Constant scanning and chasing novelty are signs a man is leaking sexual energy, and it's a loss of presence and power others can feel. It makes women feel unsafe or unseen, and men themselves feel disconnected, ashamed, and out of alignment. This behaviour is often normalised, but it takes a toll on relationships and personal integrity.

In this episode, Lorin lays out four steps men can take to prevent leaking sexual energy, and offers women some language to help understand – but not excuse or condone – men’s behaviour.

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Evolve – October 3rd, 2025

The Deep Polarity Program
An 8-week immersive journey to unlock the deepest intimacy through masculine & feminine dynamics

After a time, even the most loving couples can feel like roommates rather than lovers. The passion fades, replaced by a daily grind of stress, responsibilities, and routine. Over time, this disconnect starts to feel normal, even as we long for something more.

So what can we do to rebuild polarity, and bring back the passion?

Masculine partners can focus on being fully present and showing up emotionally. Feminine partners can express vulnerability while maintaining boundaries. Together, they can open the door to connection by taking small, intentional steps towards each other.

When we let our disconnects widen, years can pass and the bond between us can weaken. We might wake up one day feeling distant, unsure of how we got here, and overwhelmed by the effort it seems to take to reconnect. The longer this goes on, the harder it is to repair.

But you can start by creating just one moment of connection today. It could be holding each other, sharing a vulnerable thought, or simply being fully present in the same space. These small acts have the power to spark something bigger and bring us closer together.

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The Deep Polarity Program
An 8-week immersive journey to unlock the deepest intimacy through masculine & feminine dynamics

Evolve – October 3rd, 2025

The feminine has been suppressed for too long, which has created imbalance, disconnection, and suffering. Many men feel threatened by women stepping into their power, tying their worth to control and dominance. This dynamic has left both men and women disconnected from their true essence and the sacred balance we need to thrive.

The suppression of the feminine has already led to a world filled with greed, destruction, and disconnection from the sacred. Clinging to the old ways only deepens pain and prevents healing for everyone.

Men can begin their own healing journey by reflecting on where they might hold onto control or entitlement. Women must continue stepping into their truth without dimming their light. Together, we can create a new paradigm where union and balance lead the way.

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Evolve – October 3rd, 2025

The Deep Polarity Program
An 8-week immersive journey to unlock the deepest intimacy through masculine & feminine dynamics

Unawakened men often either embody the bad boy archetype – driven by ego and validation – or fall into the spiritual bypasser phase, where their wounds are hidden behind spiritual language and practices. Both are rooted in a deep need for external validation, often tied to unresolved wounds with the feminine.

Shifting out of this means being honest with ourselves, confronting the emotions and patterns we’ve been avoiding, building a sense of self-worth that isn’t tied to external validation, and focusing on embodying integrity in our actions.

When we get stuck in thee unawakened archetypes, life becomes shallow and unfulfilling, relationships lack trust and depth, painful cycles of betrayal, insecurity, and emotional chaos repeat themselves, and we miss out on the chance to experience meaningful connection and purpose.

But whether it’s having an honest conversation, making amends, or simply sitting with the discomfort of your own emotions, real change begins when you see the sacred path, and walk it with integrity.

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The Deep Polarity Program
An 8-week immersive journey to unlock the deepest intimacy through masculine & feminine dynamics

Evolve – October 3rd, 2025

Relationships can be a mix of power and intensity, but also confusion and pain. When we’re in wounded relationships, we might wonder if that pain is a sign of growth or just us repeating old patterns. When we’re unsure about the nature of our relationship, it drains our energy and leaves us stuck.

What we need is to develop deep clarity and grounding in ourselves. This helps us recognise the difference between a wounded dynamic and a sacred union.

Think about the last time you spoke your truth. Did it bring you closer or cause more distance and pain? Use this awareness to make choices that align with safety, love, and growth.

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The Deep Polarity Program
An 8-week immersive journey to unlock the deepest intimacy through masculine & feminine dynamics

Evolve – October 3rd, 2025

Men often rely too much on words to communicate. They can miss the subtle cues their partner gives them through their energy, body, and presence. This disconnect can leave the partner feeling unseen and unsafe, while the man feels stuck, unsure of what went wrong.

