Ever think about starting your own private therapy practice? It's an exciting fork in the road — but there are many important issues to think through first!

When I started my own private therapy practice, I had no idea how much work would actually be involved. That's part of why I founded Growing Self Counseling and Coaching — I wanted to create an alternative for therapists who wanted the advantages of private practice, without the common pitfalls, such as: 

• Trouble building and maintaining a caseload
• Administrative work
• Billing & Insurance claims
• Isolation
• Marketing
• And more...

But of course, private practice offers many advantages as well. And, there are some alternatives that offer the best of both worlds.

So how can you decide which route is right for you? That's what we're talking about on this episode of Love, Happiness and Success for Therapists. 

Join me!

xoxo, Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

P.S. — Are you at risk of therapist burnout? Take my free quiz and find out: https://s.pointerpro.com/flourish 

Have you ever fallen into the trap of feeling like you're working harder than your therapy clients?

I think all clinicians experience this at some point in our careers! It's natural for us to want to see our clients grow, and even to push them along sometimes at a pace they're not quite ready for. But this always backfires. You can't do the work for your therapy clients, you can only support them as they navigate their own obstacles. 

So how can you stop working harder than your therapy clients and start placing the responsibility back where it belongs? That's what we're talking about on the latest episode of Love, Happiness and Success for Therapists.

I hope you'll tune in!

xoxo,

Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

P.S. — Take my "are you at risk of therapist burnout" quiz and get free tools and strategies to support your wellbeing: https://s.pointerpro.com/flourish 

Something that we are all vulnerable to as therapists can be moving too fast with our clients, or in some cases, moving too slow. 

We want to help our therapy clients experience results: healthier relationships, higher self-esteem, more success in their careers, and more contentment in their lives. But when we push them into the deep end of the personal growth pool before they're ready, their progress stalls. 

So how can you know if you're moving too fast with a client? And, what are some signs that your client is ready for more of a challenge? That's what we're talking about on this episode of Love, Happiness and Success for Therapists.

I hope it helps you set the pace that's just right for you and your clients. That's when the magic happens! 

xoxo, 

Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby 

P.S. — In this episode we talked about how using evidence-based coaching psychology techniques can help you find that sweet spot. If you want to learn more about coaching certification for therapists, take this totally FREE two part training to find out what it is, how it works, and whether or not it's for you: https://www.growingself.com/coach

When your clients get stuck, it's so frustrating, for you AND for them. You are there to be their guide, leading them toward growth, healing, and positive change. They are in real need, and looking to you to help them feel better and achieve their goals. So when your sessions feel like they're sputtering out, or even going in reverse, it can feel like you're just as stuck as they are. 

So how can you figure out why exactly your therapy client is getting stuck so you can both start moving forward again? That's what we're talking about on this episode of Love, Happiness and Success for Therapists!

You'll learn about the most common culprits that get clients stuck, how to figure out what's going on with your client, how to talk to them about their progress, when you might not be the right therapist for the job, and so much more. 

I hope you'll join me!

xoxo, 

Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

P.S. — How are YOU doing? Take my "Are You At Risk of Burnout" quiz and get tools and resources to support your wellbeing. 

Have you ever been ghosted by a therapy client? This unfortunate experience is something that every therapist goes through eventually. And just like in any other relationship, when a therapy client ghosts, it can leave you feeling a little haunted. 

You might wonder if it was something you said, or worry that your therapy client is not okay. Most of all, you'll be asking yourself — How can I avoid this kind of thing in the future? 

If you've been here before, then this episode is for you! We're talking about why therapy clients ghost, how to process it when a client stops coming to therapy without saying goodbye, and how you can use this experience to grow, personally and professionally. 

I hope you'll join me!

xoxo, 

Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby 

P.S. — Are you headed for therapist burnout? Take my free quiz and get a personalized action plan for supporting your wellbeing: https://s.pointerpro.com/flourish

As therapists, we know that healthy boundaries are essential... but when it comes to setting our own boundaries — with clients, with our work, and with ourselves — we can struggle just as much as the people we seek to serve. 

