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- 15. Another Strong Widow: Meet Janice Bell
In our very first guest interview, we chat to Janice Bell, also known on Instagram as @anotherstrongwidow.
With raw honesty, Janice shares with us:
- The beautiful love story between two geologists
- The cancer diagnosis that changed everything
- The effects of anticipatory grief
- Life as a young widowed solo mom of three
- Dealing with her own cancer diagnosis while still grieving her husband
- How she is growing to love her new self
- Her thoughts on dating
Plus much more.
Be sure to follow Janice on Instagram, and check out her blog at anotherstrongwidow.com
carolyngowercoaching.com.au & johnpolocoaching.com
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MONTHLY SUPPORTERS receive the following:
$4.99 and Up - Receive our deepest gratitude for your support & buy a coffee for John and a green tea for Carolyn to keep us going while we’re recording :)
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1 hr 1 min - 14. Sit Down And Shut Up !
On Valentine's Day 2017, approximately 13 months after his wife Michelle passed away, John saw one of his widowed friends being judged and treated really badly on Facebook for wanting to find love again... and he was angry! So he grabbed pen and paper and wrote his most popular piece of work to date, Sit Down And Shut Up. It quickly went viral!!
It was so popular because it was relatable to so many widowed people... people who are being judged every day for simply wanting to find happiness again after going through the hell of losing their soulmate.
In this episode we share John's written piece with you and have a discussion around some of the judgements that people can make. We wanted to do this episode because this is something we witness so often with our clients, with our widowed friends and even ourselves.
Direct Link to written piece :: Sit Down. & Shut Up.
carolyngowercoaching.com.au & johnpolocoaching.com
Join our new Facebook Group by clicking here : https://www.facebook.com/groups/696138811624151/?ref=share
MONTHLY SUPPORTERS receive the following:
$4.99 and Up - Receive our deepest gratitude for your support & buy a coffee for John and a green tea for Carolyn to keep us going while we’re recording :)
$9.99 Option - Receive our deepest gratitude for your support PLUS you will automatically be entered into a monthly drawing to win a 60 minute "Sip & Chat" with BOTH John and Carolyn to be held on Zoom. You can bring along your drink of choice, and we are all yours for one entire hour. We spend the hour however you want. It can be a coaching session, you can ask us anything, it can be a chat, or we can all share funny or special memories about our loved ones who’ve passed. You get to choose!
19 min - 13. WHAT'S THE REASON ??!!!!
In this episode John and Carolyn discuss the platitude that grievers know all too well, "Everything happens for a reason".
While it's usually said with love, it is of no comfort whatsoever when your person dies, so in this episode we'll explain why this is and share some more helpful options.
If you've found yourself offering this platitude to a grieving friend, this is a really valuable episode to listen to! It will help you to understand and to be better equipped to support a loved one in the future... and at the end of the day, that's the most important thing.
carolyngowercoaching.com.au & johnpolocoaching.com
Join our new Facebook Group by clicking here : https://www.facebook.com/groups/696138811624151/?ref=share
MONTHLY SUPPORTERS receive the following:
$4.99 and Up - Receive our deepest gratitude for your support & buy a coffee for John and a green tea for Carolyn to keep us going while we’re recording :)
$9.99 Option - Receive our deepest gratitude for your support PLUS you will automatically be entered into a monthly drawing to win a 60 minute "Sip & Chat" with BOTH John and Carolyn to be held on Zoom. You can bring along your drink of choice, and we are all yours for one entire hour. We spend the hour however you want. It can be a coaching session, you can ask us anything, it can be a chat, or we can all share funny or special memories about our loved ones who’ve passed. You get to choose!
24 min - 12. In Our Words
In this week's season one finale episode, John and Carolyn share some of their favorite pieces that they've written. There's words of grief & deep sadness, hope, frustration, anger, love, gratitude and so much more... and it's all "in our words".
On a lighter note, we discover some more different meanings for common terms used in American and Australian language (much to John's shock) and we share a little about some of the exciting things we have coming up when we return for season two on May 10th.
We also decided to release this episode without any editing, so there's a few unexpected extras in there as well!
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MONTHLY SUPPORTERS receive the following:
$4.99 and Up - Receive our deepest gratitude for your support & buy a coffee for John and a green tea for Carolyn to keep us going while we’re recording :)
$9.99 Option - Receive our deepest gratitude for your support PLUS you will automatically be entered into a monthly drawing to win a 60 minute "Sip & Chat" with BOTH John and Carolyn to be held on Zoom. You can bring along your drink of choice, and we are all yours for one entire hour. We spend the hour however you want. It can be a coaching session, you can ask us anything, it can be a chat, or we can all share funny or special memories about our loved ones who’ve passed. You get to choose!
49 min - 11. Carolyn Interviews John
In this episode Carolyn gets to ask John all the challenging questions.
We hear about:
- John and Michelle's high school romance and how they re-united after eight years apart
- The impact that the death of his hero and best friend, his Dad, had on him
- The engagement ring that went missing 10 minutes before his planned proposal
- How he coped with Michelle's devastating diagnosis and passing
- How he now helps other grievers
- Dating after loss
- And so much more
Spoiler alert: We also hear John's take on the Aussie accent (it's worth listening to just for this!)
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53 min - 10. Those Griefy Days
When someone you love dies, there's specific days such as anniversaries, birthdays and special dates that can be especially hard to navigate.
In this episode, John and Carolyn share some tips and strategies to help you through those griefy days.
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33 min - 9. Nobody Knew I Was Feeling Broken
We never know what someone else is going through on any given day, but we do have the ability to lift them up, even if it's just a little, and we also have the ability to bring them down further.
John and Carolyn share some of their personal experiences from the worst days of their lives and the insights this has given them.
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23 min - 8. John Interviews Carolyn
In this episode we get to know our co-host Carolyn a bit better as John delves deeper into her story.
You'll be laughing and crying as Carolyn shares:
- The mistake she made on a dating website that led her to meet Tony
- The demise of "Hardass Carolyn"
- Tony's accidental terminal cancer diagnosis 5 months into their relationship
- Tony's last big act of love
- Tony's lasting legacy to help others
- Some funny personal grief stories
- Why she got into coaching
- How her and John met from opposite sides of the world
Plus a whole lot more!
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1 hr 2 min - 7. Q & A Episode
In this episode John and Carolyn answer some questions from our listeners.
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34 min - 6. 365 Days... MY ASS!
Does grief really end at day 365? #NOPE carolyngowercoaching.com.au & johnpolocoaching.com
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25 min
About My Person Died Too
From the publisher's feed
Join widowed coaches John Polo and Carolyn Gower as we discuss all things grief and provide tips to help you rebuild after the death of someone close to you.
This is a safe space where your grief is fully witnessed. We know that grief can't be fixed, however it can be integrated into a life that is fulfilling for you while still honoring your person.
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