Meditations for mortals by Oliver Burkeman

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Reflecting on ideas drawn from philosophy, religion, literature, psychology, and self-help, Burkeman explores practical tools and shifts in perspective. The result is a bracing challenge to much familiar advice, and a profound yet entertaining crash course in living more fully.

Meditations for Mortals takes us on a liberating journey towards a more meaningful life – one that begins not with fantasies of the ideal existence, but with the reality in which we actually find ourselves.Addressing the fundamental questions about how to live, it offers a powerful new way to take action on what counts: a guiding philosophy of life Oliver Burkeman calls ‘imperfectionism’.To be read either as a four-week ‘retreat of the mind’ or devoured in one or two sittings, Meditations for Mortals will be a source of solace and inspiration, and an aid to a saner, freer, and more enchantment-filled life in 2025.

Here are some key lessons from the book:

* Embrace Imperfection: Accept that life is inherently imperfect and unpredictable. Striving for perfection can lead to unnecessary stress and dissatisfaction.

* Limitless Tasks vs. Limited Time: Recognize that the array of tasks and opportunities before us is infinite, but our time is finite. Prioritize what truly matters instead of attempting to do everything.

* Redefine Productivity: Shift focus from hyper-productivity to meaningful engagement. It’s not about doing more in less time but doing what aligns with your values and brings satisfaction.

* Accept Uncertainty: Life’s unpredictability is not a problem to be solved but a reality to be embraced. This acceptance can lead to a more fulfilling and less anxious existence.

* Set Boundaries: Establish clear boundaries to manage your time and energy effectively. This involves saying no to non-essential tasks and focusing on what truly matters.

* Practice ‘Imperfectionism’: Let go of the pursuit of perfection. Embracing ‘imperfectionism’ can reduce anxiety and open up space for creativity and genuine progress.

* Focus on the Present: Concentrate on the current moment rather than being preoccupied with future outcomes. This mindfulness can enhance the quality of your experiences and decisions.

* Reevaluate Success: Redefine what success means to you. Instead of external achievements, consider internal fulfillment and alignment with personal values as true indicators of success.

* Let Go of Total Control: Understand that not everything is within your control. Accepting this can lead to a more relaxed and open approach to life’s challenges.

* Prioritize Deep Work: Engage in activities that require deep focus and are meaningful to you. This leads to greater satisfaction and a sense of accomplishment.

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