One of the most common questions we get asked at the Academy is “how do I know when to end a relationship?”

 

In this episode, Chantelle and Erin discuss…

 

-       The difference between being willing to commit to a relationship and do the inner work vs beating your head against a wall

-       The three centres of alignment and compatibility in a relationship

-       Chantelle’s journey in discovering what her true needs are in relationship

-       How to expand what you believe you are worthy of asking for

-       Being able to walk away from relationships with ease, if not in alignment, without making your partner wrong, or judging what you are asking for

-       Allowing the feminine to lead more in relationship

-       That you get to have it all! A relationship that meets all your core needs, that feels resonant, that feels easeful, loving and full of pleasure, without stress and conflict, IS possible.


In this new series of lives, we discuss some of the most common questions and topics asked of Chantelle and the Academy. You can tune in live every second Monday, or catch the replay on IG, FB and here in the podcast.


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The immature masculine and immature feminine make the perfect codependent couple. That’s the majority of relationships…

And yet, when we bring our awareness to these traits, we can grow them into maturity.

Relationships can be our greatest teacher…

Hear Chantelle Raven explore some of the shadow themes around relating including…

- The role of our childhood in producing this urge to be reparented by our romantic partners

- What to do when shadows show up

- Why your language around what’s happening for you can harm or heal you

- Survival archetypes and how they play out in relationships

- How the Love Addict / Love Avoider show up in relating

This was recorded at Chantelle’s in-person Ignite Your Power retreat. For more like this, see the online course! https://embodiedawakeningacademy.com/ignite-your-power/

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The reason most people are not in their heart is because there are blockages — we believe our false stories… 

… I’m a victim

… Others need to change

… I’m not good enough

… I'll only have security when I own a house

And with this, we create separation. We try to control.

In this episode, Chantelle Raven shares the two pathways of sublimation to open the heart once again.

In sharing this, she explains...

- How to dissolve separation and come back to connection

- How to recognize the fear that keeps our heart closed and what to do with it

- Balancing our consciousness and animal urge

- The 3 requisites of Tantric lovemaking and the heart’s role

- The difference between energetic continence and sublimation

This episode was recorded at Chantelle’s in-person Sacred Sexuality retreat. For more resources exploring content like this, check out Embodied Awakening online courses and retreats at www.embodiedawakeningacademy.com

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Your body is your compass. Your body tells you when you have a BOUNDARY. 

How are you with setting them and honoring boundaries? 

How does it feel when you hear another person’s boundary?

In this episode, Chantelle explores the topic of setting healthy boundaries, including:

- Why tolerating is a first sign your boundaries are being crossed

- How actions speak louder than words when it comes to keeping your boundaries

- A powerful question to ask yourself when setting boundaries

- Natural consequences and their role in setting boundaries

- Noticing how much you’re acting in order not to lose love vs be in your integrity

This episode was recorded at Chantelle’s in-person Sacred Sexuality retreat. For more resources exploring content like this, check out Embodied Awakening online courses and retreats at www.embodiedawakeningacademy.com

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The smiling face. The right answer. Doing the approved thing. The mask of ‘perfect’. Offending no-one…

And totally tight and disconnected.

What if you could just rest in being… yourself?

What if you could let go of the expectations and just say it like it is? Do it like you really want to? Express it in your truth?

And remember, the bad girl, it comes out anyway, but in the shadow! The good girl is a time bomb that’s about to go off. 

In this episode, Chantelle explores what is the good girl and bad girl and how the empowered woman shows up through it all.

This was recorded at Chantelle’s in-person Ignite Your Power retreat. For more like this, see the online course! https://embodiedawakeningacademy.com/ignite-your-power/

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Sometimes we repress our magnificence as much as we repress the things we want to hide, the things we don’t like.

We also don’t just project OUR sh*t onto people thinking it’s THEM, we project our own divinity.

Everything you see in other people that you admire, is inside you…

Is it more difficult to be in your magnificence or the drama of not being good enough? For most, it’s the latter because it’s FAMILIAR.

The nervous system gravitates toward the familiar…

In this episode, Chantelle explains how to own your golden shadows and show up in your POWER.

This was recorded at Chantelle’s in-person Ignite Your Power retreat. For more like this, see the online course! https://embodiedawakeningacademy.com/ignite-your-power/

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Your partner is one of two things:

They’re either reflecting what you are now OR reflecting your missing pieces.