Why is setting boundaries as a therapist so hard? First, we put our hearts and souls into what we do for a living! We can't just shut that off when the clock strikes five, and so we continue to feel emotionally engaged with our work outside of our working hours. Depending on our situation, you may even be putting in non-billable hours when you're supposed to be off the clock. 

Second, the relationship between therapist and client is an usual blend of personal and professional, which means that maintaining appropriate boundaries requires a lot of thought and intention, more so than in other relationships. 

And finally, many of us find ourselves in work environments where healthy boundaries are not encouraged or supported, and going against the grain requires a lot of courage, when it's possible at all. 

Despite the challenge, we have to fight for our boundaries. We deserve to have balance, safety, and space to decompress — without that, we're of no use to anyone! 

So, how can you create healthy boundaries in your therapy practice? That's what we're talking about on today's episode of "Love, Happiness and Success for Therapists!" I hope you find these ideas helpful, and that they make you feel seen and supported. 

xoxo, 

Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby 

P.S. — I'm sure you're well aware that burnout is a major occupational hazard for us therapists, and having healthy boundaries is a protective factor. But, there are others! Are you heading towards burnout, in other domains? Take this quiz and find out: https://su.vc/flourish

How do you know when to let therapy clients go? This can be a tough call to make! But to practice ethically, we all need to know when to make it. Our mission is to help people grow, heal, and create positive change in their lives. When we can't fulfill that mission, for whatever reason, it's important that we acknowledge that, with compassion and courage. 

But sometimes it's not so straight forward. How do you know if your client is making progress? How do you know when you're the right person to help them, and when you're not? That's what we're talking about on today's episode of Love, Happiness, and Success for Therapists. 

Join me!

xoxo, 

Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby 

P.S. — Learn how to flourish and thrive as a therapist with my free quiz: https://su.vc/flourish

Ever feel like you can't stop thinking about your therapy clients? So many clinicians struggle with this! It's really a testament to how much we care about the people we serve. Even when we're not in session with them, we're mentally working over their problems and looking for solutions to help them move forward. 

But unfortunately, this is not good for us! We need to shut off, mentally decompress, and focus on our own lives when we're not working with clients. This is not only what you deserve, it's how you recharge so that you can do your best work in session. So how can you learn to stop thinking about your therapy clients outside of work? 

This episode will show you the way! I'm discussing the skills and strategies that have helped me, as well as the talented clinicians on my team at Growing Self Counseling and Coaching. I hope they'll help you too. 

xoxo, 

Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby 

P.S. — You can take my "How to Flourish and Thrive as a Therapist" Quiz here: https://su.vc/flourish

No matter how much you care about your clients or your craft, being a therapist can be a struggle! Between isolation, burnout, financial stressors, and being exposed to other people's trauma day after day, it's no wonder so many clinicians leave the profession. But when you have healthy boundaries, a balanced workload, and most of all, a supportive community, being a therapist can be a joy — which is exactly what it should be. 

Introducing Love, Happiness and Success for Therapists. I'm your host, Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby, a fellow therapist and the founder and clinical director of Growing Self Counseling and Coaching. As therapists, we know how to create a space for growth and connection for others. Now it's time we created one for ourselves!

Every week, I'm bringing you episodes on topics that matter to YOU — like how to prosper financially as a therapist while maintaining work-life balance, how to deal when clients ghost, and why your clients are getting stuck (and what you should do about it). This podcast is dedicated to your growth and empowerment. Being a therapist can be a struggle, but it does not have to be. So let's explore our opportunities, overcome our obstacles, and build something better, together. 

xoxo, 

Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby 

P.S. — You can take my "How to Flourish and Thrive as a Therapist" Quiz here: https://su.vc/flourish