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As a military spouse, it can be tempting to play small…to set small goals…or to not set goals at all. Perhaps you are PCSing this year, or you know your spouse will be gone a lot, or your kids are at an age where it feels impossible to pursue any of your own passions.
Of course, there will be challenges and obstacles that get in the way of you pursuing your goals. In fact, you might not achieve your goals. And you might feel discouraged or defeated. So does that mean you shouldn’t set goals?
In this episode we’re talking about whether it makes sense to set goals for your season of life, what happens when you don’t set goals, and what I think you should do instead.
Can’t wait to unpack this with you!
Better Together,
Christine
MENTIONS
Free LIVE Training on How to Create Your Best Year Yet as a Military Spouse on JAN 17 inside the Free Milspouse Community.
RESOURCES
Free Unstuck Coaching Session
Free Clarity Workshop
Milspouse Purpose Playbook: Discover Who You Are Meant to Be
What Matters Most Worksheet
Design a Life You Love Assessment
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The most common goals and resolutions for a new year often revolve around health and fitness. But another way to help you grow in 2024 is by setting a reading goal.
For some this is a goal to read a book. For others, the goal involves choosing one book to read each month. And for some, the goal is even higher.
This bonus episode is designed to encourage you to set a reading goal for your year (be it one book or 100 books). And to give you a few book recommendations to get you started.
Better Together,
Christine
MENTIONS
Top 12 Reads of 2019
The Book List: What Having a Third Child Taught Me About Setting Goals
Top 10 Book List, 2020 Edition
Ep 52. My Top 10 Books of 2021
Ep 86. How Can I Read More Books?
Ep 126. What to Read in 2023
Free Milspouse Community
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Free Unstuck Coaching Session
Free Clarity Workshop
Milspouse Purpose Playbook: Discover Who You Are Meant to Be
What Matters Most Worksheet
Design a Life You Love Assessment
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Last week on the podcast we talked about the number one thing you need to do before you make a new year’s resolution or set any goals for your year.
Today we’re talking about a simple framework that will help you be more intentional in 2024, whether or not you make a resolution for your year. Choosing a word for your year can infuse intentionality into your year, even if you don’t have a specific goal you are working towards.
But how do you choose a word of the year? How do you know it’s the right word? Can it be more than one word? And how exactly will it help you be more intentional?
Let’s talk about it!
Better Together,
Christine
MENTIONS
Free Milspouse Community
Ep 181. Before You Make a New Year’s Resolution, Do This FIRST
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Free Unstuck Coaching Session
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Milspouse Purpose Playbook: Discover Who You Are Meant to Be
What Matters Most Worksheet
Design a Life You Love Assessment
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Hey Amazing Milspouse,
Happy New Year!! Do you have any resolutions for the year? Before you say yes, give this episode a listen! In it we unpack ONE THING you should do before you make any resolutions or goals for your year.
And yes, even if you’re not planning on making any new year’s resolution, I still recommend you do this. Want to know what it is? Then start listening!
Better Together,
Christine
MENTIONS
Free Milspouse Community
Design a Life You Love Assessment
RESOURCES
Free Unstuck Coaching Session
Free Clarity Workshop
What Matters Most Worksheet
Milspouse Purpose Playbook: Discover Who You Are Meant to Be
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Honest question. On a scale from one to ten, how much does this time of year fill you and fuel you with joy? And how much does this time of year leave you feeling exhausted, stressed, and maybe even a little burned out?
Today, we're having a conversation about burnout:
Is what you are experiencing a temporary feeling of stress, or are you headed towards burnout? Let’s find out!
Better Together,
Christine
MENTIONS
Milspouse Purpose Playbook: Discover Who You Are Meant to Be
RESOURCES
Free Unstuck Coaching Session
Free Clarity Workshop
Free Milspouse Community
What Matters Most Worksheet
Design a Life You Love Assessment
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You are more than a milspouse. Absolutely. But the reality is that, for many of us, being a military spouse becomes a large part of our identity. And the longer that our spouse serves, the more this is true. There’s a shared culture, experience, language, and understanding that comes with living the military lifestyle.
So what happens when your spouse reaches the end of their service? What does that mean for you and for your identity?
That’s the question I explore with Jen McDonald. Jen is an award-winning author and podcaster. She’s the author of the book, You Are Not Alone: Encouragement for the Heart of a Military Spouse, and Milspouse Matters: Sharing Strength Through Our Stories, which was released in October 2023. Jen is the host of the Milspouse Matters podcast and The Christian Milspouse podcast, with a mission to strengthen and encourage military spouses.
Better Together,
Christine
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Leave a Show Review
Connect with Jen
jen-mcdonald.com
Milspouse Matters Book
You Are Not Alone: Encouragement for the Heart of a Military Spouse
RESOURCES
Free Unstuck Coaching Session
Free Clarity Workshop
Self-Guided Clarity Course
Free Milspouse Community
What Matters Most Worksheet
Design a Life You Love Assessment
There’s a big difference between those who dream of pursuing a goal or making an impact, and those that actually do. Today’s guest is someone who takes action.
