<a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/2509646/fan_mail/new">Send us a message</a>To kick off Season 2, Jessica Lanyadoo is back to answer more listener questions with Dean. In this episode, they respond to questions about confidentiality, self care, and building and maintaining community when friends couple off or make choices that don't align with your values. If you're enjoying Love in a F*cked Up World, <a href='https://www.patreon.com/DeanSpade'>check out our Patreon</a> where you can find videos, conversations, and message boards where people are talking about the ideas. We pay for all the podcast expenses through listener support, so if you’re up for becoming a paid member of our Patreon, we really appreciate it. We also would love to see you there as a free member. Jessica Lanyadoo is host of Ghost of a Podcast, out twice weekly and available everywhere podcasts are heard. Find out more about her work at<a href='http://lovelanyadoo.com'> lovelanyadoo.com</a> and join her on Patreon at<a href='http://patreon.com/jessicalanyadoo'> patreon.com/jessicalanyadoo</a>

Send us a message To kick off Season 2, Jessica Lanyadoo is back to answer more listener questions with Dean. In this episode, they respond to questions about confidentiality, self care, and building and maintaining community when friends couple off or make choices that don't align with your values. If you're enjoying Love in a F*cked Up World, check out our Patreon where you can find videos, conversations, and message boards where people are talking about the ideas. We pay for all the podcast expenses through listener support, so if you’re up for becoming a paid member of our Patreon, we really appreciate it. We also would love to see you there as a free member. Jessica Lanyadoo is host of Ghost of a Podcast, out twice weekly and available everywhere podcasts are heard. Find out more about her work at lovelanyadoo.com and join her on Patreon at patreon.com/jessicalanyadoo

<a href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/2509646/fan_mail/new" rel="noopener noreferrer">Send us a message</a>To kick off Season 2, Jessica Lanyadoo is back to answer more listener questions with Dean. In this episode, they respond to questions about confidentiality, self care, and building and maintaining community when friends couple off or make choices that don't align with your values.&nbsp;If you're enjoying Love in a F*cked Up World, <a href="https://www.patreon.com/DeanSpade" rel="noopener noreferrer">check out our Patreon</a> where you can find videos, conversations, and message boards where people are talking about the ideas. We pay for all the podcast expenses through listener support, so if you’re up for becoming a paid member of our Patreon, we really appreciate it. We also would love to see you there as a free member.&nbsp;Jessica Lanyadoo is host of Ghost of a Podcast, out twice weekly and available everywhere podcasts are heard. Find out more about her work at<a href="http://lovelanyadoo.com" rel="noopener noreferrer"> lovelanyadoo.com</a> and join her on Patreon at<a href="http://patreon.com/jessicalanyadoo" rel="noopener noreferrer"> patreon.com/jessicalanyadoo</a>

AMA with Jessica Lanyadoo on Confidentiality, Self Care, and Maintaining Friendships

<a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/2509646/fan_mail/new">Send us a message</a>adrienne maree brown joins Dean Spade for the first episode of Love in a F*cked Up World. adrienne and Dean talk about collectivity, working in fractals to overcome feelings of overwhelm, pleasure, and letting go of ownership and possessiveness to build abundant support systems.Transcript available at https://deanspade.net/podcastBooks, podcasts, and more from adrienne maree brown: <ul><li><a href='https://adriennemareebrown.net/'>https://adriennemareebrown.net/</a> </li><li><a href='https://www.instagram.com/adriennemareebrown'>@adriennemareebrown</a> </li></ul>adrienne maree brown's books:<ul><li>Loving Corrections (AK Press, 2024)</li><li>Holding Change: The Way of Emergent Strategy Facilitation and Mediation (AK Press, 2021)</li><li>We Will Not Cancel Us And Other Dreams of Transformative Justice (AK Press, 2020)</li><li>Pleasure Activism: The Politics of Feeling Good (AK Press, 2019)</li><li>Emergent Strategy: Shaping Change, Changing Worlds (AK Press, 2017)</li><li>Octavia's Brood: Science Fiction Stories from Social Justice Movements (AK Press, 2015) </li><li>Grievers (AK Press, 2021)</li><li>Maroons (AK Press, 2023)</li><li>Ancestors (AK Press, 2025)</li></ul>adrienne maree brown's podcasts:<ul><li>How to Survive the End of the World (with Autumn Brown)</li><li>Octavia's Parables (with Toshi Reagon) </li></ul>Also mentioned in this episode: <ul><li>WALL-E (film, 2008)</li><li>Fumbling Towards Repair: A Workbook for Community Accountability Facilitators by Mariame Kaba & Shira Hassan (AK Press, 2019)</li><li>Woman on the Edge of Time by Marge Piercy (Knopf, 1976)</li><li><a href='https://surj.org/'>SURJ</a>: A home for white people working for justice</li><li><a href='https://collectiveliberation.org'>Catalyst Project</a>: Anti-Racism for Collective Liberation</li><li><a href='https://kellyhayes.org/movement-memos/'>Movement Memos</a> podcast by Kelly Hayes</li><li><a href='http://danielhunter.org'>Daniel Hunter</a> (educator and activist) </li></ul>

