Message to Our Kids

🔥👋 Today, joined by my wife, Laura, we want to share a story that deeply impacted our lives during the COVID pandemic.

🔥 As we slowly emerged from lockdown, our kids faced a new school routine, alternating between in-person and homeschooling. 🧒📚 The cramped space in our small house 🏠 added to the chaos, revealing flaws in our parenting methods.👪 It was a challenging time for everyone, but amidst the uncertainty, a significant event occurred that would test our strength as a family.

During this period, Laura discovered a lump in her breast. The fear and worry were overwhelming, especially considering our family history with breast cancer. We embarked on a season of waiting, seeking medical advice, and scheduling tests. The waiting period was filled with anxiety, and we did our best to shield 🛡️ our children from our concerns until we had concrete answers. It was a time of introspection and reflection, where we realized the importance of opening up and supporting each other through difficult times. 💑✨🔥

In tomorrow's episode, we will delve deeper into this journey, exploring the emotions and challenges we faced as a family.

"Set aside time and allow certain hours to the welfare of your soul." - Saint Augustine

Speaking Light Over Your Kingdom,

_Rev.

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👋Today, Laura and I want to share a deeply personal journey—the battle my family and I faced with breast cancer. 👪⚔️

Over the next few episodes, I'll take you through the ups and downs, the fears, and how this experience shaped us. It's been a challenging yet incredible journey that brought us closer together. 👫

Every twist and turn, both good and bad, paved the way for where we are today. It's amazing how a few years can feel like an eternity when faced with a life-altering event.♾️ This journey changed us in ways that are hard to grasp unless you've been through it.

During this time, I often referred to it as "God's Forge," as if we were being molded into who we were meant to be. 🔨 ⚔️ We gained a new perspective on life and purpose. I believe there's a rite of passage for everyone, and we want to reach out to other couples fighting cancer. We understand the unique challenges you face and how it impacts your relationship.

I remember feeling grateful for the support we received from family and friends.👪❤️ But deep down, I longed for someone who truly understood. Connecting with others in similar situations brought immense comfort. Not everyone has a foundation of self-development, but that doesn't mean they can't find their way through. We all need support and understanding.

🔥Join us as we journey back to the beginning, unraveling the tale of the rise of the Queen.👑 It's a story of resilience, love, and the power of spiritual bonds.❤️ Through sharing our experiences, we hope to bring comfort, guidance, and a sense of camaraderie to all those walking a similar path.

🤝Thanks for tuning in today. Remember, you have incredible gifts within you. 🎁 Embrace them boldly. Stay tuned for the next part of our story.

"When regard for truth has been broken down or even slightly weakened, all things will remain doubtful." - Saint Augustine.

Speaking Light Over Your Kingdom,

_Rev.

🔥Ready to embark on an unprecedented journey of self-discovery and spiritual enlightenment? Accept "God's Challenge" and commit to an immersive 90-day experience that will transform your relationship with the divine.💫🙏

⚔️🔥 NOW is the decisive moment, dear Seeker. Your route to illumination awaits urgently at your fingertips, click this link, complete the form and you'll receive instructions via email on next steps, the challenge IS FREE for a very short period (we've gotta test some things out right?!) https://go.scendancy.com/gods-challenge-intake-2 🏰🚀🙏

🎧🔥❤️ Can you feel it? That lingering curiosity... the burning desire to delve deep into the unknown. There is a journey awaiting us, a journey that is both intimate and cosmic. In this episode of "Message to My Kids," we traverse an unfathomable realm – the mysterious kingdom within us.

Ever wondered about the fortresses we build around our hearts?🏰❤️ The protection we think we need from the world outside. But what if I told you that the real adventure lies not outside, but within the castle walls of your own heart?

As we take a leap back to the early days of Christianity, we will discover that our spiritual insights have often been cloaked by human interpretations, like soldiers holding swords, ready to defend.⚔️ But the question we need to ask ourselves is - what exactly are we defending?

🔥Join me on this exploration as we dare to lower the drawbridge, to venture into the stronghold of our own hearts. Let's kindle the flaming heart within, illuminating our path towards spiritual awakening. Tune in, and let's redefine what it truly means to live with faith.🔥💫

Speaking Light Over Your Kingdom,

_Rev.

🔥Ready to embark on an unprecedented journey of self-discovery and spiritual enlightenment? Accept "God's Challenge" and commit to an immersive 90-day experience that will transform your relationship with the divine.💫🙏

⚔️🔥 NOW is the decisive moment, dear Seeker. Your route to illumination awaits urgently at your fingertips, click this link, complete the form and you'll receive instructions via email on next steps, the challenge IS FREE for a very short period (we've gotta test some things out right?!) https://go.scendancy.com/gods-challenge-intake-2 🏰🚀🙏

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In July of 2021, I found myself in a tough spot, feeling the weight of my challenges. Training for a Spartan race, I realized my stress levels were overwhelming. It was a wake-up call to confront the darkness within and make a change.

