By Benjamin Norman
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Thanks for your patience—life's been a whirlwind.
Let me dive into a recent personal journey: completing my third Spartan Ultra at Killington Mountain.
It's been a wild ride, filled with challenges and lessons.
Three years ago, my coach asked what fitness challenge inspired me, and I chose the Spartan Ultra.
Little did I know, it would lead to a deep bond with my friend Franco, as we both supported our wives through breast cancer.
This year's race was intense—cramps, early knee pain, and a fellow racer not playing by the rules.
His behavior triggered me, but I realized it was a mirror reflecting areas where I lacked honor in my own life.
A powerful lesson in self-awareness.
The race continued with strategy changes, a unique downhill running technique, and finally catching up to Franco to finish together.
It marked the end of my obstacle course racing journey.
I'm retiring to focus on spiritual mountains and guiding others through challenges.
The takeaway? Every trigger is an opportunity for self-discovery.
Look within and ask, "What is this person showing me about myself?"
"It is a sin to judge anyone by his post" - Saint Augustine
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After some time away, we're back with exciting updates. Amid shifts in our Scendancy journey, we've witnessed incredible client transformations. Our approach to sharing our message has evolved, as discussed in this podcast.
A decade ago, Spartan races ignited my warrior spirit. They mirrored my personal growth journey, replacing quitting with resilience.
Overcoming obstacles fueled my confidence, leading to personal development. Fitness became my anchor, battling demons like alcoholism, and reshaping my mindset.
Then the Realization hit: I'm solely responsible for my life.
Blame vanished, empowering me to shape reality.
Takeaway: Embrace your inner warrior, shape your destiny, and expect revelations on your growth journey.
Ever felt stuck despite efforts?
Anger won't break the cycle.
Rise above negativity, choose action over blame.
Free will is power; blaming robs it.
Embrace yourself, move forward, and change your relationship with life.
In relationships, I've seen cycles of struggle. Blaming hampers change. We control our lives more than we think.
Shifted my coaching approach to impactful workshops, offering rapid transformation. Also supporting cancer-fighting couples with free seminars.
Take charge of your life. No retreat. No surrender. This is your Spartan law.
“God bestows more consideration on the purity of the intention with which our actions are performed than on the actions themselves.” - Saint Augustine
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Join me on this insightful episode of "Message to My Kids the Podcast". In this special interview, I sit down with the remarkable couple, Steve and Kelly Leitch , who have navigated the complexities of blending families, maintaining strong connections, and nurturing their faith.
Steve and Kelly, married for nine years, share their unique journey of bringing together a blended family with six children.
Through the highs and challenges, they've cultivated a powerful connection that revolves around open conversations, understanding each other's love languages, and embracing their imperfections.
Discover the heartwarming traditions that Steve and Kelly have incorporated into their family life, from regular family meals to engaging in meaningful activities that foster deep connections. They delve into their strategies for addressing conflicts, stepping out of comfort zones, and embracing vulnerability in order to strengthen their relationship.
In this episode, you'll also hear about Steve's personal journey in endurance swimming and how it mirrors his approach to life and relationships. Kelly shares her perspective on their life together and how they support each other's growth.
Tune in to gain valuable insights into building lasting connections, facing challenges with faith, and prioritizing growth in your relationships. Whether you're part of a blended family or simply seeking inspiration for your own journey, this episode offers a wealth of wisdom and experiences to apply to your own life.
Stay connected, embrace imperfections, and remember that life's journey is a path of awakening.
“There is no love without hope, no hope without love, and neither love nor hope without faith.”
— Saint Augustine
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Embarking on this podcast episode feels like a heart-to-heart conversation, where I hope my words resonate with you on a personal level.
From the surprising vantage point of Sin City, I'm your Reverend pondering the deeper meaning of this vibrant desert oasis. It's as if every dazzling light and meticulously crafted attraction holds a secret message for us.
Beneath the surface allure of wealth, intimacy, and excitement, there lies a common yearning – a search for fulfillment and purpose. Many of us feel trapped in the darkness, concealing our struggles behind masks of having it all together. But here's the revelation: that darkness isn't our core. There's a light within us, a spark that craves something more meaningful.
This journey to embrace our true selves demands courage. It's about silencing the noise, tuning into the whispers of our inner voice, and taking that bold leap of faith.
Nature holds the key – go, sit, listen.
I'm no preacher; I'm a fellow traveler sharing insights from the heart.
Embrace that first step, and you're on your way to discovering the life you dream of, the connection you crave, and the fulfillment you deserve.
“He who has God has everything; he who has everything but God has nothing.”
— Saint Augustine
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I've been going through a rough patch lately, feeling under the weather and all. But enough about that – today, let's talk about something we've all faced: the feeling of not being good enough.
I've been there – the moments when doubt creeps in and we compare ourselves to others. Sometimes we put on a confident facade, hiding our insecurities. Other times, we let those insecurities keep us isolated, shying away from connections.
But here's the real deal: we don't have to stay in this cycle. I've been through it, and I've discovered that tapping into faith, spirituality, or a deeper purpose can transform everything. It's about shedding the masks, embracing authenticity, and finding confidence from within.
