If you don't feel like marriage is for you, does it mean you can't have a wedding?

More couples are sitting with that question, and considering alternative ways of celebrating their commitment.

And it's not just weddings that are getting a rethink.

As many of our beliefs about life and the world change, people are looking for ways to mark milestones and gather that align with their values - love parties, living wakes, orphans Christmasses, are just a few 'new rituals' entering the vernacular.

So what does it take to make a ritual?