So I embarked on a transformative journey, which I now call "God's challenge." I let go of escapes and embraced new habits. Now, we're launching this challenge with 18 people, offering a 90-day journey to deepen connections to ourselves and God—for free.

The kingdom of heaven is within reach, but so is the kingdom of darkness. Join us to confront your challenges and discover the light within. It won't be easy, but the rewards are immeasurable. This is your chance to step into something extraordinary.

Listen to the voice urging you to take this chance, and silence the voice of doubt. We'll fight the darkness within and heal the pain of the past. This is your call, your opportunity to join us on this life-changing experience.

Click the link, follow your heart's call, and sign up for God's challenge. We believe in you and can't wait to see you on the other side.

"O Holy Spirit, descend plentifully into my heart. Enlighten the dark corners of this neglected dwelling and scatter there Thy cheerful beams." - Saint Augustine

Blessings on your path,

Rev. Benjamin Norman

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I want to share something that has had a profound impact on my life over the past five years. It's all about persistence and perseverance—the two essential ingredients for reaching your goals. You see, most people tend to give up when things get tough.

If you truly want to create the life you desire, you have to put in the work. That means facing your inner demons, diving into the darkness, and accepting that it won't be an easy journey. Being a high performer, someone with discipline and structure, isn't for everyone. Most people choose to take the easy way out and settle for mediocrity. They'd rather spend their days on the couch watching football than pursue a life that ignites their passion and fulfills their dreams for their family.

So, my friend, it's decision time. Will you settle for mediocrity or rise up and pursue your dreams? The choice is yours, and only you can make it. If you're ready to embark on this journey, reach out to me. Let's have a conversation and figure out the steps you need to take every day to overcome the pain and obstacles that are holding you back. Remember, you have the power to create the life you desire.

" God provides the wind, but man must raise the sails." - Saint Augustine

Blessings on your path,

Rev. Benjamin Norman

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Today, I want to share a personal story that revolves around a topic close to my heart: the pain of our past. It's about those lingering emotions and traumas we've buried deep inside, the ones we haven't fully faced or processed.

When faced with challenging situations like heartbreak or traumatic events, our instinct is often to endure and push through. We seek support from our loved ones, coaches, counselors, or therapists. Yet, if we haven't truly released the pain and emotions tied to those experiences, they can hold us back from reaching our fullest potential. They become barriers preventing us from moving forward on our journey of growth and development.

However, once we're in that darkness together, speaking more darkness won't serve us. It's time to illuminate our surroundings, to distinguish between light and dark, and to find our footing amidst the pain. Side by side, we work towards banishing the darkness, clearing the path for transformation. It's astonishing how quickly our lives change once we address the root of our pain and release the emotional weight we've carried.

So here's the deal, my dear listeners. If you feel stuck in your relationships, be it with your spouse or with yourself, if you're yearning to reach the next level in life, now is the time to reach out to me. Together, we'll enter the arena and fight the darkness as a team. I'll equip you with the necessary tools, systems, processes, and mindset to transform your life completely. When you step into the ring with me, I am by your side, wholeheartedly invested in your progress. Whether it's strengthening your connection with your spouse, improving your parenting skills, or discovering your life's purpose, I'm here to guide you spiritually, emotionally, physically, and mentally.

"Father, I am seeking: I am hesitant and uncertain, but will you, O God, watch over each step of mine and guide me." - Saint Augustine

Blessings on your path,

Rev. Benjamin Norman

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Today, I want to share a message of hope and courage with you.

No matter what daunting task or new venture we undertake, whether it's starting a business, pursuing dreams, or rebuilding relationships, we face challenges. But amidst the difficulties, we celebrate every small victory.

Undeniably, the road ahead is challenging and far from easy. Starting something new is never a simple task, and many people give up before taking the first step. Therefore, I want you to honor yourself just for having the courage to begin. Taking that initial step is often the hardest part. But once you do, everything feels fresh, interesting, and exciting. With each step, your momentum grows. Walking turns into jogging, jogging into running, and running into sprinting. Eventually, you find yourself participating in an obstacle course race, fueled by your determination.

Stay committed to your vision, never give up, and never compromise your dreams. Always follow your heart. Celebrate every small victory along the way. And if you stumble, remember to pick yourself back up. When you reach your destination, take a moment to kneel and thank God for guiding and carrying you through the tough times. Thank yourself for never quitting on your soul and for fighting against the darkness that attempts to keep you small. Today, darkness has no place within you or your future. Refuse to succumb to doubt, insecurity, and fear. Embrace the light and tell the shadows to step aside.

"God loves each of us as if there were only one of us." - Saint Augustine

Blessings on your path,

Rev. Benjamin Norman

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Today, we want to address a trap that the $10 billion self-development industry has set for those on the path of self-improvement. It's time to bypass the cycle of self-limiting beliefs and embrace true transformation.

