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  • 36: Holiday Episode: The Spirit of Generosity in Relationships

    In this special holiday episode, Ellen Dorian reflects on the Spirit of Generosity, a concept she learned from her father and continues to embody in her coaching. Through heartfelt storytelling, she introduces the five aspects of generosity—emotional, relational, philosophical, action-oriented, and legacy-focused—and shares actionable ways to bring these into your relationships. This episode is a guide to creating deeper connections, fostering trust, and leaving a meaningful legacy for your loved ones.

    Part 1: A Holiday Story About Generosity
    • Ellen shares a moving story about her father’s approach to Christmas and the lessons he imparted through the concept of Santa Claus as the embodiment of generosity.
    • She recounts her dad’s final gift to her, The Gift of the Magi by O. Henry, and how it symbolizes selflessness, love, and sacrifice in relationships.

    Part 2: The Five Aspects of Generosity
    • Emotional Generosity: Giving time, attention, and love freely without expecting anything in return. Includes practical tips like using a “root cause analysis” approach to stay present during emotional conversations.
    • Relational Generosity: Paying attention to your partner’s needs and stepping in to share the mental load. Features the “By The Clock” exercise to anticipate and address tasks proactively.
    • Philosophical Generosity: Cultivating a mindset of abundance by focusing on gratitude and appreciation rather than scarcity or criticism.
    • Action-Oriented Generosity: Doing what you say you’ll do, being reliable, and supporting your partner when it matters most, even when it’s inconvenient.
    • Legacy of Generosity: Building a lasting impact through selflessness in relationships, modeled after her father’s example.

    Part 3: Holiday Reflections
    • Ellen encourages listeners to embrace the Spirit of Generosity during the holiday season and to pass it forward in their own lives.
    • She reminds listeners that the greatest gift they can give their children is the example of a passionate and connected partnership.


    Key Takeaways:
    1. Generosity is More Than Money. True generosity lies in how you give your time, attention, and care to those you love. It’s about showing up fully and selflessly in ways that matter most.
    2. Emotional and Relational Generosity Build Connection.Trust and connection grow when you’re emotionally present and proactive in supporting your partner’s needs—whether by sharing the mental load or simply listening with focus and care.
    3. Your Legacy Begins in Your Relationships.The most impactful legacy you leave isn’t material; it’s the example you set in your relationships. Cultivating a passionate and connected partnership shapes how your children and loved ones approach their own connections.

    Call to Action:

    Feeling stuck in your relationship? Schedule a free 15-minute Relationship Reset Call with Ellen to identify key challenges and create a plan to move forward.

    Visit relationshipresetcall.com to book your spot.


    Closing Thoughts:

    Ellen closes with a heartfelt wish for joy, peace, and love during the holiday season. She invites listeners to embrace the Spirit of Generosity and leave a legacy their loved ones will treasure.

    Support & Resources:

    Ellen invites listeners to share their thoughts, either in the P3 Insider's Community or directly with her via email. Or, for one on one brainstorming on a specific situation, listeners can set up a time on Ellen's Calendar for a free Relationship Reset Call.

    All links can be found below.


    "Until next time, remember, 'What I want most in the world is for you to Make More Love in Your Life and with Your Wife.'" - Ellen Dorian
    Disclaimer:

    The Make More Love show is for information and entertainment purposes only. It is not a substitute for the guidance of a qualified mental health or medical professional.


    

    Make More Love Show Website:

    www.makemorelove.show

    Parent Company - The Passionate Partners Project:

    www.passionatepartnersproject.com

    Join Our Passionate Partners Insider Community:

    https://www.facebook.com/groups/682764239165105

    Contact Me Directly:

    Email: [email protected]

    Or direct message me via social media:

    Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/ellen.dorian.7/

    LinkedIn:    https://www.linkedin.com/in/ellendorian/

    Take the free Relationship Dynamics Quiz:

    http://makemorelove.show/quiz

    Set up a Free Relationship Reset Call with me:

    http://relationshipresetcall.com


    15 min
  • 35: How to Give Your Partner a Gift Card Without Hurting Your Relationship
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    Gift-giving during the holidays or special occasions can be a minefield, especially when it comes to significant others. This week, Ellen dives into a common mistake many partners make: giving a gift card without much thought—and how it can unintentionally hurt your relationship. She shares a real-life story from a client and offers practical, step-by-step advice on how to turn even a gift card into a meaningful experience that shows your partner how much you care.

