#126: Being around good, godly men can change how you view guys and relationships. Knowing that good guys exist can influence the type of guy you’re interested in and help you WAIT for that type of guy!

In this episode, you get to meet Daniel. He's a single guy working in Houston, and he's sharing how community has been a game-changer for him. He opens up about the accountability, ministry, and friendships, he's found in community. He also gives some great insights about navigating guy/girl friendships in a healthy community, and it's really good!

For more information about the podcast or the Loving Your Husband Before You Even Have One book, please visit www.kimvollendorf.com.

Related Episodes:

#22 Austin

#26 Logan

#47 Tyler

#65 Blake

#99 Fisher

#28 Dave and Adrienne's story

#94 Girl/Guy Friendships

If you would like a copy of the accountability questions Daniel mentioned, please send an email to [email protected].

#125 What if your future self could come back and give you some single-girl advice?

Wouldn’t that be helpful?

Well, we all know that won’t happen, BUT we have the next best thing...

We’ve invited one of Kim's favorite single friends, who is no longer single, to the podcast to share what she wished she had known during her single years. 

Related Episodes:

#4: Having Sex Before Marriage is No Big Deal, Right?

#27: Will Hookups Help Your Marriage?

#105 Starting Over in Purity With My Boyfriend

#115 Resolving Your Past

Thanks for listening!

For more information about the podcast or the Loving Your Husband Before You Even Have One book, please visit www.kimvollendorf.com.

#124: What if you could love your husband before you even have one by praying for him--before you even knew who he was?

That's what Molly did as a single woman, and in this conversation, she shares with Kim what praying for her one-day husband looked like... and how God miraculously answered it years later!

You'll be encouraged by her story, and you'll be motivated to start praying!

Sample Feelings Wheel--> https://feelingswheel.com/

Related Episodes:

#11 Can Prayer Make a Difference

#20 God, Are You Listening?

#50 One in TWO Million: RJ and Kim's Story

For more information about Kim, the podcast, or the Loving Your Husband Before You Even Have One book, please visit www.kimvollendorf.com.

For more information about The Brook, please visit https://www.thebrook.city

Thanks for listening!

Pray for Kazakhstan--> https://prayercast.com/prayer-topic/kazakhstan/

Pray for Zimbabwe--> https://prayercast.com/prayer-topic/zimbabwe/

#123: Things aren’t as they should be. We live in a broken world, and because of that, families experience broken patterns of relating to each other. Parents are broken. Children are broken. 

It’s wise for single women to resolve some of these broken patterns of relating with parents and change what they can before they repeat the broken patterns they’ve experienced. That’s the conversation we are starting today.

Kim is joined by her friend Jess, who shares some surprising insights from Moses' life. Who knew that Moses could be such an encouragement as we work toward healthy relationships?

Doing what we can to have healthy family relationships allows us to invest in ourselves and in our future marriage– it’s kinda like loving your husband before you even have one!

Related Episodes:

#68 Processing Your Hurts

For more information about Kim, the podcast, or the Loving Your Husband Before You Even Have One book, please visit www.kimvollendorf.com.

For more information about the Traveling Team, please visit https://www.thetravelingteam.org/

#122: We know modesty can be a struggle. What exactly is modesty? What does modesty look like? Why would a girl want to be modest?

To answer your questions, we thought it would be helpful to discuss modesty with a young woman who recently started dressing modestly. Chanyng studied dance at the University of Arizona and joined Kim and Jena on this episode for a candid discussion.

Chanyng's instagram--> @chanyngfloyd and @bakewithchan

Podcast instagram--> @sixonesis

Podcast website--> kimvollendorf.com

Book--> Loving Your Husband Before You Even Have One

Related Episodes:

#14 What's the Big Deal About Modesty?

#121: You've been single a long time. The guy who is paying attention to you isn't following Christ. You know you aren’t on the same page spiritually, but he's really cute and fun. You wonder if you could be a good influence on him. Singleness has worn you down, and it’s tempting to think that if the two of you got married, it wouldn’t be such a big deal. 