Send us a message adrienne maree brown joins Dean Spade for the first episode of Love in a F*cked Up World. adrienne and Dean talk about collectivity, working in fractals to overcome feelings of overwhelm, pleasure, and letting go of ownership and possessiveness to build abundant support systems. Transcript available at https://deanspade.net/podcast Books, podcasts, and more from adrienne maree brown: https://adriennemareebrown.net/ @adriennemareebrown adrienne maree brown's books:Loving Corrections (AK Press, 2024)Holding Change: The Way of Emergent Strategy Facilitation and Mediation (AK Press, 2021)We Will Not Cancel Us And Other Dreams of Transformative Justice (AK Press, 2020)Pleasure Activism: The Politics of Feeling Good (AK Press, 2019)Emergent Strategy: Shaping Change, Changing Worlds (AK Press, 2017)Octavia's Brood: Science Fiction Stories from Social Justice Movements (AK Press, 2015) Grievers (AK Press, 2021)Maroons (AK Press, 2023)Ancestors (AK Press, 2025)adrienne maree brown's podcasts:How to Survive the End of the World (with Autumn Brown)Octavia's Parables (with Toshi Reagon) Also mentioned in this episode: WALL-E (film, 2008)Fumbling Towards Repair: A Workbook for Community Accountability Facilitators by Mariame Kaba & Shira Hassan (AK Press, 2019)Woman on the Edge of Time by Marge Piercy (Knopf, 1976)SURJ: A home for white people working for justiceCatalyst Project: Anti-Racism for Collective LiberationMovement Memos podcast by Kelly HayesDaniel Hunter (educator and activist)

<a href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/2509646/fan_mail/new" rel="noopener noreferrer">Send us a message</a>adrienne maree brown joins Dean Spade for the first episode of Love in a F*cked Up World. adrienne and Dean talk about collectivity, working in fractals to overcome feelings of overwhelm, pleasure, and letting go of ownership and possessiveness to build abundant support systems.Transcript available at https://deanspade.net/podcastBooks, podcasts, and more from adrienne maree brown:&nbsp;<ul><li><a href="https://adriennemareebrown.net/" rel="noopener noreferrer">https://adriennemareebrown.net/</a>&nbsp;</li><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/adriennemareebrown" rel="noopener noreferrer">@adriennemareebrown</a>&nbsp;</li></ul>adrienne maree brown's books:<ul><li>Loving Corrections (AK Press, 2024)</li><li>Holding Change: The Way of Emergent Strategy Facilitation and Mediation (AK Press, 2021)</li><li>We Will Not Cancel Us And Other Dreams of Transformative Justice (AK Press, 2020)</li><li>Pleasure Activism: The Politics of Feeling Good (AK Press, 2019)</li><li>Emergent Strategy: Shaping Change, Changing Worlds (AK Press, 2017)</li><li>Octavia's Brood: Science Fiction Stories from Social Justice Movements (AK Press, 2015)&nbsp;</li><li>Grievers (AK Press, 2021)</li><li>Maroons (AK Press, 2023)</li><li>Ancestors (AK Press, 2025)</li></ul>adrienne maree brown's podcasts:<ul><li>How to Survive the End of the World (with Autumn Brown)</li><li>Octavia's Parables (with Toshi Reagon)&nbsp;</li></ul>Also mentioned in this episode:&nbsp;<ul><li>WALL-E (film, 2008)</li><li>Fumbling Towards Repair: A Workbook for Community Accountability Facilitators by Mariame Kaba &amp; Shira Hassan (AK Press, 2019)</li><li>Woman on the Edge of Time by Marge Piercy (Knopf, 1976)</li><li><a href="https://surj.org/" rel="noopener noreferrer">SURJ</a>: A home for white people working for justice</li><li><a href="https://collectiveliberation.org" rel="noopener noreferrer">Catalyst Project</a>: Anti-Racism for Collective Liberation</li><li><a href="https://kellyhayes.org/movement-memos/" rel="noopener noreferrer">Movement Memos</a> podcast by Kelly Hayes</li><li><a href="http://danielhunter.org" rel="noopener noreferrer">Daniel Hunter</a> (educator and activist)&nbsp;</li></ul>

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Send us a message For over 25 years, Dean Spade has been working in movements for queer and trans liberation and to end police, prisons, immigration enforcement, and war. His new podcast, Love In A F*cked Up World, offers concrete tools and conversations about how we can build and sustain strong relationships, because our connections to each other are the building blocks of all of our movements.

<a href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/2509646/fan_mail/new" rel="noopener noreferrer">Send us a message</a>For over 25 years, Dean Spade has been working in movements for queer and trans liberation and to end police, prisons, immigration enforcement, and war. His new podcast, Love In A F*cked Up World, offers concrete tools and conversations about how we can build and sustain strong relationships, because our connections to each other are the building blocks of all of our movements.&nbsp;

Introducing: Love in a F*cked Up World with Dean Spade

Why do so many of us act our worst in relationships? How can we hold on to our liberatory values even when strong feelings are involved? For 25 years, Dean Spade has been working in movements for queer and trans liberation and to end police, prisons, immigration enforcement, and war. In his new podcast, Love in a F*cked Up World, Dean and his guests offer concrete tools for building and sustaining strong relationships, because our connections to each other are the building blocks of our resistance.

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Why do so many of us act our worst in relationships? How can we hold on to our liberatory values even when strong feelings are involved? For 25 years, Dean Spade has been working in movements for queer and trans liberation and to end police, prisons, immigration enforcement, and war. In his new podcast, Love in a F*cked Up World, Dean and his guests offer concrete tools for building and sustaining strong relationships, because our connections to each other are the building blocks of our resistance.

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