    Part 1: Why Gift-Giving Feels So Hard

    Ellen breaks down the common frustrations and challenges of holiday gift-giving:

    • Why partners with “everything” are difficult to shop for.
    • How big-ticket items and personal preferences make gift-giving feel impossible.
    • Why a gift card might seem practical but can come across as thoughtless.

    She also unpacks what the phrase “It’s the thought that counts” really means—and how partners interpret effort differently.


    Part 2: A Client’s Gift-Giving Dilemma

    Ellen shares the story of her client, JT, who struggled to find a gift for his wife after past failures—including a gift card disaster that caused resentment. She explores why this scenario is so common and how frustration can lead to gift-giving procrastination or avoidance altogether.


    Part 3: The Solution—Make It an Experience

    Ellen lays out a step-by-step plan for turning a gift card or shopping budget into a meaningful and personal experience:

    1. Create a beautifully wrapped certificate for a shopping day together.
    2. Plan ahead by contacting stores and arranging a curated selection within budget.
    3. Elevate the experience with lunch, dinner, or thoughtful details that show care and effort.She also provides ideas for scaling the experience to different preferences, budgets, and logistics.

    Key Takeaways:
    1. A great gift isn’t about the price—it’s about the thought and effort behind it.
    2. Focusing on an experience over a “thing” creates connection and shows your partner you value them.
    3. Planning even simple details, like arranging a private shopping experience, can make all the difference.

    Call to Action:

    If you’ve ever struggled with gift-giving, this episode is your chance to rethink your approach and create a meaningful moment with your partner. For more personalized advice, schedule a free Relationship Reset Call with Ellen or join the conversation in the P3 Insider’s Community. Links are below!

    Closing Thoughts:

    Ellen reminds listeners that putting thought into a gift is about more than avoiding conflict—it’s about deepening your connection and showing your partner they matter.

    "Until next time, remember, 'What I want most in the world is for you to Make More Love in Your Life and with Your Wife.'" - Ellen Dorian

    Support & Resources:

    Ellen invites listeners to share their thoughts, either in the P3 Insider's Community or directly with her via email. Or, for one on one brainstorming on a specific situation, listeners can set up a time on Ellen's Calendar for a free Relationship Reset Call.

    All links can be found below.

    PS:

    custom jewelry design info:

    https://www.instagram.com/dorianjewelers/


    "Until next time, remember, 'What I want most in the world is for you to Make More Love in Your Life and with Your Wife.'" - Ellen Dorian
    Disclaimer:

    The Make More Love show is for information and entertainment purposes only. It is not a substitute for the guidance of a qualified mental health or medical professional.


    

    Make More Love Show Website:

    www.makemorelove.show

    Parent Company - The Passionate Partners Project:

    www.passionatepartnersproject.com

    Join Our Passionate Partners Insider Community:

    https://www.facebook.com/groups/682764239165105

    Contact Me Directly:

    Email: [email protected]

    Or direct message me via social media:

    Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/ellen.dorian.7/

    LinkedIn:    https://www.linkedin.com/in/ellendorian/

    Take the free Relationship Dynamics Quiz:

    http://makemorelove.show/quiz

    Set up a Free Relationship Reset Call with me:

    http://relationshipresetcall.com


    15 min
  • 34: How to Handle When Things Go South

    [In this off-the-cuff episode, Ellen Dorian shares candid thoughts on handling frustrations and setbacks when things don’t go as planned. Using her own tech issues as an example, Ellen explores how to manage stress and prevent it from negatively impacting your relationships. She dives into three common problems and offers five actionable principles for maintaining emotional control and resilience during challenging times.

    Part 1: Understanding the Impact of Frustration
    • How work frustrations can spill over into your relationship, even when your partner isn’t involved.
    • The importance of recognizing how stress affects your behavior and the energy you bring home.

    Part 2: Identifying Common Challenges
    • Losing perspective under stress and why small glitches can feel enormous.
    • Neglecting self-care and how it creates a vicious cycle, making stress harder to handle.

