This episode was recorded live at Pasaporte with Hector, and it centers on the tension of showing up in spaces where you feel out of place, underestimated, or unseen. Not to perform. Not to fit in. But to exist fully as yourself.

We talk about identity, belonging, faith, discomfort, and what happens when you stop shrinking to match a room that was never designed for you. Sometimes growth doesn’t come from finding where you belong—it comes from standing firm where you don’t.

This conversation is raw, honest, and necessary. It’s for anyone who’s ever questioned their place, their voice, or their right to be in the room.

Because belonging isn’t always about acceptance.
Sometimes it’s about presence.

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Feeling “not enough” isn’t a personality flaw it’s a learned response.

In this episode, we expose the comparison loop: how environments, relationships, and constant evaluation train the mind to shrink itself. When you stay around people who make you feel replaceable, you don’t become stronger, you become quieter.

This conversation is about:

• Psychological conditioning and self-worth
• Why comparison feels automatic (and how to interrupt it)
• The science behind emotional invalidation
• Detaching from people who diminish you
• Rebuilding confidence without external permission

You don’t need to prove your worth.

You need to stop negotiating it.

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Detachment creates space and what fills that space is your future. In this episode, we explore what life looks like on the other side of letting go. From rediscovering forgotten parts of yourself to finding peace when old names no longer change your heartbeat, this is where the healing becomes growth. Detachment isn’t about loss, it’s about self-respect, clarity, and stepping into the person you were always meant to be. In this episode of Made For This Mountain, we figure out how to finally grow after detachment

Growing Beyond 

• The space you create by letting go is where your future shows up.
• Peace isn’t found in holding tighter; it’s found in releasing.
• When you detach, you rediscover the parts of you that were suffocating.
• What you think you lost is often what you needed to lose.
• You’ll know you’ve healed when their name doesn’t change your heartbeat.
• Detachment is not the end of love, it’s the beginning of self-respect.
• Sometimes God (or life) removes people so you can see your own strength.

 

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This Made For This Mountain episode dives deep into what it really means to let go, without abandoning who you are.

If you’re tired of holding on to relationships, situations, or expectations that break you down, this episode gives you the practical tools and mental clarity to finally detach in a healthy, grounded way.

We explore why detachment isn’t cold, cruel, or careless; it’s self-preservation, emotional power, and spiritual clarity. You’ll hear hard truths about loyalty, control, and identity, plus real strategies to help you stop repeating old patterns.

Inside this episode:

• Why detachment is a superpower

• How to break emotional dependence

• How to stop confusing loyalty with self-destruction

• How to rebuild trust in yourself

• Practical steps to strengthen your detachment muscle

• How to let go of what controls you — without losing your compassion

This episode is for anyone healing, evolving, and ready to step into a stronger, freer version of themselves.

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Why do we cling to relationships, jobs, and situations long after they’ve stopped serving us? In this episode, we break down the psychology of attachment and why we confuse familiarity with safety. You’ll learn how your brain tricks you into holding on, why your story keeps you stuck, and what it really costs you when you can’t let go. This isn’t just about romantic breakups; it’s about friendships, careers, identities, and anything you’ve outgrown.

One of the biggest fears we have, whether conscious or not, is that we are inadequate. it’s that we aren’t seen or liked, and for most of us, that either makes us severely depressed or makes us fight to be seen in places like people pleasing or needing to be wanted

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This episode digs into the part of healing most people avoid: forgiving yourself. I talk about why self-forgiveness hits deeper than forgiving others, how guilt and shame quietly shape your identity, and what it takes to finally stop dragging your past into your present. We break down the difference between a mistake and an identity, how to rebuild trust in yourself, and how to learn from your past without reliving it. This is about grace, honesty, and letting go of the version of you that didn’t know better.

• self-sabotage meaning
• why we sabotage ourselves
• breaking toxic cycles
• stop waiting for the perfect moment
• overcoming the “when I’m ready” mindset
• why you keep holding yourself back
• mental battle with yourself
• fighting your inner resistance
• breaking free from internal roadblocks
• how to take control of your life again

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In this episode, Geselle sits down with me for one of the realest conversations she’s had yet. Fresh off her visit to La Casa de Alofoke, one of the biggest Dominican media platforms, she opens up about what that experience was really like the energy, the pressure, the opportunities, and the way it shifted her perspective on the Dominican content world.

We break down her rapid rise in the Dominican community, the way creators are reshaping the culture, and what it takes to stand out in such a competitive space. But we don’t stop at the success, Geselle  shares the struggles she’s had to fight through behind the scenes. The pain, the setbacks, the moments she thought she wouldn’t make it, and the strength it took to rebuild her life.

This episode is raw, inspiring, and a must-watch for anyone chasing big dreams while carrying a heavy past.

If you're Dominican, a creator, or someone grinding through your own story, this one will hit you.

 

 

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What if the hardest part about healing wasn’t letting go of them but letting go of who you hoped they’d become?

In this episode, Joshua Rosa breaks down the emotional, psychological, and spiritual journey of healing after a narcissistic relationship one where your hope, loyalty, and love were weaponized against you.

This episode exposes the patterns, explains the psychology, and offers a path forward for those who’ve been gaslit, drained, or made to doubt their own worth.

Because the truth is: they might not ever change. But you can.

In This Episode:

• Why narcissists mimic change to keep control
• The psychology behind why you stayed (and why it’s not weakness)
• What trauma bonding really does to your brain
• The myth of closure and why you’ll never get it from them
• How to rebuild your sense of reality after being gaslit
• The power of “no contact” and emotional detachment
• Healing as withdrawal not failure
• How to trust yourself again after being manipulated
• Turning pain into purpose and rebuilding your identity

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What happens when two Dominican kids who grew up side-by-side actually start living the dreams they used to talk about?

In this episode, I sit down with my longtime friend Bryan 20+ years of brotherhood, laughter, and grind to talk about what it really means to grow up Dominican, chase your goals, and keep your identity through it all.

We talk about:

• How Dominican parents shaped our hustle mentality
• The unspoken challenges of growing in your craft while staying true to your roots
• Balancing culture, faith, and ambition
• What friendship looks like after decades of growth and change
• The dreams we’ve caught… and the ones we’re still chasing

It’s part nostalgia, part real talk and a reminder that you can come from humble beginnings and still create something bigger than you imagined.

🎙️ If you’ve ever wondered what happens when you stop talking about your dreams and start living them, this one’s for you.

 

Find bryan on instagram: @Bryan.dejesus

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The most powerful response you’ll ever give… is no response at all.

In this episode, Joshua Rosa dives deep into the art and neuroscience of emotional control and why learning to pause, stay calm, and not react might be the most spiritual discipline of all.

When you stop feeding chaos with reaction, you reclaim something most people lose early in life: your peace.

This episode blends raw reflection with scientific insight to show you how mastering silence changes everything from relationships and leadership to emotional resilience and faith.

You’ll learn:

✅ The neuroscience of non-reaction — how your brain’s wiring determines your peace

✅ Why “amygdala hijack” makes you lash out before you think

✅ How to retrain your brain to pause, analyze, and respond with power

✅ Why criticism and emotional triggers feel like physical threats

✅ How to use silence as a strategy, not a weakness

✅ How stillness builds strength, focus, and emotional freedom

“The most powerful thing you can do to someone who hurt you is not respond. Because silence forces them to face themselves.”

If you’ve been living on emotional autopilot, this episode will show you how to step back, stay grounded, and move from reaction to response from chaos to calm.

 

📍 Follow Joshua:

• Instagram: @_joshuarosa
• TikTok: @_joshuarosa
• YouTube: @MadeForThisMountain

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