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Do you or your partner suffer from erectile dysfunction? Is your sex life dwindling or non-existent and you're not sure why? Does your partner struggle with massive shifts in circadian rhythm, take sleeping aides, use alcohol or marijuana before bed? Dr. Elliot Justin, a leading sextech expert and medical doctor talks about the FirmTech cock ring he has created and sold over 12,000 of and how it's helped save sex lives, save actual lives, snuff out medical problems associated with erections, and improve sex lives of many over the last few years.

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Email for Dr. Justin: [email protected]

Chapters for episode:

0:00 Intro and Creation of Sextech Products

2:24 The Importance of Nocturnal Erections for Cardiovascular Health

5:12 The Health Benefits of Regular Sex

10:29 Addressing Common Issues in Sexual Health

25:39 Using Data to Optimize Sexual Health

31:49 Navigating Andropause and Hormonal Imbalances

38:01 Consultation and Conclusion

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Contemplating divorce? Wondering what a life of reconciliation would be like? Want to chat with a couple who was divorced over 3 years and then reconciled? Sherman and Semise Daley are your go to couple for just that. After being married, divorcing and then remarrying, Sherman and Semise talk all about the lessons they've learned, what they would've told themselves before they got divorced, and how they now teach other couples how to build exceptional marriages.

To Contact Sherman & Semise:

website: Redeem Your Marriage (restoredmarriages.com)

To Contact Kameran:

website: www.recognizingpotential.com

IG, FB, TikTok: @divorce.proof.marriage

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WOW! I have never been blown away by a guest like I was by the coaching and information Dr. Andrea Vitz provided during this episode. As a hurt healer and an emotional insobriety coach, Dr. Andrea Vitz and I sit down to talk all about how your arguments, behavior, choices, attraction, chemistry and how it all shows up in your marriage and other relationships comes back to your emotional insobriety. I will also say, I've never signed up for a coaching course as quickly as I signed up to heal my own emotional insobriety within one hour after this interview ended and I have a code for you to do the same!

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Kameran's info:

Website: www.recognizingpotential.com

Email: [email protected]

Facebook: www.facebook.com/divorce.proof.marriage

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Kameran's info:

Website: www.recognizingpotential.com

Email: [email protected]

Facebook: www.facebook.com/divorce.proof.marriage

Instagram: www.instagram.com/divorce.proof.marriage

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Kameran's info:

Website: www.recognizingpotential.com

Email: [email protected]

Facebook: www.facebook.com/divorce.proof.marriage

Instagram: www.instagram.com/divorce.proof.marriage

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Kameran's info:

Website: www.recognizingpotential.com

Email: [email protected]

Facebook: www.facebook.com/divorce.proof.marriage

IG: www.instagram.com/divorce.proof.marriage

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Oohhhh y'all. Get your notebooks and pens ready! This hour long episode is jam packed with the absolute BEST nuggets around overcoming people pleasing, why you fall into the trap of people pleasing and how to stop requiring your partner to make you happy and how to make yourself happy instead! We dive into how to make your relationship happier by owning your own happiness.

Christy Holt is a self-proclaimed Happiness Hussy, adventure guide, podcast host (Create Your Happy, inspiration for conscious women, available wherever you listen to podcasts) and international best-selling author (Unstuck For Women, Run For Your Life and others available on Amazon) on a mission to spread happiness around the planet. Christy is a mentor for whole-ass humans — using her signature CREATE method, she adventures along side of her heart led clients to support and love them as they discover and unlearn. Christy’s mentorship helps her clients to create a life they love full of loving and healthy relationships that make them truly f*cking happy!

Chapters:

0:00 Intro of Christy Holt and the Topic of Happiness

8:27 Recognizing Wholeness and Creating Safety

29:35 Self-Discovery and Regulating the Nervous System for Happiness

37:01 Breaking Free from People Pleasing and Trauma Responses

Christy's info: Website: www.coachchristyholt.comPodcast http://www.createyourhappy.caFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/coachchristyholtFind your f*cking ZEN in under 5 minutes! Check out these unique, no-BS meditations that are as fun as they are effective. Tap into your inner calm today! #SwearyMeditation #ZenAF https://bit.ly/swearyzen

Kameran's info:

Website: www.recognizingpotential.com

Email: [email protected]

Facebook: www.facebook.com/divorce.proof.marriage

Instagram: www.instagram.com/divorce.proof.marriage

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In this episode, we are going to break down the importance of maintaining or regaining your individuality while also balancing togetherness. What does that mean? What's it look like and why is it important? Fostering individuality is going to not only keep your own cup full, it's going to keep you interesting and attractive to your spouse. Meanwhile, creating a culture of togetherness is going to keep your relationship strong, growing and prioritized. How do you balance the two? There are 10 factors to consider. I break down all 10 in detail and explain why each are important. Of course, there are personal details along the way and as you and I are sitting together drinking coffee and chatting it up.

