You'd Rather Not

    Rooted in Rage: How to Catch Positivity When You'd Rather Not (Living Lucky® Podcast)

    Ever stubbornly clung to a bad mood? 😠 In this raw and relatable episode of the Living Lucky® Podcast, we unpack the puzzling human tendency to resist joy and happiness, even when it's all around us. We explore why we sometimes "plant our feet in negativity" and how to finally break free.

    This is a powerful self-help and personal development guide to understanding your emotional patterns and making a conscious choice for a better mood.

    Here's what you'll discover:

    • The "Equal and Opposite Reaction": Uncover why we sometimes respond to others' happiness or success with resentment and irritation. Is your ego driving your resistance to joy?
    • An Emotional Bunker: Hear Jana’s funny but powerful story about stubbornly refusing to participate in a high-energy Tony Robbins conference—a perfect example of emotional stubbornness.
    • Are You Rooted in Rage? Learn to identify when you're seeking to be "held, helped, or heard" in your misery and how this desire for attention can keep you stuck.
    • Energy is Contagious, But... We reveal the crucial lesson that you must be willing to catch positivity. It's a choice you have the power to make.
    • If Nothing Changes, Nothing Changes: This powerful takeaway from Tony Robbins himself will challenge you to confront your resistance and ask if you're truly happy with where you are.

    Ready to stop resisting and start living? This episode is your guide to taking back control of your emotional state and creating the life you truly crave.

    • How to stop being negative.
    • Why do I resist happiness?
    • The psychology of being in a bad mood.
    • How to deal with emotional stubbornness.
    • How to overcome resentment.
    • Why is positivity contagious?
    • Taking control of your emotions.
    • Breaking the cycle of negativity.
    • The importance of emotional awareness.
    • How to shift your mood.
    • "Why do I feel joy and resentment at the same time?"
    • "How do I deal with emotional resistance?"
    • "Is negativity a choice?"
    • "What is emotional stubbornness?"
    • "How do I stop being in a bad mood?"
    • "How can I be more positive?"
    • "How does my mindset affect my emotions?"

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    The 4 pillars of Living Lucky
    Believe in yourself
    Believe in the people around you
    Believe in your circumstances and
    Believe that God is working through you, for you, and always conspiring in your favor.  

    *Previously Recorded 

    15 min
  • The Secret to Relationship Success

    The Secret to Relationship Success: Change Yourself for the Both of You (Living Lucky® Podcast)

    Tired of trying to fix your partner? Our most-asked question isn't about our brand—it's about our relationship. The secret isn't finding the perfect person, but becoming a better person for your partner.

    In this transformative Living Lucky® Podcast episode, we reveal the core philosophy that helps us thrive: "Change myself for us." This is a self-help masterclass for anyone who wants to break blame cycles and build a truly connected relationship.

    Inside, you'll learn to:

    • Stop Trying to Fix: Discover why focusing on your partner's flaws is a dead end. When you change, the relationship changes with you.
    • Pause Negative Narratives: Learn to recognize and stop the "unexpressed expectations" you build in your head.
    • Practice Awareness & Curiosity: Our simple 3-step process—Pause, Get Curious, Love—will transform your communication.
    • Grow Through Adventure: See how shared activities like ballroom dancing can strengthen your bond and communication skills.
    • Defeat the "Rightness" Trap: We share a vulnerable story about letting go of blame to create real collaboration.

    Ready to stop the blame game and take control of your love story? This episode is your guide to building a truly lucky relationship from the inside out.

    • How to improve a relationship.
    • The secret to a happy marriage.
    • How to stop blaming your partner.
    • How to communicate with your partner.
    • What is the "change myself for us" philosophy?
    • How to increase emotional intelligence in a relationship.
    • Overcoming relationship challenges.
    • The importance of personal growth in a relationship.
    • How to build a strong connection with your partner.
    • "How to get a good relationship?"
    • "What is the key to a successful relationship?"
    • "How do I become a better partner?"
    • "How do you stop blaming your spouse?"
    • "What is the "lens of love" in a relationship?"
    • "How does personal growth affect a relationship?"
    • "How to improve communication with a partner?"