    Part 3: Five Principles for Managing Frustration
    1. Pause Before Reacting – Take a deep breath and respond intentionally instead of emotionally.
    2. Name It to Tame It – Identify and articulate what you’re feeling to regain control.
    3. Communicate Constructively – Share your frustrations with your partner in a way that fosters understanding, not conflict.
    4. Prioritize Self-Care – Small, intentional actions can build resilience and restore your emotional balance.
    5. Engage the Gratitude Factor – Reflect on what’s going well to reframe your mindset and counter negativity.

    Key Takeaways:
    • Frustrations are inevitable, but they don’t have to damage your relationship.
    • Emotional control during challenging times is a cornerstone of living an honorable life.
    • Practicing self-care and gratitude can help you manage stress and show up as your best self.

    Call to Action:

    Ellen shares her personal commitment to these principles and encourages listeners to take a proactive approach to maintaining balance in their lives. Whether it’s a deep breath, a moment of gratitude, or reaching out for support, small steps can make a big difference in preserving both your peace of mind and the strength of your relationships.

    Closing Thoughts:

    Ellen reflects on the importance of handling frustrations with intention, especially when life doesn’t go as planned. She emphasizes that these moments, though temporary, can leave lasting impacts if we let them spill over into our relationships. By practicing emotional control, prioritizing self-care, and staying mindful of how stress affects those around us, we can navigate challenges more gracefully.

    Support & Resources:

    Ellen invites listeners to share their thoughts, either in the P3 Insider's Community or directly with her via email. Or, for one on one brainstorming on a specific situation, listeners can set up a time on Ellen's Calendar for a free Relationship Reset Call.

    All links can be found below.


    "Until next time, remember, 'What I want most in the world is for you to Make More Love in Your Life and with Your Wife.'" - Ellen Dorian
    Disclaimer:

    The Make More Love show is for information and entertainment purposes only. It is not a substitute for the guidance of a qualified mental health or medical professional.


    

    Make More Love Show Website:

    www.makemorelove.show

    Parent Company - The Passionate Partners Project:

    www.passionatepartnersproject.com

    Join Our Passionate Partners Insider Community:

    https://www.facebook.com/groups/682764239165105

    Contact Me Directly:

    Email: [email protected]

    Or direct message me via social media:

    Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/ellen.dorian.7/

    LinkedIn:    https://www.linkedin.com/in/ellendorian/

    Take the free Relationship Dynamics Quiz:

    http://makemorelove.show/quiz

    Set up a Free Relationship Reset Call with me:

    http://relationshipresetcall.com


    16 min
  • 33: Silence, Anger & Desire: Emotional Patterns that Can Undermine Your Relationship—With Performance Coach Kylie Ryan

    In this episode, Ellen sits down with the dynamic Kylie Ryan, a performance coach specializing in helping entrepreneurs unlock their potential by tackling emotional and mental roadblocks. Together, they dive into a range of provocative topics, from emotional intelligence and societal conditioning to rage and relationships. This conversation is packed with insights on how to better understand and express emotions, fostering stronger connections in both personal and professional spheres.

    Part 1: Understanding Emotional Conditioning

    Ellen and Kylie discuss how upbringing, societal norms, and biological differences shape the way men and women process emotions. They delve into why many men struggle with articulating emotions and how partners can work together to create a safe space for emotional expression.

    Part 2: Rage, Relationships, and Society

    The conversation shifts to the increasing rage and anger seen in society, particularly in men, stemming from isolation, lack of appreciation, and unmet emotional needs. Kylie explores the impact of suppressed emotions and the role of societal structures in perpetuating dysfunctional coping mechanisms.

    Part 3: The Path to Emotional Mastery

    Kylie outlines practical strategies for managing and expressing emotions constructively. Ellen and Kylie share personal anecdotes to illustrate how addressing emotional triggers and embracing vulnerability can lead to deeper intimacy and fulfillment.

    Key Takeaways:
    1. Managing and expressing emotions is a sign of strength and essential for building meaningful connections.
    2. Societal norms and upbringing shape emotional habits, but you can break free from these patterns through awareness and intention.
    3. Authentic connection and intimacy arise when you let go of pretenses and embrace vulnerability with your partner.