Sure, it's not an instant fix, and it takes stepping out of your comfort zones. But the journey is worth it.
Whether you decide to reach out or not, remember you're not alone in this struggle.
You have the power to change the narrative and live authentically. Stay connected, and let's journey together.
"Desire only God, and your heart will be satisfied." - Saint Augustine
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These past months, we've been diving into powerful concepts for couples – almost like a spiritual armor that enriches relationships.
It's all about embodying roles:
Men holding a shield of unconditional love, a sanctuary of unwavering support in storms of emotion. This shield empowers partners to share and connect, finding solace in the embrace of love's invincibility.
On the other side, women wield a reflective sword, intuitively mirroring their partners' hearts with a strength cultivated through spiritual growth.
Yet, this journey isn't always straightforward.
Sometimes, we're not quite ready to grasp these roles. But here's the thing: there's a path towards growth and connection.
If you're intrigued by these ideas and ready to explore, reach out – our podcast is just the beginning of an exciting conversation.
Let's dive into this journey together, discovering the transformative power of embodying love and reflection.
Thanks for joining me – can't wait to connect!
"The measure of love is to love without measuring." - Saint Augustine
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In today's episode, I wanted to share something personal. The recent podcast episodes have been shorter due to me soaking up the summer moments, just like you.
Let's talk about faith. This morning, thoughts about faith occupied my mind. Faith is believing in the unseen, embracing the promise that something remarkable awaits us. It's standing strong in uncertainty.
Imagine us chatting about the flip side of faith. If faith is trust, then doubt and darkness are its opposites. Here's the thing: faith is universal. It fuels our anticipation for the yet-to-come. It's the hope that lights up when we dream. But where we direct our faith matters. Choosing light means growth and unity, while unknowingly feeding negativity sows doubt.
Think about it:
Where's your faith going?
It's an active force, not just an idea. Your choice shapes your journey. As you go about your day, ask:
Where does my faith belong?
To dreams, love, and growth?
Or to fear, scarcity, and negativity?
"God does not expect us to submit our faith to him without reason, but the very limits of our reason make faith a necessity." - Saint Augustine.
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"Mom handles the kids."
"Mom handles their emotional outbursts"
"Mom deals with them when they're being little sh!ts"
"Go talk to your mother if you're upset."
"Go sit in your room until you calm the f#$% down."
"I can't handle you right now - leave me alone."
"I can't stand how you're acting right now."
"I don't deal with the kids - that's her job."
"I'm going to lose my f@$%ing mind right now!"
"You're so emotional - why are you so emotional all the time??"
All of these things I've said at one point in my journey as a father. This is not an exhaustive list. This is not a badge of honor either, night after night of feeling guilty that I'm not creating the relationship I want with my children. With my sons, or my daughters.
And while it might feel good to throw a pity party for yourself in your own head, continuing the way it's always been done, just because, is a path for consistent failure.
You might ignore this post - shrug it off - say "you're a good dad" - say "you're good enough" - say "I don't need someone to tell me how to be a good dad" - say - I know you will, I've done it too.
PRIDE - holds you back from facing the dark secret you harbor in your thoughts late at night…
The TRUTH.
“I’ve failed as a father.”
“I’m a fucking terrible Dad.”
“I hate seeing the pain in her eyes when I scream at her and I know I shouldn’t be.”
“I’ve created this monster, she sits in her room and doesn’t ever come out.”
“This is NOT WHAT I WANT.”
“I’m the BIGGEST F@#$ING FRAUD on the planet.”
“I put on this show like I’m a great dad, because inside I know I’m not.”
I’ve said all these things to myself in my own mind also on my journey as a father. Hell, even when I still continue to f@#% it all up I find myself saying it to myself.
But the TRUTH listed above about the things we say to ourselves alone, is not the TRUTH.
It is the LIE the DARKNESS wants us to believe.
Because as LONG AS WE BELIEVE we’re not a good father…
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When will you cease using your children as tools of emotional warfare?
It's incredible how many parents completely step over this. You know, life's full of twists and turns, and I've found some pretty eye-opening insights I want to share with you, and if you're unaware of these things, then take heed, especially if you sit inside a divided Kingdom at home right now.
Hard to believe, but only a tiny fraction of people throughout history have escaped the rat race of conflict and struggle. It's a real mess, especially in relationships, and sadly, our kids bear the brunt of it. I say, let's break this cycle. Why do you continue to choose strife? Do you really want to condemn your family to the path your war is setting them on?
Well...this may be tough to read if you're the weaponizer, and if it triggers you then it's striking a chord somewhere, and hopefully, it cuts through the darkness, somewhere deep down inside of you is a kernal of love, choosing to weaponize your kids is choosing to breathe life into war over peace.
Want to hear more, then listen to today's episode, click the link in my bio to be directed to listen on your audio platform of choice.
And for the love of God and his Kingdom...peace be with you today.
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“God’s love is unconditional. Be sure that yours is too!”
— Saint Augustine
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The podcast currently has 94 episodes available.