We’ve been learning recently about how to have healthy relationships; connections with others. We gained some tools to help us to live out this verse:
Romans 12:18
If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone.
This morning, we learn about the ultimate goal and why this is such an important issue in our lives. The initial benefit is that the quality of our lives is far better when our relationships are healthy. We have more peace, joy, and fulfillment in life.
However, there is a much more significant goal than our own comfort in life for having healthy relationships.
Their eternity may be hanging on the balance of our relationship with them. Their decision of Heaven or Hell may be decided based on the ability of them to receive the gospel through us. If we choose to live with this reality in the forefronts of our minds, all of the petty things that we get into arguments about would matter far less.
If we live with this reality in mind, it will be far easier to live out Romans 12:18 and that’s the only way that we can push beyond verse 18 and live out verses 19-21:
Romans 12:18-21
18 If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone. 19 Do not take revenge, my dear friends, but leave room for God’s wrath, for it is written: “It is mine to avenge; I will repay,” says the Lord. 20 On the contrary:
“If your enemy is hungry, feed him;
if he is thirsty, give him something to drink.
In doing this, you will heap burning coals on his head.”
21 Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good.
We are called to live at peace with everyone, as far as it depends on us, and to overcome evil with good. Even when it comes to our enemies, we are called to feed them when they are hungry, to give them drink when they are thirsty; to serve their needs.
This prepares the way for others to receive the good news about Jesus and all that the Kingdom of God offers through us. It lowers mountains and raises up valleys. It breaks down barriers and demolishes the lies of the enemy.
It may burn some people up, it may get some people saved, but living this way will certainly make an impact on the lives of those around us. It’s hard to ignore it when you just can’t keep a person down or get them to not do good in return!
As much as it depends on us… Here is the reality so that we maintain a healthy expectation in our relationships.
Not even Jesus, God face-to-face in the flesh, was able to forge good and healthy relationships with everyone. He always did good to them, but they didn’t always return that favor. Many hated Him, despised Him, gossiped about Him, and were even so enraged toward Him to the point of screaming for Him to be crucified…
Jesus lived a perfect, sinless life. He forgave them even from the cross. Yet, they still rejected Him.
However, some received Him and chose to lay down their own lives to follow Him. Those who received Him forged a relationship with Him that will last far beyond this lifetime! Jesus said:
Matthew 10:32-33
Whoever acknowledges me before others, I will also acknowledge before my Father in heaven. But whoever disowns me before others, I will disown before my Father in heaven.
The Bible describes our relationship with God and His Kingdom in several different ways. We are God’s children, His friends, but also His servants.
God freely gives us His grace expressed in many different forms. One of the forms of God’s grace are gifts that He gives to us that enable and equip us to serve others. His purpose is that through our relationships with others, that we would serve them. In doing so, they are brought into an encounter with God’s Kingdom.
If it is through our relationships with others that God wants to reach people with His grace and with the good news of His salvation through service, what do you think the enemy is going to attack? Is it any wonder, then, th