Chapters:

0:00 Intro and Listener Topic

6:05 Embracing Differences

13:52 Pursuing Personal Hobbies and Interests

30:55 Prioritizing Self-Care and Open Communication

37:25 Taking Care of Your Nervous System

45:13 Establishing Shared Goals and Values

To Contact Kameran:

Email: [email protected]

Website: www.recognizingpotential.com

Facebook, TikTok and Instagram: @divorce.proof.marriage

To financially support the podcast and other content creation: Venmo- @Kameran-Thompson

Cashapp: $KameranThompson

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This episode features answers to questions that followers and podcast listeners have sent in.

The first question is basically asking if validation feels fake instead of calming and connecting, how do you approach validating your partner (who is most likely avoidant)?

The second question asks if marriage is "just a piece of paper" and how to avoid divorce if you're engaged but terrified of the possibility.

The third question is from a man asking if he should stay in his marriage or leave as he and his wife have a lot of trauma from the past and keep hurting each other.

Chapters:

0:00 Intro and Appreciation for listeners

15:32 Marriage is more than just a piece of paper

38:52 The continuous effort and growth in marriage

Contact Kameran:

Email: [email protected]

Website: www.recognizingpotential.com

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Warning. Today's episode may be quite convicting. Emotional safety is a foundational element to having a connected, trusting, fulfilling relationship! Sadly, we are seeing less and less connection with parents and their kids, adults and their friends, and even more so with couples as the divorce rate has risen to 54% post pandemic. Emotional safety is just as important as physical safety and is one of the most important elements to have in order to become your best self just after having your physiological needs met (food, water, sleep, breathing, homeostasis).

If you don't feel emotionally safe in your marriage after you listen to this podcast, share it with your spouse. Have a conversation around what this looks like for you, about the experience they are creating for you and if you need help learning how to create more safety in your relationship, email me at [email protected]

Chapters:

0:00 Introduction and Overview

5:17 The Importance of Safety In Relationships

12:03 Building Emotional Support and Trust

25:29 The Role of Men in Establishing Safety

32:59 The Connection Between Safety and Intimacy

39:49 Practical Tips for Building Safety in a Relationship

48:22 Conclusion and Call to Action

If you found this episode helpful, please review, share and tag me on socials- IG, FB and TikTok are all @divorce.proof.marriage

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In today's conversation, Karen and I talk about her experience with marriage and talking about money, how she became a coach for couples on how to get on the same financial page as your spouse, how to budget and what her top tips for talking about money without arguing are. Money is a hot topic for many married couples and I hope that today's episode alleviates some of the stress and embarrassment that comes with those conversations.

Karen and I also talk about her experiences living in Bermuda and Kenya with her family, and what it's like being from the UK economically speaking.

If you'd like to take advantage of Karen's coaching and discounts, please go to:

Download my FREE eBook ‘How To Get On The Same Financial Page As Your Spouse’. It’s got practical tips on how you can…well, get on the same financial page!

Here’s the link: 

https://moneyandmarriage.myflodesk.com/free-ebook

You can also reach out to me via: 

IG: https://www.instagram.com/moneyandmarriage2/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100071119311431

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/moneyandmarriage/

And via my website: www.moneyandmarriage.net

Here’s the link to the super, simple Excel spreadsheet: 

https://moneyandmarriage.myflodesk.com/budget-excel

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In this episode, I talk about a new course that I've just launched on learning to manage emotions, notice, name and share them and how to get signed up for that.

The meat and potatoes of the episode is all about the three things your marriage needs to thrive according to Dr. John Gottman and his many years of research on the subject. I break down those three into the visual of a house consisting of trust, commitment and friendship. I talk about how to build all three and how you may be damaging them consciously or unconsciously.

Individual topics talked about on this episode are:

Accepting your partner's influence, building and losing trust, treating your partner as your friend, consistency in relationships, seeing your partner in a positive light versus focusing on the negative light, avoidant behavior with emotions and pulling away in a relationship, setting boundaries, the value of trust, and letting your partner into your world. I recap stories of real life examples from coaching clients as well as my own relationship with my ex-husband and what went wrong in our marriage.

Don't forget to leave a review and follow me on IG or FB @divorce.proof.marriage

If you would like to collaborate, sign up for coaching or become a sponsor of the podcast, please email Kameran at [email protected]

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Susana Demore is my guest on this week's episode. She and I sit down to talk all about her diagnosis with breast cancer, her treatment and the specific ways that her husband truly lived out the vows "in sickness and in health". Susana and I talk about the habits that were created in that time after her diagnosis, after her treatment and after she heard the words "cancer free". What was next? How did all of the stress of that journey, moving from Dubai to the US, having a toddler and life in general take a toll on her marriage. We talk about the supplements she started taking so that she and her husband could get back to being like teenagers in the bedroom. If you are ready to be like teenagers as well, connect with myself or Susana Demore!

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Susana's links: www.linktr.ee/susanademoreand www.thrivewithsusana.com

Find her on IG and TikTok @onehealedmama

To connect with Kameran:

www.recognizingpotential.com

IG, TikTok & FB @divorce.proof.marriage

email: [email protected]

To donate financially to the podcast: Venmo: @Kameran-Thompson

Cashapp: $KameranThompson

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