Well, we get it, and we are here for you. It’s important to understand the challenges a marriage faces when a couple isn’t on the same page spiritually, and that’s what we are talking about today!

Clark is a pastor, and he's seen the struggles of these spiritually "mismatched" marriages. His wife Pam joins us for a realistic look at what marriage is like when one is following Christ and one isn't.

#120: Old friends Kristen, Kathy, and Leigha join Kim on this episode to reflect on their decision to start following Christ in college.

This episode went a little longer than normal, so grab a cup of tea and make time to soak up some wisdom from some women who have gone before you.

Related Episodes:

#68 Processing Your Hurts

https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/processing-your-hurts/id1551403877?i=1000580756739

The Loving Your Husband Before You Even Have One Book

https://www.kimvollendorf.com/

#119: In this episode, Clary joins us to discuss a long-awaited and often-requested topic--dating apps! Clary met her husband on a dating app, and she's sharing her best tips for navigating them.

Christians seem to be on both sides of the argument for and against dating apps, and there are valid points on each side.  We aren’t going to tell you that you should or shouldn’t use them. It’s a personal decision, and we hope you'll seek godly counsel around you for your specific situation.

The reality is that dating apps most likely aren’t going away anytime soon, so we’re discussing how best to use them if you choose to.

Related episodes:

#109 Do You Have a List of Qualities You Are Looking for in a Guy?

https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/do-you-have-a-list-of-qualities-you-are-looking-for-in-a-guy/id1551403877?i=1000636750146

#98 GRWM: First Date

https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/grwm-first-date/id1551403877?i=1000627571414

Other Resources:

Clary's instagram https://www.instagram.com/clarygirdner/

Adrienne's instagram https://www.instagram.com/adriennemathews_/

Kim/Podcast instagram

https://www.instagram.com/sixonesis/

Podcast website

https://www.kimvollendorf.com/

Loving Your Husband Before You Even Have One Book

https://www.kimvollendorf.com/shop

#118: This week's guest is Kennon Vaughan, the founder and CEO of Downline Ministries in Memphis, TN. Co-host Leah is currently the Women’s Director for their Emerging Leaders program, the young professional ministry within Downline. In this episode, we discuss the benefits of discipleship, especially for single women, and we get all of Kennon's best advice.

If you want to be discipled by someone or want to disciple someone else, but you don't know what to do, Downline might just be your next step!

To find out more about Downline:

https://www.downlinememphis.com/emerging-leaders

To fill out the interest form:

https://www.downlinememphis.com/emerging-leaders-interest-form

Downline's instagram:

https://www.instagram.com/dl_emergingleaders/

Leah's instagram:

https://www.instagram.com/omg.the.real.lc/

Podcast/Kim's instagram:

https://www.instagram.com/sixonesis/

#117: Single women need to build realistic expectations about love and marriage. If you enter a future marriage with the wrong ideas about love and marriage, those unrealistic expectations can create problems.

Logan is back on the podcast with his new wife, Lindsey, and they are opening up to give an insider look at what the first year of marriage can be like. It's rare that a couple would open up and share about the realities, but they are here for it.

If you want to love your husband before you even have one, listen in so that you will have more realistic expectations about love and marriage.

Logan's instagram https://www.instagram.com/loganbonjean/

Lindsey's instagram https://www.instagram.com/lindseybonjean/

Adrienne's instagram https://www.instagram.com/adriennemathews_/

Podcast/Kim's instagram

https://www.instagram.com/sixonesis/

Related episodes:

#26 Inside the Mind of an Aspiring Good Guy

https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/inside-the-mind-of-an-aspiring-good-guy-logan/id1551403877?i=1000532823746

#63 When a Social Media Spark Leads to Marriage

https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/when-a-social-media-spark-leads-to-marriage/id1551403877?i=1000577065025

#53 The Best News Ever

https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-best-news-ever/id1551403877?i=1000557067908

Resources:

Get a copy of Loving Your Husband Before You Even Have One Book here--> https://www.kimvollendorf.com/

Love and Respect by Emerson Eggeriches