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    The 4 pillars of Living Lucky
    Believe in yourself
    Believe in the people around you
    Believe in your circumstances and
    Believe that God is working through you, for you, and always conspiring in your favor.  

    *Previously Recorded 

    12 min
  • Life Feeling Heavy?

    Life Feeling Heavy? Navigate Negativity Without Losing Yourself (Living Lucky® Podcast)

    Feeling a pervasive heaviness in the world? You’re not alone. 😩 In this raw and honest episode of the Living Lucky® Podcast, Jason and Jana Banana tackle the universal feeling of overwhelm—from health concerns to the relentless news cycle—and show you how to navigate it without succumbing to despair.

    This is a powerful self-help and personal development guide for anyone who wants to protect their energy and maintain their inner peace. Get ready for these actionable "nuggets of wisdom":

    • The Power of Acknowledgment: Understand the crucial difference between noticing negativity and fixating on it. We challenge the idea of "toxic positivity" and show you how to feel the feels without surrendering your power.
    • Mastering the Controllables: Learn why obsessing over what you can't control leaves you feeling powerless. This episode is a powerful reminder that you, like Dorothy from the Wizard of Oz, have the power to create your reality.
    • The "Energy Shield" Technique: Discover a simple, practical tool for protecting your energy. Learn how to create a metaphorical shield that allows you to be compassionate and empathetic without absorbing others' negativity.
    • Your Information Diet: Just as you are what you eat, you are what you consume. Get actionable tips for curating your digital environment, from social media detoxes to intentional music playlists, to transform your mental well-being.
    • Protect Your Inner Fire: The most important lesson is to stay connected to who you are in your soul. Learn how to maintain your inner fire and not let external circumstances dim your essential nature.

    This episode will empower you to stop embodying the world's heaviness and start living with intention, perspective, and an unshakable sense of peace.

    • How to deal with negative news. Why is life so heavy? How to protect your energy. Overcoming fear and anxiety. The difference between toxic positivity and positive thinking. How to stop absorbing other people's energy. Tips for a digital detox. How to manage stress from the world. Maintaining a positive mindset in a negative world. How to deal with the heaviness of the world? What is toxic positivity? How do I protect my energy from others? What is the 'energy shield' technique? Why do we focus on negative things? How can I improve my mental health? How do I stop feeling powerless?

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    The 4 pillars of Living Lucky
    Believe in yourself
    Believe in the people around you
    Believe in your circumstances and
    Believe that God is working through you, for you, and always conspiring in your favor.  

    *Previously Recorded 

    12 min
  • What Consistency Looks Like

    What Consistency Looks Like: Celebrate Your Progress & Build Your Dream Life (Living Lucky® Podcast)

    Feeling stuck? Constantly focused on what you haven’t accomplished yet? 🤔 In this deeply reflective episode of the Living Lucky® Podcast, Jason and Jana Banana explore a powerful quote: "Today, I will remember how much I used to dream of where I am now." Get ready to shift your perspective and celebrate your progress like never before.

    This is an essential self-help and personal development guide to breaking free from the “doom loop” of negativity and recognizing the magic in your everyday life.

    • The Dream is Now a Reality: Hear the incredible story of a second date dream that manifested into a lakefront home and a fulfilling life. This powerful example proves that what seems impossible today can become your reality through intention and effort.
    • The Problem with Perfectionism: Uncover the limiting beliefs that make us fixate on what we haven’t done. Learn why focusing on shortcomings blinds us to the small, consistent wins that are the true foundation of success.
    • Tiny Grains of Sand: Forget dramatic, overnight transformations. True progress is built on "tiny grains of sand"—the micro-choices and consistent daily actions that build massive momentum over time.
    • Your Power is Within You: Discover that your current reality is a result of your thoughts, feelings, and actions. This episode is a powerful reminder that you have the power to change your trajectory with small, intentional choices.
    • The Control is Yours: Learn that your thoughts, feelings, and actions are the three components of your life that you can control. A small tweak to any of them can change your path.

    This episode is a call to action to celebrate your past wins, embrace consistent effort, and continue building the life you've always wanted. Stop putting X's on your scoreboard and start counting your wins. 