In your quest for personal growth, you've probably encountered countless coaches, consultants, and trainers who promise to help you unearth and overcome your limiting beliefs. And while these resources can be valuable, we've noticed a crucial missing element in many of them that can save you valuable time on your journey.

Throughout our own experiences spanning over a decade, we've learned that identifying limiting beliefs is only the first step. Merely convincing ourselves that we are "good enough" or "worthy" is not enough to break free from these beliefs and achieve lasting change.

Here's the issue: even after investing in programs and implementing so-called belief overrides, we often find ourselves repeatedly triggered by the same old limiting beliefs. It's frustrating and disheartening. Shouldn't we have moved past these beliefs if we've done the work and know they're not true?

The truth is, we've discovered a vital piece of the puzzle that is often overlooked: healing the underlying pain associated with these triggers. By delving into the root cause of our triggers, we can address and heal the wounds from our past. These wounds serve as the breeding ground for limiting beliefs, and until they are healed, the cycle will persist.

Don't fall into the trap of stopping at identifying your limiting beliefs without addressing the pain that fuels them. By healing that pain, you'll experience true transformation. When you reach a point of deep healing, there's no need to rely on belief overrides because you'll simply know your inherent truth at your core.

As the Oracle said in The Matrix, "You'll know it balls to bone." When you reach this level of self-awareness and healing, you won't need to seek acceptance externally because you'll understand that you are already accepted. Acceptance is your birthright, and you'll feel it in every fiber of your being.

If you find yourself trapped in a cycle of oscillating between limiting self-beliefs and temporary overrides, don't worry. We're here to help you break free from this pattern once and for all. Reach out to us, message us, and let's connect. Together, we'll guide you towards lasting transformation that will shape the rest of your life.

"If we live good lives, the times are also good as we are such the times." - Saint Augustine

Blessings on your path,

Rev. Benjamin Norman

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On today's episode Laura and I share a morning ritual we do together that helps us sustain our connection to each other. As You know, one of the keys to finding balance in life is discovering those moments of stillness amidst the chaos.

What I truly appreciate about the work we've done in our relationship is how Laura always holds up a mirror for me to see myself, even when I'm deeply immersed in my own experience. We're embarking on a new path together, following the calling that God has placed on our lives. It involves a lot of hard work and navigating through overwhelming feelings.

Laura and I have developed a morning ritual that has become an essential part of our lives. Sometimes, it even extends into the evening, depending on how the day unfolds.

This simple ritual, which only takes a minute, makes a tremendous difference. We encourage you to allocate one minute a day for this practice because everyone has at least that much time.

So, my dear listeners, let's take the time to nurture our connections and find those moments of stillness amid the chaos. Together, we can create lives filled with light, love, and deep connection. Keep fighting for what you believe in, and remember that you are never alone on this journey.

"Wicked men obey from fear; good men from love." - Saint Augustine

Blessings on your path,

Rev. Benjamin Norman

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When I stop you and give you tidings of the future and say:

"Don't condemn your family tree."

You're probably not aware that is what you are doing...

and you're not just doing it to your immediate family, but your larger extended family—your brothers, sisters, their spouses, aunts, uncles, cousins and grandparents etc etc who make up your family tree.

This is something I see EVEN INSIDE MY OWN FAMILY TREE and it continues to bother me every single day.

I often don't understand why people have such a blatant disregard for the life experience of the people on the other side of the condemnation...and I am especially baffled by family members, in the same tree and forest of trees do it as well.

To the point where the family members each would show a stranger on the street more care and comfort than their own family line who they treat with contempt and condemnation.

Want to come face to face with this for real instead of theoretically or conceptually?

Go sit in a graveyard and pretend you're dead in 20 minutes and write a letter to the family member your battling with, and watch what comes up.

The thing is....

When I work with people and help them uncover their struggles, I see a pattern. Deep-rooted pain and unresolved issues from the past keep resurfacing, causing conflicts within relationships. Over time, these unresolved pains can cause division and continue to greatly increase the distance within our extended families.

The truth is, much like you didn't get a choice in the color of the sky, or where you were born...

Family is family, and in my life, there's no bond stronger than that.

Now, maybe you're listening, and you have family members you're not connecting with. Perhaps there's an ongoing conflict that you've been sweeping under the rug for years. Well, let me tell you, it's time to address it.

Because every day you delay facing those unresolved issues, you're allowing pain and darkness to seep into your own family tree.

Remember, tolerating darkness within your family means you're likely tolerating it elsewhere in your life too.

Our time on this Earth is limited, and we need to make the most of it.

Let's not leave behind a legacy of broken relationships and pain.

Instead, let's be the ones who bring light into our family, mend the fractures, and restore the love that should flow through our veins.

"It is easy to love the people far away. It is not always easy to love those close to us. Bring love into your home for this is where our love for each other must start." - Mother Teresa

Blessings on your path,

Rev. Benjamin Norman

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