00:30 – Background. Understanding backgrounds, temperament, dealing with conflict, and communication challenges.
05:38 – Forgiveness. Learning to apologize. Honor one another in speech, healthy communication. Practical steps to grow in unity – finances, soclalmedia accounts, vacations.
11:39 – Regular personal practices, e.g. pray as acouple, weekly date nights, have fun together.
15:38 – Importance of having a mentor couple in life. Help marriage through different seasons oflife.
22:31 – Experience with mentoring couples. Usually meet for six sessions. Unforgiveness is often an issue. Use personality and love language tests.
29:55 – Dealing with addictions. Addictions as symptoms of deeper issues. Couples seeking help earlier in marriage.
34:41 – Changes seen in mentoring in past 20 years.
36:45 – Began marriage work through marriage small group. Used DVD based courses. Gain pastor’s support.
41:07 – Process for starting active marriage ministry – prayer, talk with pastor, do something. Not hard starting marriage ministry in church.
45:25 – Date nights. Small groups. Speakers. Bigger events.
52:05 – Proper attitude when starting marriageministry. Prayer. Develop a team.
58:43 – Resources they like. Constantly learn.
1:02:21 – How to seek personal help for one’s marriage.
1:04:01 – Contact information.