Monica Bassett, is the Founder and CEO of Stronghold Food Pantry. She is the 2022 Armed Forces Insurance Army Spouse of the Year, a huge advocate for military families, and on a mission to ease the burden of food insecurity and shine a light on undernourishment of military families. But even more than that, she is a powerhouse mama, and a fantastic example of the power of having a strong ‘why.’
We talk about her experience as a ‘late career’ military spouse, her journey to find fulfillment without a career, where her passion for addressing food insecurity among military families came from, and the challenge of learning to juggle motherhood with a nonprofit startup. Buckle up for a great conversation!
Better Together,
Christine
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Leave a Podcast Review: https://milspousemastermind.com/show
Connect with Monica
strongholdfoodpantry.org
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Book a Free Coaching Call
Free Clarity Workshop
Clarity Course
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What Matters Most Worksheet
Design a Life You Love Assessment
During this holiday season, it can be tempting to fixate on how far we are away from family, or that we don't get to spend a holiday with our loved ones. But when we stay focused on the negative, it leads us down the spiral of comparison, frustration, and discontentment with life.
We have the opportunity and the ability to reframe our thoughts and to change our lives simply by starting with gratitude. Gratitude helps us embrace life. It allows us to become more resilient and to thrive as military spouse. It helps us get unstuck and craft a life with purpose.
Crafting a life with purpose doesn’t necessarily mean doing something noteworthy or showy. It doesn’t necessarily involve starting a business, obtaining a certain degree or title, or speaking to large groups of people. It means that we approach each day with intentionality and choose to make today matter.
One way we can do that is just by spreading intentional acts of kindness. Today’s episode is going to focus on one organization that does just that. Ready to learn more? Then let’s dive in.
Better Together,
Christine
MENTIONS
Free Clarity Workshop
Connect with Brittany
givingtuesdaymilitary.com
RESOURCES
Self-Guided Clarity Course
Free Milspouse Community
What Matters Most Worksheet: https://milspousemastermind.com/values
Design a Life You Love: https://milspousemastermind.com/growthwheel
Leave a Show Review: https://milspousemastermind.com/show
Work With Me: milspousemastermind.com/unstuck
Most of us, whether we realize it or not, have specific thoughts, feelings and emotions tied to the holidays. A lot of that has to do with our past experiences, traditions, and what feels comfortable and familiar to us.
The real challenge for us is often when what’s possible this year, isn’t what we’ve come to know or expect. Perhaps this year your spouse will be deployed. Or you just moved overseas and you won’t be able to make it to the family reunion.
Perhaps you moved somewhere that doesn’t celebrate Thanksgiving or Christmas in the same way you’ve grown accustomed to. Perhaps you’re living in climate that doesn’t get cold. I get that. It’s been a few years since I’ve experienced a true change of seasons.
So what can we do when our expectations don’t match our reality? And how can we make this holiday season meaningful, regardless of where we currently live? Let’s talk about it.
Better Together,
Christine
MENTIONS
Book A Free Coaching Session
Free Clarity Workshop
Self-Guided Clarity Course
Free Milspouse Community
RESOURCES
What Matters Most Worksheet: https://milspousemastermind.com/values
Design a Life You Love: https://milspousemastermind.com/growthwheel
Leave a Show Review: https://milspousemastermind.com/show
Upward mobility in a thriving career is often cited as one of the biggest pain points for military spouses. But foreign service spouses also face this challenge, which is what this conversation is all about. I chat with Rona Jobe, a foreign service spouse, who is doing something about the lack of career options for foreign service and military spouses.
As an Eligible Family Member (EFM) of a Foreign Service Officer, Rona experienced career interruptions from frequent moves due to her husband’s career, which meant she had to re-establish her career every time they moved to a new post.
Rona founded LVL-Up Strategies in 2020 as an opportunity to make an immediate impact in two communities: the U.S. military/foreign service spouse community and the small business community. Now in its fourth year, LVL-Up Strategies provides opportunities for foreign service and military spouses to thrive professionally and use their extensive experience and varied perspectives to help small business owners thrive and grow.
If you have been frustrated by a lack of career opportunities or career progression, or you just need the reminder that all of us have the ability to make a difference in the status quo, definitely give this episode a listen!
Better Together,
Christine
MENTIONS
Connect with Rona
https://www.lvlupstrategies.com
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/lvlupstrategies/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/LVLUpStrategiesLLC
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lvlup.strategies/
RESOURCES
Free Clarity Workshop
Self-Guided Clarity Course
Free Milspouse Community
What Matters Most Worksheet: https://milspousemastermind.com/values
Design a Life You Love: https://milspousemastermind.com/growthwheel
Leave a Show Review: https://milspousemastermind.com/show
Work With Me: milspousemastermind.com/unstuck
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