    Call to Action:

    Ready to take control of your emotions and enhance your relationships? Join Ellen’s private Facebook community, visit her website for more resources, or schedule a free Relationship Reset Call today at relationshipresetcall.com.

    Closing Thoughts:

    Ellen encourages listeners to reflect on how managing emotions can positively impact their lives and relationships. She emphasizes that taking small steps toward emotional mastery can lead to extraordinary changes in connection and intimacy.

    Support & Resources:

    Ellen invites listeners to share their thoughts, either in the P3 Insider's Community or directly with her via email. Or, for one on one brainstorming on a specific situation, listeners can set up a time on Ellen's Calendar for a free Relationship Reset Call.

    All links can be found below.

    "Until next time, remember, 'What I want most in the world is for you to Make More Love in Your Life and with Your Wife.'" - Ellen Dorian
    Disclaimer:

    The Make More Love show is for information and entertainment purposes only. It is not a substitute for the guidance of a qualified mental health or medical professional.


    

    Make More Love Show Website:

    www.makemorelove.show

    Parent Company - The Passionate Partners Project:

    www.passionatepartnersproject.com

    Join Our Passionate Partners Insider Community:

    https://www.facebook.com/groups/682764239165105

    Contact Me Directly:

    Email: [email protected]

    Or direct message me via social media:

    Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/ellen.dorian.7/

    LinkedIn:    https://www.linkedin.com/in/ellendorian/

    Take the free Relationship Dynamics Quiz:

    http://makemorelove.show/quiz

    Set up a Free Relationship Reset Call with me:

    http://relationshipresetcall.com


    29 min
  • 32: How to Avoid Fighting with Your Partner Over the Holidays

    The holidays can be a time of joy, but they can also be a time of stress—especially for couples. In this episode, Ellen shares why holiday conflicts happen, the hidden risks that can quietly undermine your relationship, and 5 practical strategies you can use to avoid fighting and stay connected with your partner during this busy season. Whether it’s money stress, family drama, or unmet expectations, you’ll walk away with tools to navigate the holidays with more peace and connection.

    Part 1: The 8 Major Causes of Holiday Conflict

    Ellen breaks down the top reasons couples fight during the holidays, including:

    • Money: How differing spending habits can create tension.
    • Family Dynamics: Navigating extended family expectations and obligations.
    • Religious Differences: Balancing beliefs about how to celebrate.
    • Political Differences: When core values clash.
    • Conflicting Priorities: Misalignment on how to spend time.
    • Unmet Expectations: Disappointments when reality doesn’t match ideals.
    • Boredom with Holiday Traditions: Balancing new ideas and old favorites.
    • Unresolved Relationship Issues: How pre-existing tensions escalate during the season.

    Part 2: The Hidden Risks That Fly Under the Radar

    Ellen explores three sneaky risks that can quietly damage your relationship over the holidays:

    • Overindulgence: How drinking, eating, or other excesses can amplify tensions.
    • Unhealthy Coping Strategies: Avoidance tactics like burying yourself in work or escaping into hobbies.
    • Infidelity: Why feelings of disconnection or loneliness can heighten the risk during this time of year.

    Part 3: Practical Strategies for Avoiding Holiday Fighting

    Ellen shares a tactical approach to de-escalating conflict and fostering connection during the holidays. The 5 strategies include:

    1. Lay the Foundation with Clear Priorities: Align on expectations before the holidays begin.
    2. Address Stress Before It Escalates: Check in with yourself and your partner regularly.
    3. Revisit Expectations During the Holidays: Be flexible and adapt plans as needed.
    4. Solve the Conflict in the Moment: De-escalate quickly with tactical steps like acknowledging emotions and setting boundaries.
    5. Reconnect and Rebuild: Schedule intentional alone time to repair and strengthen your bond.

    Key Takeaways:
    1. The holidays amplify relationship stressors like money, family dynamics, and unmet expectations. Recognizing these triggers can help you navigate them better.
    2. Hidden risks like unhealthy coping mechanisms and infidelity can quietly erode your relationship if left unchecked.
    3. Practical, tactical strategies can help you avoid fighting, de-escalate conflicts, and stay connected during the holiday season.

