Me in the Making Podcast

What happens when your dream business collapses right in the middle of a global crisis, and you have to rebuild your life from scratch?

Watch the episode here: https://youtu.be/RBGd_UN_CO8

I talk with my guest keekee west about surviving career pivots, letting go of rigid plans, and embracing unexpected life transitions. She opens up about mounting business challenges during the pandemic and making the painful choice to step away from her business to move to a city where she swore she would never live. keekee discovers a powerful village of support and her story shows that closing one chapter often opens the door to something far greater.

If you're going through a transition, this episode will encourage you that you are never starting from scratch, but you're starting from experience.

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I've got a announcement everyone, and it's bittersweet. This isn't goodbye, this is see you later. (And this season isn't over yet, so stay tuned!)

Watch the full episode here: https://youtu.be/TGdDLL-avS4

After 4 seasons and 4 years of deep conversations, introspection, and personal growth, I share why I've made a peace-filled decision to close this chapter and step into what comes next. I walk through why sticking to a narrow focus helped me launch Me in the Making, why I'm ready to shed creative rigidity, and how to know when you've outgrown your current space.

If you are currently evaluating your own life goals, managing a major transition, or seeking inspiration on how to move into your next chapter, this is a great episode!

New here? Check out seasons 1-3 in this feed for audio, and watch season 3 on my YouTube channel. If you've been here and a subscriber, thank you for sticking with me! It means so much to me and I hope we can connect this season.

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You can let life's hardest moments paralyze you, or you can use them as momentum to bounce back higher than ever before.

Watch the full episode here: https://youtu.be/Of5U1bY_RWQ

Join my guest Del Smith, award-winning host of the Bounce Back, Black Woman podcast and author of Ruthless Intentionality, and me as we discuss what it means to rebuild your life with courage, clarity, and purpose. After some pivotal moments like walking through a difficult childhood*, losing the love of her life five months into marriage, and surviving COVID-19, and more, Del realized the one thing life can never take away is your choice in how you respond.

This episode is packed with deep reflections, warmth, and actionable advice, and can be a guide for anyone seeking clarity, empowerment, and courage during times of change.

*Note: Content warning for talk about domestic violence.

Follow Del Smith

• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bouncebackblackwoman/
• Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@bouncebackblackwoman
• LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/delphinesmith/
• Website to purchase Ruthless Intentionality: https://www.coachdel.com
• Podcast Page: https://www.bouncebackblackwoman.com

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What if the single biggest source of friction in your dating life is the app on your phone?

Watch the episode here: https://youtu.be/1xtsu5A__9A

Y'all, it was time for me to break up with online dating. I unpack my 180-degree perspective shift on online dating and mental wellness in this solo episode. I talk about my transition to being completely offline, how it's transforming my daily headspace, and why quitting dating apps actually isn't as scary as you might think.

New here? Check out seasons 1-3 in this feed for audio, and watch season 3 on my YouTube channel. If you've been here and a subscriber, thank you for sticking with me! It means so much to me and I hope we can connect this season.

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What does it truly take to redefine your life when the career you've known for 20 years no longer serves you? My guest, Bless Roxxwell, shares her extraordinary evolution from a 90s hip-hop artist to an NYU-trained Licensed Mental Health Counselor and Reiki practitioner.

Watch the episode here: https://youtu.be/MRSqWBy5TnQ

Bless breaks down the turning points that shaped her path, including a sudden spiritual awakening and the sacrifice required to build a fulfilling life. She candidly shares what it felt like to be diagnosed with AuDHD in her 40s, how it ended decades of self-doubt, and details her course, How to Radically Soften: A Liberation Practice, was created to help women heal intergenerational trauma and embrace peace.

Whether you are navigating a major life pivot, exploring spiritual growth, or seeking grace in your neurodivergent journey, this episode offers a grounded roadmap for becoming your most authentic self.