Men’s work is to become more attuned to these subtle cues, especially when interacting with the feminine. By shifting their awareness into the body and responding with presence, men can create a deeper connection and intimacy. This means meeting her energy with groundedness, feeling her heart with their presence, and responding naturally rather than reacting defensively.

Without this shift, men risk staying in a cycle of disconnection. Their partner may continue to feel unseen and unsupported, and the relationship may lack true intimacy and depth. Over time, this can lead to frustration, resentment, and an emotional gap that becomes harder to bridge.

But this episode will help you practice awareness in your body, to focus on being fully present. This is the first step towards a deeper, more sacred connection.

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Evolve – October 3rd, 2025

The Deep Polarity Program
An 8-week immersive journey to unlock the deepest intimacy through masculine & feminine dynamics

It’s easy to get stuck in painful patterns rooted in unresolved wounds from our parents. These mother and father wounds can hold us back, keeping us from fully stepping into who we are meant to be. They impact our emotions, relationships, and even our sense of self-worth. This problem doesn’t just fade with time; it runs deep, tied to our primal instincts and childhood experiences.

But we can identify the negative emotions we feel towards our parents, reflect on the patterns we’ve internalised from them, and notice how they show up in our lives.

If we don’t, this pain can keep us stuck in cycles of resentment, disappointment, and frustration. It can make us reactive, drain our energy, and even sabotage our relationships and personal growth.

But by doing the work – taking even small steps – we can begin to reclaim our freedom and live with greater peace and clarity.

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The Deep Polarity Program
An 8-week immersive journey to unlock the deepest intimacy through masculine & feminine dynamics

Evolve – October 3rd, 2025

When we expand spiritually, it’s not all ease and light. As we step into our truth and embody more of our light, we often trigger discomfort in others. Their shadows rise, and we may feel the weight of their resistance, control, or hostility. This can lead us to shrink, compromise, or play small, abandoning who we truly are.

If we give in to this pressure, we risk staying stuck in old patterns. We lose the opportunity to fully embody our light and truth. We might even find ourselves trapped in cycles of disappointment, resentment, or self-abandonment.

But there is a way we can walk forward with an open heart and a quiet, unshakable power.

Mentioned in this episode:

The Deep Polarity Program
An 8-week immersive journey to unlock the deepest intimacy through masculine & feminine dynamics

Evolve – October 3rd, 2025

If you’ve felt disconnected from yourself or out of alignment with your energy, stuck in old patterns and overwhelmed by stress, you might wonder if you’re truly living. What you need is to reconnect with your energy and centre yourself in the present.

This isn’t about overthinking or trying to control everything. It’s about listening, trusting, and remembering who we are at our core.

In this episode, energy healer and teacher Jeffrey Allen offers a moment to pause and tune in. To notice how you’re feeling in your body, to allow yourself to let go of any expectations or judgments, and simply be present.

• Jeffrey’s website
• Spirit Mind – Jeffrey’s work with Hisami
• Follow @iamjeffreyallen on Instagram
• Follow Jeffrey on YouTube

Mentioned in this episode:

The Deep Polarity Program
An 8-week immersive journey to unlock the deepest intimacy through masculine & feminine dynamics

Evolve – October 3rd, 2025

At the core, many men feel unworthy of being loved fully. This unresolved belief leads to patterns that push love away.

The way forward is to own our patterns and take responsibility for shifting them. We need to train ourselves to stay present, even when it's uncomfortable.

Intimacy requires us to regulate our emotions and embrace vulnerability without shame. True freedom comes when we stop running and face our fears with courage and devotion.

Otherwise, we remain stuck in a cycle of distrust and emotional disconnection. Our actions create the very distance we fear, and relationships feel unsafe or unfulfilling. We miss out on the depth and love we truly desire.

This episode is an invitation to breathe deeply and commit to staying present, even when it feels uncomfortable.

Mentioned in this episode:

The Deep Polarity Program
An 8-week immersive journey to unlock the deepest intimacy through masculine & feminine dynamics

Evolve – October 3rd, 2025