    The power of consistency. How to stay motivated. Why celebrate small wins. How to overcome perfectionism. The secret to personal growth. How to shift your mindset. Setting and achieving goals. The connection between thoughts, feelings, and actions. Building a dream life with small steps. How to recognize your progress How to stay consistent with goals? Why is celebrating small wins important? What is the three-component formula for success? How do I shift my mindset from negative to positive? How do thoughts, feelings, and actions create reality? What is the best way to stay motivated?

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    *** The Living Lucky Community is experiencing what it feels like to create a life of inspiration where dreams come true. Check it out HERE *** or at https://www.livinglucky.com

    !!! SEND US A MESSAGE:  Are you ready to unlock your path to a more inspired life where you're Living Lucky®? Email me directly and let's chart your course toward realizing your dreams and creating a life that fills you with daily inspiration.   
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    The 4 pillars of Living Lucky
    Believe in yourself
    Believe in the people around you
    Believe in your circumstances and
    Believe that God is working through you, for you, and always conspiring in your favor.  

    *Previously Recorded 

    13 min
  • Embrace Your Inner Weirdo

    Embrace Your Inner Weirdo: The Freedom of Authentic Living (Living Lucky® Podcast)

    What happens when you finally give yourself permission to be completely, unapologetically you? ✨ In this wonderfully weird Living Lucky® Podcast episode, Jason and Jana Banana dive deep into why embracing your authentic self—quirks, eccentricities, and all—is the most powerful choice you can make.

    This is a self-help and personal development guide to breaking free from the fear of judgment and unlocking a life of magic and synchronicity. Get ready for these "nuggets of wisdom":

    • The "Wonderful Weirdo" Conflict: Unpack the psychological tension that holds so many of us back—the dual fear of standing out too much and blending in too much.
    • Tall Poppy Syndrome Explained: Learn why the fear of being "different" is a rational response to social pressure, and why you must rise above it to live your purpose.
    • The Invisible Box: Discover the truth about the "box" you've been conditioned to fit into. It's not real; it's a social construction designed to keep you from changing the world.
    • Your Unique "Flavor": We challenge the homogenization of modern society, reminding you that your uniqueness is your greatest gift and your most valuable contribution to the world.
    • Unleashing the Magic: Hear how stepping into your authentic self creates a flow of synchronicity, attracting the right people and opportunities into your life in ways that feel like pure magic.

    Are you ready to stop hiding and start thriving? We challenge you to celebrate National Wonderful Weirdo Day (or any day!) by doing something outside your comfort zone that you've always secretly wanted to do. The world needs your unique flavor.

    • How to embrace your authentic self.
    • The psychology of being different.
    • What is Tall Poppy Syndrome?
    • Overcoming fear of judgment.
    • How to be yourself and not care what others think.
    • The importance of being unique.
    • How to break free from societal expectations.
    • Living a fulfilled life.
    • Personal growth and authenticity.
    • "What is National Wonderful Weirdo Day?"
    • "What is Tall Poppy Syndrome?" 
    • How can I be more authentic? Why is authenticity important? What are some ways to embrace your uniqueness? How do I deal with the fear of standing out? How does authenticity lead to a better life?

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    The 4 pillars of Living Lucky
    Believe in yourself
    Believe in the people around you
    Believe in your circumstances and
    Believe that God is working through you, for you, and always conspiring in your favor.  

    *Previously Recorded 

    17 min
  • Shark Mindset: Ditch the Sunday Scaries

    Shark Mindset: Ditch the Sunday Scaries & Embrace Your Power (Living Lucky® Podcast)

    Are you sick of the Sunday Scaries? 😫 In this mind-shifting Living Lucky® Podcast episode, Jason and Jana Banana reveal an unexpected source of wisdom: sharks. Discover how adopting a "shark mindset" is the key to escaping the doom loop of dread and living a life of purpose, power, and unapologetic authenticity.

