5138 MAKE BABIES DAMMIT!

Wednesday Night Live 23 Mar 2023Hey Stef, you’ve mentioned having mourning rituals for death or breakups/divorces. Just wondering if you had a few you can throw at me?Throughout childhood starvation was used as a punishment against me. I'm currently struggling to loose weight, any advice?Question for stream: (following up on yesterday's stream around "lay count" question)___Bf - 28y - had 21 partnersGf - 26y - had 16 partnersWhat do discuss before getting engaged?What arrangements/resolutions to make?Is there such a thing as discussing past relationships too much ?(Been going out for over 1y)We knew from very early on that:-Values match-Life vision matches-Both want to have familyHow does that align with your comment from yesterday thatWhat’s up Stef? You see Crystal Palace signed Roy Hodgson as their new manager?Every time I log on to Stefan I learn something newQuestion: Are there some additional techniques to get toxic parents out of your head besides little or no contact and surrounding yourself w great people and staying busy?Bitcoin to 1 million dollars in 90 days?I’ve been working all my life and am at retirement age and know not sure if I want to retire now that the time is nearAny suggestions to deal with loneliness, especially when you know a lot of people but that sense of connection is always wanting. I live alone, I can be talkative and people enjoy my company for the initial meeting but I have issues moving forward from that. (Pt 1)I feel people never reach out to me, I have to initiate. I know I’m not owed anything I get what I give but it’s very tough. Especially on my days off I try to fulfill my social needs by going out, to the store; it gets expensive. I lack healthy friends my age (Pt2)Hi Stef,In a last few months I have doubts about having children. Whenever I think about it I see it as solution, like I will be whole when I have them. I sense that is not right. What are right reasons to have children in your opinion? And how do I measure or know that I done enough self-work to have children and have emotional full cup for them?Thank you for the work you do, feel bit bad about not tipping you, I am not in financial position to do more then subStef you mentioned that in the 80 or 90 that you couldn't get a job so you started your company. Why do you think you couldn't get a job?Just rejoined the stream the second you took your shirt off. Not what I expected but a welcome surprise lol.