    Call to Action:

    If holiday stress is impacting your relationship, Ellen invites you to book a free Relationship Reset Call to brainstorm solutions and reconnect with your partner. Visit her calendar link below to schedule.

    Closing Thoughts:

    The holidays don’t have to be perfect to be meaningful. What matters most is how you handle the inevitable stress—with attentiveness, intention, and honor. Remember, you chose each other for a reason, and even in tough moments, there’s a path forward to repair and connection.


    Support & Resources:

    Ellen invites listeners to share their thoughts, either in the P3 Insider's Community or directly with her via email. For personalized guidance on a specific situation, set up a time for a free Relationship Reset Call via her calendar link.

    All links can be found below.

    "Until next time, remember, 'What I want most in the world is for you to Make More Love in Your Life and with Your Wife.'" - Ellen Dorian


    Disclaimer:

    The Make More Love show is for information and entertainment purposes only. It is not a substitute for the guidance of a qualified mental health or medical professional.




    

    Make More Love Show Website:

    www.makemorelove.show

    Parent Company - The Passionate Partners Project:

    www.passionatepartnersproject.com

    Join Our Passionate Partners Insider Community:

    https://www.facebook.com/groups/682764239165105

    Contact Me Directly:

    Email: [email protected]

    Or direct message me via social media:

    Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/ellen.dorian.7/

    LinkedIn:    https://www.linkedin.com/in/ellendorian/

    Take the free Relationship Dynamics Quiz:

    http://makemorelove.show/quiz

    Set up a Free Relationship Reset Call with me:

    http://relationshipresetcall.com


    18 min
  • 31: How to Handle Relationship Obligations You'd Rather Skip

    Do you dread holiday gatherings, family drama, or other obligations that test your patience? What if these dreaded moments could actually strengthen your relationship?

    In this episode, we’re exploring the relationship challenges tied to obligations—those moments when you’d rather be anywhere else but are expected to show up. We discuss why honoring these commitments matters, how avoidance strategies harm your relationship, and ways to turn these dreaded events into opportunities for deeper connection. This episode is your guide to building a stronger, more passionate partnership.

    Part 1: The Real Cost of Avoiding Obligations

    • Discover the three common avoidance strategies: "The Hard Pass," "The Silent Protest," and "Blowing the Escape Hatch."
    • Understand how these approaches erode Stability, Belonging, and Affinity in your relationship.

    Part 2: The Relationship Hierarchy of Needs

    • A refresher on the five stages of the hierarchy: Vitality, Stability, Belonging, Affinity, and Passion.
    • Learn how repeated hits to these layers affect emotional, mental, and physical well-being.

    Part 3: Turning Obligations into Opportunities

    • Explore practical strategies like assessing joy vs. pain, collaborative planning, setting boundaries, and finding creative ways to make obligations more enjoyable.
    • Hear real-life examples, including how one couple transformed a chaotic Thanksgiving into their best family gathering in years.

    Key Takeaways:
    1. Time and Presence are the most valuable currencies in a relationship—invest them wisely.
    2. Avoidance harms your relationship foundation, impacting trust, connection, and emotional health.
    3. With intention and creativity, obligations can become opportunities to build trust and deepen connection.

    Call to Action:

    Feeling stuck in your relationship? Book a free Relationship Reset Call at relationshipresetcall.com to gain clarity and start making meaningful changes today.

    Closing Thoughts:

    The way you handle obligations is a reflection of how you’ll handle life’s toughest challenges. Use these moments to show up for your partner, build trust, and prove that you’ve got each other’s backs. Together, you can turn even the most dreaded events into a foundation for a stronger, more passionate partnership.

    Support & Resources:

    Ellen invites listeners to share their thoughts, either in the P3 Insider's Community or directly with her via email. Or, for one on one brainstorming on a specific situation, listeners can set up a time on Ellen's Calendar for a free Relationship Reset Call.

    All links can be found below.

    "Until next time, remember, 'What I want most in the world is for you to Make More Love in Your Life and with Your Wife.'" - Ellen Dorian
    Disclaimer:

    The Make More Love show is for information and entertainment purposes only. It is not a substitute for the guidance of a qualified mental health or medical professional.


