In this episode of Picking Daisies, Mary sits down with financial therapist Lindsey Konchar to unpack the emotional side of money. Together, they dive into how our early money stories shape our adult habits, the shame that often surrounds finances, and why open conversations—especially within families—are essential.

Lindsey blends behavioral therapy with practical financial tools to help families, especially stay-at-home parents, rethink their relationship with money. They discuss everything from financial infidelity and money dynamics in relationships to teaching kids how to spend with intention (and yes, even how TikTok Shop fits into it all).

This is more than a budgeting chat—it’s a fresh, honest take on financial self-care, how to spend in a way that feels good, and how to raise financially aware kids without fear or scarcity.

Takeaways:

• Over 90% of Americans experience financial stress—you're not alone.
• Your money story is learned young (by age 10!) but can be changed.
• Intentional spending should create joy and reduce chaos—not shame.
• Stay-at-home parents contribute in ways that deserve recognition and partnership.
• Avoiding money conversations only adds to the stress—especially in relationships.
• Kids can sense financial tension, even if it’s unspoken—so include them.
• Family meetings and honest conversations build trust and confidence.
• Use resources like podcasts to support your journey toward financial peace.

Whether you’re in a relationship, parenting little ones, or just trying to break the cycle of paycheck-to-paycheck living, this episode offers thoughtful, doable steps for anyone ready to shift their money mindset.

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