Either way, they’re a mirror — showing you aspects of yourself that you might not ordinarily see.

Relationships have a wonderful way of making conscious the things that are unconscious in us…

In this episode, Chantelle Raven shares about her personal experiences in relationships and her journey with — and struggles to find — inner union.

Some of the pieces she explores includes…

- What’s really going on when our partner doesn’t show up with qualities or behavior we want

- Laws of romantic chemistry and how to keep fire alive (or know when it’s time to leave)

- How entering a relation as a fragmented person makes codependency inevitable (and how to avoid that)

- Understanding the relationship between codependency, resentment and chemistry

- Why your primary relationship is *your* inner masculine and *your* inner feminine

- How to cultivate your “inner opposite” (for men, your inner feminine; for women, your inner masculine)

- A guided practice and keys for cultivating inner union between your masculine and feminine.

This episode was recorded at Chantelle’s in-person Sacred Sexuality retreat. For more resources exploring content like this, check out Embodied Awakening online courses and retreats at www.embodiedawakeningacademy.com

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On today’s show we talk to Larinda, a Tantric Practitioner who not so long ago was managing tech teams for global projects. She’d spent her entire working life in corporate jobs before realising she wanted more freedom. More balance. She eventually took steps outside her comfort zone, including beginning to explore self-development and understanding the human experience.

She learned about Human Design, Enneagram, Astrology, Reiki, TRE and Attachment Theory.

Then, she found Tantra. She fell in love with what it opened in her and knew the Tantra Practitioner Training was how she could continue to grow and help people at the same time.

Tune in to hear Larinda share about…

• Advice for people who want to switch careers (especially into the Tantric field)
• How to navigate What were your blocks hesitations?
• What helped her on the journey of becoming a Tantric Practitioner
• What she would say to herself if she could go back in time
• How to be at ease with the process of becoming

Hosted by Caitlyn Cook Embodied Healing Practitioner www.caitlyncook.com
Interested in becoming a Tantra Practitioner? Our 12-month Tantra Practitioner Program starts in March 2023, see https://embodiedawakeningacademy.com/tantra-practitioner-training

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This talk comes from Day 3 of our masterclass 'How to make a difference in the world, one heart at a time.'

Listen to hear Chantelle's wisdom on...
→ How the most successful healers embody their humanity and spirituality as one, to live what they teach.
→ Your capacity to heal others is dependent on your capacity to heal yourself. Learn how to embody your own awakening to support your clients to do the same
→ Key practices as a practitioner, that support you to showing up for yourself, so you can show up for others.

If you want to learn to EMBODY A STATE OF WHOLENESS and support others to do the same... THRIVING instead of just surviving...

Our upcoming 12-month Tantra Practitioner Training teaches you that.

Devoting yourself to the work in this training changes the way you hold yourself and change the way you hold others.⁣

Starting 1 March. Register now — see embodiedawakeningacademy.com for more.

Liked this episode? Subscribe and leave us a review. Share the love and share it with your friends.

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This talk comes from Day 1 of our masterclass How to make a difference in the world, one heart at a time.

Listen to hear Chantelle talk about...
→ How Tantra is the missing key to healing relationships, mental health and sexuality on the planet.
→ How the ground-breaking and growing field of Tantra offers a path to return to our wholeness, rather than seek perfection.
→ Tantric wisdom & techniques that heal emotional trauma related to the entire spectrum of the human experience.

If you want to learn to EMBODY A STATE OF WHOLENESS and support others to do the same... THRIVING instead of just surviving...

Our upcoming 12-month Tantra Practitioner Training teaches you that.

Devoting yourself to the work in this training changes the way you hold yourself and change the way you hold others.⁣

Starting 1 March. Register now - see embodiedawakeningacademy.com for more.

And to listen to Day 2 and 3, check out our YouTube channel! Talks are available until 24 Feb.

Resources + Links:

Sign up for the waitlist for the 18-month Tantra Practitioner Program: https://embodiedawakeningacademy.com/tantra-practitioner-training/

Check out our Self-Paced Program here: https://embodiedawakeningacademy.com/self-paced-tantra-practitioner-training/

Follow us on Instagram: @embodiedawakeningacademy