    This is a powerful self-help and personal development masterclass for anyone ready to glow up and pursue their dreams:

    • The Shark vs. The Human: Understand the striking contrast between a shark's purposeful existence and the human tendency to drown in anxiety about work, expectations, and other people's opinions.
    • Cultivating "Thick Skin": Learn that developing resilience isn't about becoming callous. It's about building a mindset so confident that others' doubts and fears can't penetrate your determination.
    • The Dream Debate: We tackle the age-old question: should you keep your dreams private or share them publicly? Weigh the risks of external negativity against the immense value of gaining support from your community.
    • Escaping the 7-to-7 Grind: Hear how an unconventional lifestyle—coaching, podcasting, and water skiing—can challenge traditional notions of success. Find the confidence to live your truth without justifying it to others.
    • Unapologetic Purpose: This episode is a call to action. Stop dimming your light to fit in. Discover that the most fulfilled people are those who speak up, take action, and refuse to let limiting beliefs—from themselves or others—get in their way.

    Ready to trade your Monday morning dread for a shark-like swagger? This conversation will empower you to live in alignment with your authentic self and start chasing your dreams with a new sense of purpose. 

    How to overcome Sunday Scaries. What is the shark mindset? How to build thick skin. How to deal with people who discourage your dreams. The science of Sunday night dread. Living an unconventional lifestyle. Why do people criticize success? How to find your purpose in life. How to build confidence to chase your dreams. What is the shark mindset? Why do people get the Sunday Scaries? How can I develop thicker skin? Should I tell people about my dreams? Why do people criticize others' success? How do I deal with fear of judgment? How to stop caring what other people think?

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    *** The Living Lucky Community is experiencing what it feels like to create a life of inspiration where dreams come true. Check it out HERE *** or at https://www.livinglucky.com

    !!! SEND US A MESSAGE:  Are you ready to unlock your path to a more inspired life where you're Living Lucky®? Email me directly and let's chart your course toward realizing your dreams and creating a life that fills you with daily inspiration.   
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    HERE

    The 4 pillars of Living Lucky
    Believe in yourself
    Believe in the people around you
    Believe in your circumstances and
    Believe that God is working through you, for you, and always conspiring in your favor.  

    *Previously Recorded 

    13 min
  • Emotional Chain Reactions

    Emotional Chain Reactions: Tame Your Triggers and Find Your Freedom (Living Lucky® Podcast)

    Ever feel like a small frustration can spiral into a huge meltdown? 🤯 In this incredibly vulnerable Living Lucky® Podcast episode, Jason and Jana Banana share the scientific secret to taming your emotions—a six-second rule that changed everything for them.

    This is a powerful self-help and personal development episode packed with "nuggets of wisdom" to help you get off the emotional rollercoaster:

    • The Six-Second Rule: Discover the scientific fact that emotions are simply temporary chemical bursts in your brain. Learn how giving yourself just six seconds to process a feeling can stop a chain reaction before it starts.
    • Stop Stacking Emotions: We expose the destructive habit of building "evidence logs"—collecting reasons to justify your feelings. Learn why this pattern, like bubble gum with juice pockets, creates unnecessary drama and how to interrupt it.
    • A Real-Life Meltdown: Listen to Jana’s raw, personal story of how exhaustion, hunger, and stress led to an emotional outburst. More importantly, see how Jason's calm, non-judgmental response broke the chain and restored peace.
    • Priming for Success: Understand how priming your mindset with positive beliefs creates a resilient baseline that helps you "let go" of negative emotions and not take them so personally.
    • The Power of Grace: This episode is a compassionate reminder that you don't need to be perfect. The goal isn't to never feel angry or sad, but to recognize the feeling, give yourself grace, and choose your response instead of reacting automatically.

    Ready to find freedom from emotional drama? Share this episode with your drama community😳. 

    How to manage emotional triggers. What is the six-second rule for emotions? How to stop emotional stacking. Dealing with emotional outbursts. The science of emotions. How to improve emotional resilience. Overcoming anger and frustration. Self-care practices for emotional well-being. How to respond instead of react. How emotions affect relationships. What is the scientific definition of an emotion? How long does an emotion last in the brain? What is emotional stacking? How can I stop overreacting to small things? What is the difference between responding and reacting? How can I build emotional resilience? Why is it important to feel your emotions?