    

    Make More Love Show Website:

    www.makemorelove.show

    Parent Company - The Passionate Partners Project:

    www.passionatepartnersproject.com

    Join Our Passionate Partners Insider Community:

    https://www.facebook.com/groups/682764239165105

    Contact Me Directly:

    Email: [email protected]

    Or direct message me via social media:

    Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/ellen.dorian.7/

    LinkedIn:    https://www.linkedin.com/in/ellendorian/

    Take the free Relationship Dynamics Quiz:

    http://makemorelove.show/quiz

    Set up a Free Relationship Reset Call with me:

    http://relationshipresetcall.com


    19 min
  • 30: Compartmentalizing Your Life is Hurting Your Relationship – Here’s the Fix

    In this episode of "Make More Love," host Ellen Dorian challenges the traditional notion of work-life balance and the disadvantages of compartmentalization, advocating instead for work-life integration. She shares five key principles to help entrepreneurial men harmonize their business ambitions with personal relationships, ensuring a fulfilling life both at work and at home.

    Part 1: Rethinking Work-Life Balance

    Ellen critiques the outdated concept of work-life balance, highlighting its inefficiencies and the unrealistic separation of work and personal life. She introduces the idea of work-life integration as a more cohesive approach.

    Part 2: Five Principles of Work-Life Integration

    Ellen outlines five principles: designing your world to fit your needs, embracing authenticity, avoiding the work-life triangle, practicing intentional presence, and leveraging business skills in personal relationships. She shares personal anecdotes and practical examples to illustrate these concepts.

    Part 3: Tips for Implementing Change

    Ellen provides actionable steps for listeners to begin integrating these principles into their lives. She emphasizes starting slow, setting micro goals, and seeking support to ensure sustainable progress.

    Key Takeaways:

    - Work-life balance is not a useful concept. Integration offers a more effective approach for business owners.

    - Compartmentalization and multitasking interfere with authenticity and presence.

    - There are 5 principles one can apply in small, manageable steps that, along with expert support, will result in a more integrated, authentic approach to relationships and life in general.

    Call to Action:

    Listeners are encouraged to join the Passionate Partners Insider community, explore resources on the website, and book a free Relationship Reset Call with Ellen for personalized guidance.


    Closing Thoughts:

    Ellen emphasizes the importance of aligning business and personal goals to create a harmonious and rewarding life. She invites listeners to reflect on their current approach and consider the benefits of work-life integration.

    Support & Resources:

    Ellen invites listeners to share their thoughts, either in the P3 Insider's Community or directly with her via email. Or, for one on one brainstorming on a specific situation, listeners can set up a time on Ellen's Calendar for a free Relationship Reset Call.

    All links can be found below.


    "Until next time, remember, 'What I want most in the world is for you to Make More Love in Your Life and with Your Wife.'" - Ellen Dorian
    Disclaimer:

    The Make More Love show is for information and entertainment purposes only. It is not a substitute for the guidance of a qualified mental health or medical professional.


    

    Make More Love Show Website:

    www.makemorelove.show

    Parent Company - The Passionate Partners Project:

    www.passionatepartnersproject.com

    Join Our Passionate Partners Insider Community:

    https://www.facebook.com/groups/682764239165105

    Contact Me Directly:

    Email: [email protected]

    Or direct message me via social media:

    Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/ellen.dorian.7/

    LinkedIn:    https://www.linkedin.com/in/ellendorian/

    Take the free Relationship Dynamics Quiz:

    http://makemorelove.show/quiz

    Set up a Free Relationship Reset Call with me:

    http://relationshipresetcall.com


    17 min
  • 29: Ask Your Doctor If You're Healthy Enough: The Role of Personal Vitality in Your Relationship

    In this episode of "Make More Love," host Ellen Dorian explores the critical topic of vitality for entrepreneurial men. She discusses the impact of vitality on relationships and business success, offering practical advice to enhance physical and mental health. Ellen shares a client's journey to reclaim vitality and provides actionable steps for listeners to improve their well-being.

    Part 1: Understanding Vitality

    Ellen introduces the concept of vitality, emphasizing its importance for physical and mental health. She outlines common challenges faced by male business owners, such as stress, sleep issues, and unhealthy habits, which can hinder vitality.

