On this episode, Ted and Patrick dive into Success and Failure. The conversation starts with how failure is taught to be a bad thing from an early age, yet it often leads to the most growth. Next comes risk taking, which can be scary due to finding the limit of your abilities, which can lead to someone not trying. To end the episode, Ted shares the success and failures of his career, what he learned from each failure, how he learned from his failures to propel himself forward, and finding the thing the gives you purpose. Enjoy!
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Timestamps:
00:00 - Intro
01:19 - Failure is a good teacher
02:47 - Go out and do interesting/hard things
03:58 - 2 kinds of failure
06:28 - No risk, no story
07:10 - Patrick’s experience not trying
08:56 - There’s a limit somewhere
10:00 - Imposter syndrome
12:43 - We’re programmed to be risk averse, but we have so many fewer risks now
15:38 - Life is not school, failure is ok
17:33 - Ted and Pat are real people with real experiences
19:25 - Statsbomb
20:14 - Ted’s history of success - starting as an athlete
21:27 - College and learning how to try
22:05 - Dropping out of graduate school
22:31 - The meandering path of Ted’s career
23:36 - Success at age 25, but not happiness
24:33 - Magic the gathering and sports betting
25:54 - Getting into football and winning a title
27:04 - Founding Statsbomb and gaining financial independence
28:47 - The failures along the way - a boring job with a horrible boss
29:42 - The .com crash and delivering pizza
30:12 - Editing starcitygames and then Magic
30:54 - quitting/getting fired
31:48 - Getting into sports betting with no training
32:56 - How did these choices feel to you at the time?
33:55 - Accepting interesting opportunities
34:37 - Knowing you have value so the failures don’t question your self-worth
36:28 - Divorce when young
37:27 - Rebuilding pinnacle + losing $63K on the day 1
38:36 - Learning to be successful at sports betting
39:29 - Was the stress addicting
40:33 - Nearly getting fired in 2010
42:25 - Not letting it stop his career
43:27 - When did you realize your political naivety?
44:55 - Choosing to spend more time with children
45:59 - The football side of things + getting fired for job hunting
47:07 - Starting statsbomb due cancer
47:59 - Great timing
49:05 - Great people in history have failures that lead to success
50:25 - Larry Miller and spending no time with family
52:30 - The stress of the last 2 years of Statsbomb
53:43 - The crowning moment of your career and everything is falling apart
55:13 - Acknowledging the good
57:20 - The biggest thing people look back on
58:14 - This conversation wouldn’t be happening without Statsbomb
59:00 - New projects to keep yourself occupied
59:42 - Writing, video games, and finding meaning in something
01:00:40 - Pat’s time at Football Daily
01:01:41 - Finding YOUR OWN definition of success
01:02:40 - Learn to love the work
01:03:57 - Not just the work, but other things in life
01:05:57 - Embrace failure, learn to feel better and find meaning in life
01:07:53 - It’s a marathon not a sprint
01:09:32 - Volunteer to having your dating profile reviewed by an EXPERT