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    *** The Living Lucky Community is experiencing what it feels like to create a life of inspiration where dreams come true. Check it out HERE *** or at https://www.livinglucky.com

    !!! SEND US A MESSAGE:  Are you ready to unlock your path to a more inspired life where you're Living Lucky®? Email me directly and let's chart your course toward realizing your dreams and creating a life that fills you with daily inspiration.   
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    HERE

    The 4 pillars of Living Lucky
    Believe in yourself
    Believe in the people around you
    Believe in your circumstances and
    Believe that God is working through you, for you, and always conspiring in your favor.  

    *Previously Recorded 

    17 min
  • MUSIC MATTERS: What's on Repeat in Your Life?

    What's on Repeat in Your Life? Music as a Manifestation Tool (Living Lucky® Podcast)

    Ever felt like a song was your personal theme music? 🎶 In this electrifying Living Lucky® Podcast episode, Jason and Jana Banana dive into the science of music's powerful, unconscious influence on our reality. You’ll never listen to your favorite songs the same way again!

    This is a self-help and personal development masterclass on harnessing the hidden power of your playlist. Get ready for these "nuggets of wisdom":

    • The Unconscious Blueprint: Discover how the songs you play on repeat become vibrational blueprints for your future, programming your mindset without you even realizing it.
    • Tater the Cheerleader: Hear the incredible, true story of how Jana’s college earworm about a dog became a living reality years later with her 18-year-old dog, Tater, a powerful example of manifestation.
    • Thoughts + Feelings + Actions = Reality: Learn the Living Lucky® formula for creating your life and how music is the secret weapon that supercharges the "feeling" component, changing your state and energy.
    • Amplify Your Desires: Understand how music amplifies what you’re already feeling. Instead of using it to reinforce sadness, learn to intentionally choose songs that align with the life you want to create—from finding a new home to winning a championship.
    • Music as a Daily Hack: We share a simple, science-backed way to incorporate music into your daily routine to prime your mind for success and break limiting beliefs.

    Your playlist is more than just entertainment; it's a powerful tool for programming your life. Take control of your soundtrack and start creating the reality you desire.

    • How music affects your reality.
    • The science of music and mindset. Using music for manifestation. How to program your subconscious with music. What is an emotional blueprint? How to change your energy with music. The connection between music and personal growth. Creating a success playlist. How to use music to overcome limiting beliefs How does music affect the subconscious mind? Can music help you manifest your goals? What is the science behind music and emotion? How do vibrations and music relate? What are some practical ways to use music for personal development? How can I use my playlist to improve my life? What is an earworm and how does it affect me?


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    *** The Living Lucky Community is experiencing what it feels like to create a life of inspiration where dreams come true. Check it out HERE *** or at https://www.livinglucky.com

    !!! SEND US A MESSAGE:  Are you ready to unlock your path to a more inspired life where you're Living Lucky®? Email me directly and let's chart your course toward realizing your dreams and creating a life that fills you with daily inspiration.   
    Email Jason Shelfer
    HERE

    The 4 pillars of Living Lucky
    Believe in yourself
    Believe in the people around you
    Believe in your circumstances and
    Believe that God is working through you, for you, and always conspiring in your favor.  

    *Previously Recorded 

    14 min
  • The Accidental Guide: How Sharing Your Dreams Changes Everything

    The Accidental Guide: How Sharing Your Dreams Changes Everything (Living Lucky® Podcast)

    What if sharing your dreams could turn a skeptical stranger into your greatest ally? ✨ In this deeply personal Living Lucky® Podcast episode, Jason and Jana Banana share a powerful story of revisiting a childhood lake house after 30 years and learning a profound lesson in human connection.

    This episode is a true lesson in personal development and self-help, packed with "nuggets of wisdom" to help you:

    • Turn Skeptics into Guides: Discover how articulating your genuine intention can instantly transform a potential conflict into a moment of connection and support.
    • The "Guide" in the Hero's Journey: Learn how real life mirrors a classic narrative structure. Just like in epic stories, help often appears precisely when you are ready to give up.
    • Overcome Obstacles with Intention: Understand that people inherently want to help because it makes them feel valuable and purposeful. By sharing your goals, you give them a chance to contribute to your success.
    • The Power of Vulnerability: Hear how sharing personal, nostalgic memories with a stranger broke down their wall of skepticism and led to an unexpected invitation and new friendships.
    • Live Your Dreams Out Loud: This story proves that articulating your dreams doesn't just clarify your own path—it invites others to join you on the journey, transforming potential obstacles into unexpected opportunities.