    Part 2: A Client's Journey

    Ellen shares the story of her client, DB, who struggled with vitality after starting his own business. She details the phased approach used to help DB regain his health, including establishing daily routines, consulting with a doctor, and incorporating enjoyable physical activities.

    Part 3: Practical Steps and Health Checks

    Ellen provides listeners with simple daily routines to boost energy and improve health. She also highlights essential health checks for men over 40, stressing the importance of early detection and management of potential health issues.

    Key Takeaways:
    1. Vitality is Everything – It’s the key to fully showing up in life, not just about physical health but about having the energy and resilience that let you play full out.
    2. Small Habits Add Up – Vitality is a long-term investment, like building a business. Small, consistent habits make the biggest impact over time.
    3. Health Fuels Connection – You can’t have a world-class relationship if you’re not healthy enough to engage. Prioritize self-care, and watch the ripple effect bring renewed passion and a deeper connection.

    Call to Action:

    Listeners are encouraged to join the Passionate Partners Insider Community on Facebook, explore resources on the website, and book a free Relationship Reset Call with Ellen for personalized support.

    Closing Thoughts:

    Ellen emphasizes the importance of paying attention to your physical and mental health, reiterating that it only takes small, consistent actions and attention to a few key health checks to set you up for a long life full of vitality and passionate energy.

    Support & Resources:

    Ellen invites listeners to share their thoughts, either in the P3 Insider's Community or directly with her via email ([email protected]). Or, for one on one brainstorming on a specific situation, listeners can set up a time on Ellen's Calendar for a free Relationship Reset Call at relationshipresetcall.com

    All links can be found below.

    "Until next time, remember, 'What I want most in the world is for you to Make More Love in Your Life and with Your Wife.'" - Ellen Dorian
    Disclaimer:

    The Make More Love show is for information and entertainment purposes only. It is not a substitute for the guidance of a qualified mental health or medical professional.


    

    Make More Love Show Website:

    www.makemorelove.show

    Parent Company - The Passionate Partners Project:

    www.passionatepartnersproject.com

    Join Our Passionate Partners Insider Community:

    https://www.facebook.com/groups/682764239165105

    Contact Me Directly:

    Email: [email protected]

    Or direct message me via social media:

    Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/ellen.dorian.7/

    LinkedIn:    https://www.linkedin.com/in/ellendorian/

    Take the free Relationship Dynamics Quiz:

    http://makemorelove.show/quiz

    Set up a Free Relationship Reset Call with me:

    http://relationshipresetcall.com


    22 min
  • 28: You've Tried Everything: Why Your Relationship Fixes Haven't Worked

    In this episode of "Make More Love," host Ellen Dorian explores the challenges entrepreneurial men face in balancing business success with maintaining a passionate and fulfilling relationship. Ellen discusses the common pitfalls of trying to reignite intimacy and offers actionable strategies to overcome these obstacles. She emphasizes the importance of understanding love languages and aligning efforts with genuine motivations to foster deeper connections.

    Part 1: The "Trying Everything" Trap

    Ellen introduces the concept of the "trying everything" trap, where individuals exhaust traditional methods to revive intimacy without success. She outlines four common ways people get stuck: endless problem diagnosis, jumping to solutions without understanding the root issue, acting on personal comfort rather than partner needs, and being driven by expected outcomes rather than genuine connection.

    Part 2: Understanding Love Languages

    Ellen provides a primer on the five love languages, explaining how they can transform relationship dynamics. She highlights the importance of identifying both giving and receiving love languages for oneself and one's partner to ensure efforts are meaningful and effective.

    Part 3: Actionable Steps for Connection

    Ellen shares practical steps to enhance relationship intimacy, including knowing your and your partner's love languages, identifying gaps in communication, and consistently practicing love languages. She offers creative ideas for each love language to inspire listeners to try new approaches in their relationships.


    Key Takeaways:

    1. Avoid endless diagnosing AND Ready Fire Aim Solutions

    2. Don't be afraid to move out of your comfort zone. Your partner's comfort zone is a more productive place to operate from.