Connect with Bless:

• Spill
• LinkedIn
• Website
• Counseling in New York

New here? Check out seasons 1-3 in this feed for audio, and watch season 3 on my YouTube channel. If you've been here and a subscriber, thank you for sticking with me! It means so much to me and I hope we can connect this season.

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Why is it so easy to crush a 30-day fitness or productivity challenge, but nearly impossible to keep those habits going once it's over? What happens when your discipline falls through?

Watch the video episode here: https://youtu.be/VH5Q9ITjMuM

If you thrive under the pressure of a timed challenge but struggle to maintain those habits in everyday life like I do, this episode is for you. I talk through the friction between short-term goals and long-term habit forming, sharing my candid journey with morning routines, bedtime boundaries, and self-accountability.

I break down the subtle traps of late-night phone scrolling, self-rationalization, and how to find the balance between giving yourself grace and calling out laziness. Listen, I'm talking to myself as much as I'm talking to you!

New here? Check out seasons 1-3 in this feed for audio, and watch season 3 on my YouTube channel. If you've been here and a subscriber, thank you for sticking with me! It means so much to me and I hope we can connect this season.

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What do you do when the brand you built no longer fits the person you've become?

Watch the video episode here: https://youtu.be/Nzd5rhD_x6M

My guest, Mikita Smith, host of Beautifully Unbalanced podcast, to reveal how she overcame fear and anxiety to completely rebrand her show. We explore the emotional and practical sides of personal transformation. If you're navigating a life shift, this episode will give you the tools and mindset needed to embrace your own pivot with confidence.

Follow Mikita here:

• Beautifully Unbalanced.com
• Mikita Smith Instagram
• Mikita Smith Facebook

New here? Check out seasons 1-3 in this feed for audio, and watch season 3 on my YouTube channel. If you've been here and a subscriber, thank you for sticking with me! It means so much to me and I hope we can connect this season.

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If you have ever felt like your job is swallowing your creative dreams my guest is here to remind you, you don't have to choose between financial stability and your passion.

Watch the video episode here: https://youtu.be/D3P30ukC_Fg

Kehinde Winful, author of Flooding the River and practicing litigator, and I discuss the mindset shifts required to write a book while maintaining a professional career. We unpack the power of small daily habits, overcoming the imposter syndrome around self-promotion, and Kehinde shares her love of handwriting her stories. If you want to cultivate a growth mindset and integrate art into your everyday schedule, this episode offers practical wisdom and deep encouragement.

Follow Kehinde:

• https://www.instagram.com/kenyoureads/
• https://kenyoureads.substack.com/
• Buy Flooding the River on Itasca Books
• Buy Flooding the River on Amazon

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What would it cost you to fully be yourself unapologetically, without hiding behind AI?

Watch the video episode here: https://youtu.be/LefIowmxAZ0

I explore the personal and social costs of relying on generative AI in this solo episode. I make a case that we should actively avoid AI in creative and personal spaces so we can protect human connection and creative autonomy.

I get into why leaning into the "cringe" of being fully yourself is far more valuable than leaning into who you think you should be. I talk about how choosing creative authenticity over automated output can build your confidence, protect genuine collaboration, and grow real connection in your everyday life.

New here? Check out seasons 1-3 in this feed for audio, and watch season 3 on my YouTube channel. If you've been here and a subscriber, thank you for sticking with me! It means so much to me and I hope we can connect this season.

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Fun news!! Me in the Making podcast is in the running for a nomination for a 2026 Black Podcasting Award in the Best Episode of the Year category! I need your help. Please cast your vote for Me in the Making on of before Monday, 9/7/2026.

Vote here: http://blackpod.awardsplatform.com/

The steps are simple! Create an account, click on 2026 Public Voting Booth, select the Best Episode of the Year category, scroll down and vote for Me in the Making. You can only vote once per category, so please make it count. Your vote will be counted immediately when you click on the heart icon.

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