    Ready to invite a little bit of magic into your life? This conversation will shift your mindset and inspire you to share your dreams openly, paving the way for the unexpected guides and allies you need to Live Lucky®. 

    How to get help from others. The power of sharing your goals. Finding purpose by helping others. Overcoming obstacles with human connection. The 'guide' in the hero's journey. How to turn a skeptic into a guide. The importance of vulnerability in relationships. Getting allies for your goals. Turning a tense situation into a positive one. How to find motivation to keep going. Why is it important to share your dreams with others? What is the 'guide' in the hero's journey? How can I get people to help me with my goals? How does sharing intentions affect others? How can I turn a tense situation into a positive interaction? Why do people want to help others? 

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    *** The Living Lucky Community is experiencing what it feels like to create a life of inspiration where dreams come true. Check it out HERE *** or at https://www.livinglucky.com

    !!! SEND US A MESSAGE:  Are you ready to unlock your path to a more inspired life where you're Living Lucky®? Email me directly and let's chart your course toward realizing your dreams and creating a life that fills you with daily inspiration.   
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    HERE

    The 4 pillars of Living Lucky
    Believe in yourself
    Believe in the people around you
    Believe in your circumstances and
    Believe that God is working through you, for you, and always conspiring in your favor.  

    *Previously Recorded 

    15 min
  • Escaping the Drama Triangle

    Escaping the Drama Triangle: Transform Conflict into Empowerment (Living Lucky® Podcast)

    Ever felt trapped in a cycle of blame, victimhood, and rescue? 😫 In this mind-opening Living Lucky® Podcast episode, Jason and Jana Banana use a hilarious dinner party mishap to break down the Karpman Drama Triangle, a psychological model that explains nearly every conflict. You'll never see arguments the same way again!

    This is a powerful masterclass in personal development and self-help, filled with "nuggets of wisdom" to help you transform your relationships:

    • Identify Your Role: Recognize the three unconscious roles you play in conflict—Victim, Persecutor, and Rescuer. Learn how even a simple joke can trigger this complex dynamic in real time.
    • The Downward Spiral: Understand how the Drama Triangle is contagious and self-perpetuating, creating a "snowball effect" of reactivity that prevents true resolution.
    • From Drama to Empowerment: Discover the secret to breaking the cycle. Learn how to transform the Victim into a Creator, the Persecutor into a Challenger, and the Rescuer into a Coach. This simple mindset shift is the key to an upward spiral of growth.
    • Internal Triangles: Realize that these patterns aren't just external. We often create them in our own minds through negative self-talk, ganging up on ourselves with internal blame and "what-if" scenarios.
    • Awareness is the First Step: The most powerful tool for change is self-awareness. By simply recognizing which role you're playing, you can consciously choose a healthier, more empowering path.

    Stop getting drained by unnecessary conflict. This episode will equip you with the emotional intelligence and tools to create healthier relationships and finally escape the drama. 

    How to break the drama triangle cycle. Karpman Drama Triangle explained. What are the three roles in conflict? How to stop being a victim. Transforming drama into empowerment. How to improve communication in relationships. Recognizing unconscious conflict patterns. The difference between a rescuer and a coach. What is the role of a challenger in an argument? What is the Karpman Drama Triangle? What are the three roles of the drama triangle? How do I stop being a victim in my relationships? How can I resolve conflicts without drama? How to escape the victim mentality?

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    *** The Living Lucky Community is experiencing what it feels like to create a life of inspiration where dreams come true. Check it out HERE *** or at https://www.livinglucky.com

    !!! SEND US A MESSAGE:  Are you ready to unlock your path to a more inspired life where you're Living Lucky®? Email me directly and let's chart your course toward realizing your dreams and creating a life that fills you with daily inspiration.   
    Email Jason Shelfer
    HERE

    The 4 pillars of Living Lucky
    Believe in yourself
    Believe in the people around you
    Believe in your circumstances and
    Believe that God is working through you, for you, and always conspiring in your favor.  

    *Previously Recorded 

    16 min

About Living Lucky® Podcast with Jason and Jana Banana

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