    3. Love Languages are a strong way to find the right things instead of doing everything.

    Call to Action:

    Join the Passionate Partners Insider Community on Facebook for exclusive content, visit the website for more resources, or book a free Relationship Reset Call with Ellen for personalized guidance.


    Closing Thoughts:

    Ellen encourages listeners to reconnect with the reasons they chose their partner and to explore new ways to enhance their relationship. She emphasizes the transformative power of understanding and practicing love languages.

    Support & Resources:

    Ellen invites listeners to share their thoughts, either in the P3 Insider's Community or directly with her via email. Or, for one on one brainstorming on a specific situation, listeners can set up a time on Ellen's Calendar for a free Relationship Reset Call.

    All links can be found below.

    Episodes That Can Help With Today's Topic:

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    "Until next time, remember, 'What I want most in the world is for you to Make More Love in Your Life and with Your Wife.'" - Ellen Dorian
    Disclaimer:

    The Make More Love show is for information and entertainment purposes only. It is not a substitute for the guidance of a qualified mental health or medical professional.


    

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    www.makemorelove.show

    Parent Company - The Passionate Partners Project:

    www.passionatepartnersproject.com

    Join Our Passionate Partners Insider Community:

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    Contact Me Directly:

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    20 min
  • 27: Is Your Relationship Worth Saving?

    In this episode of "Make More Love," host Ellen Dorian revisits a foundational discussion on why men choose to settle down and the motivations for staying committed in relationships, even when faced with challenges. Ellen introduces the concept of the "relationship drive matrix" to help listeners understand their relationship dynamics and offers a three-step strategy to address feelings of being unappreciated.

    Part 1: Introduction and Revisiting a Key Episode

    Ellen opens the episode by sharing her recent experience with dental surgery and her decision to revisit one of her favorite early episodes. She discusses the reasons men choose long-term relationships and the importance of staying committed when challenges arise.

    Part 2: The Relationship Drive Matrix

    Ellen introduces the "relationship drive matrix," a tool to help listeners visualize their relationship dynamics. She explains the four quadrants: sadness and loneliness, connection without joy, seeking joy beyond the relationship, and ideal joy and connection.

    Part 3: Strategies for Rebuilding Connection

    Ellen outlines a three-step strategy to address feelings of being unappreciated: assessing personal energy in the relationship, focusing on appreciation for the partner, and taking meaningful actions to create connection. She emphasizes the power of personal growth and the importance of individual initiative in improving relationships.

    Key Takeaways:

    1. Men often seek committed relationships for reasons like sexual fulfillment, intimacy, companionship, meaning, and legacy.

    2. A strong relationship begins with personal growth and reflection on one's role.

    3. Individuals hold the power to create change through intentional actions, without waiting for their partner to act.TBD

    Call to Action:

    Ellen encourages listeners to join the Passionate Partners Insider community on Facebook, visit the website for more resources, and book a free Relationship Reset Call for personalized support.

    Closing Thoughts:

    Ellen reminds listeners of the importance of reconnecting with the reasons for choosing their partner and discovering new ways to enhance their relationship.

    Support & Resources:

    Ellen invites listeners to share their thoughts, either in the P3 Insider's Community or directly with her via email. Or, for one on one brainstorming on a specific situation, listeners can set up a time on Ellen's Calendar for a free Relationship Reset Call.

    All links can be found below.

    "Until next time, remember, 'What I want most in the world is for you to Make More Love in Your Life and with Your Wife.'" - Ellen Dorian
    Disclaimer:

    The Make More Love show is for information and entertainment purposes only. It is not a substitute for the guidance of a qualified mental health or medical professional.


    

    Make More Love Show Website:

    www.makemorelove.show

    Parent Company - The Passionate Partners Project:

    www.passionatepartnersproject.com

    Join Our Passionate Partners Insider Community:

    https://www.facebook.com/groups/682764239165105

    Contact Me Directly:

    Email: [email protected]

    Or direct message me via social media:

    Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/ellen.dorian.7/

    LinkedIn:    https://www.linkedin.com/in/ellendorian/

    Take the free Relationship Dynamics Quiz:

    http://makemorelove.show/quiz

    Set up a Free Relationship Reset Call with me:

    http://relationshipresetcall.com


    20 min

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