In this episode of Mindset Bytes, therapist & high-achiever coach Christina Rogers explores what happens when people label your standards as “too high” — and why they’re probably wrong.
We talk about the difference between unrealistic expectations and refusing to settle. As high achievers, we’re told to lower our standards to avoid disappointment — in love, business, friendships, and life decisions.
But what if your “high standards” are actually self-respect, clarity, and alignment?
Inside, we explore:
The myth of “you're being too picky”
Why high-achievers experience more friction when they hold boundaries
How to know whether a “no” is actually protecting your future
Why patience, alignment, and full-body yes decisions matter
Filtering advice based on who it's coming from
If you've ever wondered whether you’re asking for too much — this episode reminds you:
You’re not asking for too much. You're asking the wrong people.
Keywords: high achiever mindset, standards, boundaries, self-worth, high-value relationships, mindset podcast, personal growth, don’t settle, alignment, self-respect, clarity, high standards vs expectations, choosing yourself, full body yes, high achiever therapy